What do I do?

[Icarus]

I really like this girl at school, and I talk to her quite a bit on msn and stuff so we know each other quite well as friends and I want to ask her out. But right now she's got a boyfriend and I really wanna go out with her but what do I do. I can hardly just ask as she's going out with him or do I like wait to see if they split up?? Help!

[+44]

I really like this girl at school, and I talk to her quite a bit on msn and stuff so we know each other quite well as friends and I want to ask her out. But right now she's got a boyfriend and I really wanna go out with her but what do I do. I can hardly just ask as she's going out with him or do I like wait to see if they split up?? Help!


As hard as it might be i think you should tell her how you feel, If you get a response then thts brilliant but i went on like this and it was just bringing me down all the time thinking about someone. But if you tell her youll stop thinking about it as much yeh it may not be the reaction you want but thats life you always meet new people. :)

Whatever you do tell me how it goes.

[Jackk]

Tell her how you feel she might just feel the same way but doenst know if you like her back or just kill her bf.

[Ostinato]

I really like this girl at school, and I talk to her quite a bit on msn and stuff so we know each other quite well as friends and I want to ask her out. But right now she's got a boyfriend and I really wanna go out with her but what do I do. I can hardly just ask as she's going out with him or do I like wait to see if they split up?? Help!

Well if she's your friend, and she's with a guy at the moment - unfortunately I'd say you just have to accept it for now.

She's obviously with this dude for a reason, therefore you have no right to put her in any sort of awkward position by announcing you suddenly like her - complicating her relationship, friendship with you and her life in general.

I know it will be hard, but I'd say bide your time and let their relationship take it's course. It's not bound to last for years and years, so I'd say whilst shes with this guy just you try and get closer to her and build a stronger bond. Then, when she eventually splits with this guy you'll be there to support her and she'll maybe realise exactly how supportive and great you've been to her...

Don't jeaprodise your friendship by telling her just now though, as it's unlikely shes just gonna split up with this guy to be with you - you need to be realistic mate.

[Bef]

All you can do is tell her how you feel and see how it goes from there.

Ostinato, if he does that its kind of playing games, hiding your feelings always backfires.
Just be open and honest and see what happens.

[Ostinato]

All you can do is tell her how you feel and see how it goes from there.

Ostinato, if he does that its kind of playing games, hiding your feelings always backfires.
Just be open and honest and see what happens.

Well I don't think he should come out and tell this girl he likes her when shes with someone else. Surely if she wanted to be with him and not this other guy - she would end it with the other guy in the first place in order to get close to him...?

[Devil.Wont.Cry]

dont argue with Ostino. He or she (dont really knwo, soz mate :P) is an expert :P

[Papershop]

ostinato deserves an "essay writer of the century" award haha.

Basically, i would just wait
I wouldnt tell her how you feel just know tho because if shes not intending to dump him for you, then it will be abit funny around her.

[Ostinato]

Pmsl I'm a he... ;)

And lol @ paper... I can't help myself :P Once I get started I don't stop lmao - probably explains why I'm always getting in trouble for never shutting up and talking all the time! :P

[Nemo]

dont argue with Ostino. He or she (dont really knwo, soz mate :P) is an expert :PHe's a he, and i agree with him:8

[Icarus]

Thanks for the advice guys, I'll follow Ostinato's advice and wait till she splits up with this guy, cause i'm sure it won't be that hard I really like her and I have a feeling she's going off her boyfriend as she keeps moaning about how he wants her to go on a date practically everyday. So she might split up with him soon who knows. but Thanks again :)