This girl..

[Buzle]

Been a while since I've posted here :']

Well,
theres this girl, Meghan - I know I'm only 13, but I honestly feel like I love her. I know, people at 13 dont experiance true love, but I think I am.
I havent stopped thinking about her this whole weekend, and last night me, her and her friend went and saw "Disturbia". I had a girlfriend - but we only met at a party and made out, I didnt get to know her. But today [April 22nd] I dumped my other girlfriend cause I wanted to get to know her more.
But my friend Meghan broke up with her boyfriend and I've liked her for about 2 months, I dont know what to do - cause I think I might miss my chance with Meghan if I go back out with the other girl, but I really really like Meghan and I feel most comfortable with her.
Right now, Im not sure what to do at all.
Cause when me and Meghan are together - theres something.. Im not sure what it is, but I know that theres something there. And I like that feeling, but when Im with Jaymie [X-Girlfriend]I dont feel anything, its just making out and stuff. But when Im around Meghan, I feel butterflies and I really enjoy time with her.
Last night, when her boyfriend dumped her for someone else, she wasn't really crying much - but she was laughing because I was making her laugh. And we were outside the movies at the back and we flirted for about an hour, we went to the staircase and she put her head on my lap. And we flirted for so long, and I felt really comfortable with her.
But, on the other hand with Jaymie - I dont really flirt or anything with her, as I said, its just kissing and making out. [Which I do enjoy, but not all the time]
But, with Meghan - I wouldnt mind kissing and stuff, but I feel like I like her because of the relationship we would share.

So, I'm left with thinking - should I go back out with Jaymie? [Whom I do not really share a good relationship with] Or should I go out with Meghan? [Whom I feel I love.]

Please help, Im really confused.

Thanks,
Connor

[Swastika]

It all depends, because your so young it might not be love at all.
I say go with the hottest. :D

[Barkseh2131]

whatever you thinks best.

[Carlos]

You're 13 years old? And you type so maturely? Rare!!!

And now on-topic.. think of this situation as a win-win one. Whichever decision you take will enrich your life.

[PenguinFluid]

You're 13 years old? And you type so maturely? Rare!!!

And now on-topic.. think of this situation as a win-win one. Whichever decision you take will enrich your life.
I thought he was 15 lol
Anyway I would go with the other girl OT jaymee [sp] AS YOU OBV HAVE MORE FEELINGS for her

[soz bout caps]

[Seren]

Think of it as food my young Conor, say if your parents said to you, "Conor, you can have a choice for dinner tonight, your favourite meal or one you really hate.". You're not going to go for the one you don't like as you won't enjoy it as much as the one you really like.

[VPSwow]

Go for the one you know you have feelings for... There is no point in dating someone that you dont really care for.

True love means its ment to be and the way you have decribed how you feel, it sounds like true love to me.

[poll]

tbh seems as though you have answered your own question meghan u get on with her most,feel comfortable, flirty, love all that etc. u need to think hard not others see how things go just say to her recently i been thinkin about you alot and i like you then wait for a reply good luck with all

[YoManGo!]

Think of it as food my young Conor, say if your parents said to you, "Conor, you can have a choice for dinner tonight, your favourite meal or one you really hate.". You're not going to go for the one you don't like as you won't enjoy it as much as the one you really like.

unless youre on a diet :rolleyes:

but yeh, choose the one you like most.

[Zample]

First things first.. How can you even question this?
Listen, sure, you're only 13, but feelings still go pretty strong no matter what the age. I'm only 12 and I've already been ripped apart.
Plus: A relationship that consists of more action then actually relating to eachother is totally useless. I'd say go for Meghan, or atleast try.

DO NOT GO FOR THE HOTTEST.
That tart who posted that is laaame.
Go for the most interesting that you have more fun with.
Which I, quite obviously, presume is Meghan?



You're only young, though, so don't get tangled up too far in the web of premature love.

[Kyle.tk]

you say your inlove with this Meghan, but your debating whether to go out with this other girl?

If you were truely inlove, Meghan would come first and there wouldn't be a doubt who you wanted to ask out ETC..

[Sly]

Tbh you're being really selfish.

If you don't have feelings for Jaymie anymore, then don't go out with her for someone to make out with. She could be finding the right "one" but if you go out with her but don't have feelings for her, you're holding her back. You've got to think about the other person.

How would you feel if you and her were swapped around, and she was just carrying on the relationship for kiss while you really like her.

[Buzle]

Yeah, thanks for that Conor.

Thanks alot everyone, but things didnt turn out too well.
I told her I loved her, but she said that we're "BFFL's and Dating would ruin our relationship if we broke up."
..
I dont know what to do, I love her - but I dont think she wants me as a boyfriend.
No matter how much I tell her I like her, she says the same thing, over and over. :'[

I guess we're not mean't to be ..

[Seren]

Yeah, thanks for that Conor.

Thanks alot everyone, but things didnt turn out too well.
I told her I loved her, but she said that we're "BFFL's and Dating would ruin our relationship if we broke up."
..
I dont know what to do, I love her - but I dont think she wants me as a boyfriend.
No matter how much I tell her I like her, she says the same thing, over and over. :'[

I guess we're not mean't to be ..
at least you have her in your life as a friend and not have her in your life at all.

[Scammeroid]

Yeah, thanks for that Conor.

Thanks alot everyone, but things didnt turn out too well.
I told her I loved her, but she said that we're "BFFL's and Dating would ruin our relationship if we broke up."
..
I dont know what to do, I love her - but I dont think she wants me as a boyfriend.
No matter how much I tell her I like her, she says the same thing, over and over. :'[

I guess we're not mean't to be ..
Keep on trying man! Bring her flowers, or a box of chocolates or both! Tell her that you love her and that you can't live without her! I couldn't say anything like that as I am super shy.

If that fails... (Which it shouldn't!) Try the i'm skitso and i'll kill everyone if you refuse to go out with me. That should work! :D

[Buzle]

Thanks,
I dont really wanna bring her a box of chocolate or some flowers, but I guess Ill try and win her over some how..
Bahh, I wish I could just be with her..

[lAdmire]

I agree with Zample but if you love this girl then go && tell her. Why are people so shy to do this? Tell her && if she feels the same then you know, your off to a good start. If she doesn't then just tell her exactly how you feel.

[Scammeroid]

I agree with Zample but if you love this girl then go && tell her. Why are people so shy to do this? Tell her && if she feels the same then you know, your off to a good start. If she doesn't then just tell her exactly how you feel.
Well i'm probably the most shyest (even a word?) person ever. If I like someone I won't even hang around then,and I just try to ignore them. I don't ask anyone i like to go out with me in fear of her saying no, and then she will tell her friends and it'll spread around the school and everyone will laugh at me.

[le harry]

Just say to her, give it a try & if you guys break up promise each other before the relationship starts that you will still be friends.

[Hippacrocabear]

Go for megan.

[Buzle]

It all went out wrong,
I ended up blocking and deleting her on msn and haven't talked to her for 2+ days. ;)
But Im happy with my descision :]
She can burn lmao [Im nice, I know ;D]

[Virgin Mary]

Do as you please, teenage relationships don't last so have fun while you can.

[Jaiisun]

I think you've answered your own question.

You like Meghan more because you do a variety of things, not just make out!
Your relationship with Jaymie is repetitive; and that's plain boring.

Tell Meghan how you feel.

Making her laugh is great.
Not only does it cheer her up- i'm sure you get a great feeling knowing you're the one who's cheered her up.

It's good for her to know you're there for her.

Next time you do go out- make sure it's just you and her!

Oh, and, what's Disturbia like?!