Just plain old annoying now =l

[Nemo]

Ok well as some of you know, i am getting bullied, i've told my mum already, shes told the school yet right now nothing as been done.

Ok well today all this happened =/ and well its pretty much ******* me off;

Well this boy, ill call him jon and well in english he just takes my bottle and then puts a hole in it just cause i sed i use the same bottle for about a week coz i just want to drink water and im not exactly rich enof to buy water everyday from the canteen as they are expensive
Then at lunch the same boy "jon" gets the bottle fills it up and pours some water down my neck, and as he already know, water and sweat aggrovates me eczema, which makes it itch.. he also is meant to be my friend
Then 3 of my "friends" and doin some weird song thing and im there and then 2 of em are like "Lets kick niamh first and then go.." but then one of em who is my only real friend just doesnt really do anything, so one of em kicks me (not hard) but then i just push him hard... then he gets me in a headlock, as hes stronger than me, but i just pull his hair as i know that hurts him... so i just do that, then same thing happens with the other boy... and well its the only way for me to express my true anger on them
Then in my final lesson of the day, about 5 of my "so called" friends just sought of desert me on my own... to sit on a table, as the teacher says 4 to a table and well i was there with 2 of them first, so the other lot go and sit on another table, then the other 2 are acting all lame and stuff and then they just go.. and for the whole double period im just on my own..and there it is, i get counselling but it just doesnt help..

[Mr.Sam]

Speak to your head, and head of year - ask to be moved tutors?
I would say ignore them but that wouldn't help really.

Your head so take action against them.

[Willz]

Tell the Headteacher. If nothing happens. Ask your parents to move to another school.

[Nemo]

Speak to your head, and head of year - ask to be moved tutors? i wuldnt wanna do that as im really familiar with my class and stuff and all the other classes.. i just dont like.. either to.. different to me or just too rough.

I would say ignore them but that wouldn't help really. ye ur right.. it doesnt help... its really hard to ignore >.>


Your head so take action against them.
Well my mum has rung and i'd feel really uncomfortable speaking just... alone and stuff ;S and they've done it before and my head of year has spoken to them but that was like end of last year, so... well ;s yeah.

Tell the Headteacher. If nothing happens. Ask your parents to move to another school.
i could never move school.

[Mr.Sam]

Your head teacher is there to help - They are not Scary, just a normal person with more experience than other staff members Therefore the will help you. No need to be scared of them.

Tomorrow at break or lunch just go knock on his/her door and ask to speak to them and explain the situation.
If they say "Come speak to me next week if it continues" just say that it has been happening for a few months now and you want something done about it.


i wuldnt wanna do that as im really familiar with my class and stuff and all the other classes.. i just dont like.. either to.. different to me or just too rough.
ye ur right.. it doesnt help... its really hard to ignore >.>


Well my mum has rung and i'd feel really uncomfortable speaking just... alone and stuff ;S and they've done it before and my head of year has spoken to them but that was like end of last year, so... well ;s yeah.

[velocity]

get REAL friends.

[,Jess,]

Yeah talk to your head of year or something, maybe start to make other friends and get to know people from other classes. If you do that then it would make moving classes easier for you if you were more comfortable around the people.

[Nemo]

Your head teacher is there to help - They are not Scary, just a normal person with more experience than other staff members Therefore the will help you. No need to be scared of them.

Tomorrow at break or lunch just go knock on his/her door and ask to speak to them and explain the situation.
If they say "Come speak to me next week if it continues" just say that it has been happening for a few months now and you want something done about it.im not scared of them exactly, but i prefer my mum to talk to them and she has but nothing has happened..


get REAL friends.Harder than u think as everyone is in groups



Yeah talk to your head of year or something, maybe start to make other friends and get to know people from other classes. If you do that then it would make moving classes easier for you if you were more comfortable around the people.as i sed about the friends and the head of year and also i really would not like to move classes, and plus the way our classes are set out, it wuld be make me... mmmh not as smart as i culd be

[Jordie]

i dnt understand why you've made another thread about this

just go see your headteacher you dnt really need advice doing that do you?

[alexxxxx]

Erm. If it's really that bad, i'd consider moving schools.

[Axel]

Why would anyone want to bully Nemo :(.

And why'd you call the bully Jon :(.

Not really got an advice apart from finding some friends who don't treat you like crap.

[Nemo]

i dnt understand why you've made another thread about this

just go see your headteacher you dnt really need advice doing that do you?i didnt exactly ask for advice, just saying how angry i felt today after school... and imade this thread as i didnt realise the other 1 had been bumped ok? and i did this one about today.


;3425707']Erm. If it's really that bad, i'd consider moving schools.Its bad but not... spitting on me, crying really badly wen i get home bad... so i dont wna move schools


Why would anyone want to bully Nemo :(.

And why'd you call the bully Jon :(.

Not really got an advice apart from finding some friends who don't treat you like crap.
Lol dont worry jon ur no bully :p i just had the name jon in my head today >.< and ty for the advice all

[ColyTom]

get REAL friends.
Do you really think it is that straight forward?
I think you should think abotu what you right before you clog up this forum with "spam".

If you've settled in well then how come you are desserted and picked on.
Is that really what it feels like when you're settled in?
I think that changing school or even tutor will bennefit you greatly or even just telling your head of year will help.

[kingADZ]

If they do this to you there not really your "friends" are they.
Tell your head or something.

[velocity]

Do you really think it is that straight forward?
I think you should think abotu what you right before you clog up this forum with "spam".

If you've settled in well then how come you are desserted and picked on.
Is that really what it feels like when you're settled in?
I think that changing school or even tutor will bennefit you greatly or even just telling your head of year will help.
because, it really is that easy. you try being sent to a school where you know nobody, you've never seen these people before in your life.

i've been there, done it, made friends. i could go to school tomorrow and talk to anyone i want, chances are if you start talking often, they'll begin to like you. i said he needed real friends, because friends dont pour water over you, or laugh at you, thats NOT what a friend is. so yea, he should leave them and find people that like him, true friends.

& thanks for the rep, do you really think i care about green blocks?

[Nemo]

because, it really is that easy. you try being sent to a school where you know nobody, you've never seen these people before in your life.

i've been there, done it, made friends. i could go to school tomorrow and talk to anyone i want, chances are if you start talking often, they'll begin to like you. i said he needed real friends, because friends dont pour water over you, or laugh at you, thats NOT what a friend is. so yea, he should leave them and find people that like him, true friends.

& thanks for the rep, do you really think i care about green blocks?
yes well everyone has gone and grouped off, plus they are all closer to each other coz i took 4months of school in year 7 as my eczema was so bad, therefore they bonded closer than i am to them, but its not that easy to get other friends, especially in ur own class =/ and

moving to another school is not an option

[Ramones]

i have some advice for you. stop being you.
Sure if you want to keep getting "bullied" don't tell the headteacher, it's your choice. But if you'd rather actually be there friends and enjoy school then i have a little action plan for you.

1. Not sure if you do in r/l but don't associate yourself with finding nemo or anything else that 8 year old girls like, it's not cool.

2. If you want to be in with 'da kru' you gotta start to loosen up, if they do or take something from you don't sit there and cry about it either go get it back or take something of theres.

3. It sounds to me like you don't want to make any friends or join a group, if they have all bonded while you were having fun with your eczema why not make up for lost time.

overall i think you need to be a little more confident either way you go.
the choice is yours. Spragging on your 'friends', bullying back your 'friends' or getting some new 'friends' ok 'friend'

[Nemo]

i have some advice for you. stop being you.
Sure if you want to keep getting "bullied" don't tell the headteacher, it's your choice. But if you'd rather actually be there friends and enjoy school then i have a little action plan for you.

1. Not sure if you do in r/l but don't associate yourself with finding nemo or anything else that 8 year old girls like, it's not cool. Lmao my name isnt exactly to do with the fish nemo, i used to get there as a nickname from a girl i used to like.. just i dno on this its as the fish tho :s

2. If you want to be in with 'da kru' you gotta start to loosen up, if they do or take something from you don't sit there and cry about it either go get it back or take something of theres. I do do that, like he poked a whole in my bottle today... i through it at his face and his lip bled a little.

3. It sounds to me like you don't want to make any friends or join a group, if they have all bonded while you were having fun with your eczema why not make up for lost time. I tried and still do try to get in with them but every time i try they knock me back down with a stupid small comment.

overall i think you need to be a little more confident either way you go.
the choice is yours. Spragging on your 'friends', bullying back your 'friends' or getting some new 'friends' ok 'friend'Lol ok its just pretty hard
Thats basically about it.. all i can do is wait for the school to do really..

[Jam]

Can I Just Ask Mate Do They Muck About In Lessons?

[Tranquilox]

niamh, it's joe

i suggest you move schools

[brandon]

i feel 4 u mate.

[dirrty]

if things were so bad you would move schools or forms. so it cant be that bad then if your not willing to do either of those things.

[Dubble]

Fight back one of them touchs you punch them your hardest and they will never do it again or that bad get expeled so you dont need to go back to school.

[Shawnstra]

I am sure that some people in your school can be friends with you for whom you are. And this bullying must stop. From what you have said in your post, they have not only destroyed your personal property, but also used force and bullied you. You should tell someone who has more authority than your teacher, in my school, we call them HOLs (Head of levels). Explain to him that you can take it no longer, and go straight to the point, saying you are suffering from not only physical abuse but also emotional abuse.

Good luck in solving this problem :)

[paws]

Well, you're 12/13, you've just started a new school?
Just try to hang around with another group of friends.
Hopefully when you are friends, they'll defend you from
getting bullied.

If nothing happens, just go to the headmaster or w/e.
And if he don't sort it, you won't go school again.

[Nemo]

Can I Just Ask Mate Do They Muck About In Lessons?Yes they do.


niamh, it's joe

i suggest you move schoolsHi joe and i really don't wanna move as ill explain below


i feel 4 u mate.Why thank u.


if things were so bad you would move schools or forms. so it cant be that bad then if your not willing to do either of those things.Actually i am fixed on not moving schools as it would make them win and my school is like a really good school so i dont want to... also its getting sorted out


Fight back one of them touchs you punch them your hardest and they will never do it again or that bad get expeled so you dont need to go back to school.


I am sure that some people in your school can be friends with you for whom you are. And this bullying must stop. From what you have said in your post, they have not only destroyed your personal property, but also used force and bullied you. You should tell someone who has more authority than your teacher, in my school, we call them HOLs (Head of levels). Explain to him that you can take it no longer, and go straight to the point, saying you are suffering from not only physical abuse but also emotional abuse.

Good luck in solving this problem :)Thanks, and as i said my mum has told the teacher and stuff is being done.


Well, you're 12/13, you've just started a new school?
Just try to hang around with another group of friends.
Hopefully when you are friends, they'll defend you from
getting bullied.

If nothing happens, just go to the headmaster or w/e.
And if he don't sort it, you won't go school again.Well im in year 8 so not quite started but i did take 4months of school in year 7 because of my eczema >.> and there is no other ppl as everyone has gone in their groups...


So anyway, on thursday, 2 of the boys tried taking my bottle again, but my form tutor (who my mum had spoken to) was also there and saw and in a really angry voice shouted at them, then he let one go but he was talking to the "leader" for ages and then i hadn't spoken to him, then during maths he was obviously angry with me as he wouldn't give me a sheet the teacher asked him to hand out, then at lunch i went to eat with them and my proper friend and he just went to other end of the table. Then he started talking to some and then they ALL turned on me except the one proper friend, then they were all like "why did u grass on us to the head of year saying we bullied u for?" and i didnt even answer them but it was obivous... well not to them...

Then in my final lesson, which i have it with 1 of the boys and my proper friend and well he was angry with me for half the lesson, then he came up to me and made a joke and was like "high five for that!" and then he turned and sed "Hey sorry for that yeah?" and i was like "yeh w/e" and so thats it for now, i didnt go school today as i was ill but ill say what happens on monday.

[3d]

Ok well as some of you know, i am getting bullied, i've told my mum already, shes told the school yet right now nothing as been done.

Ok well today all this happened =/ and well its pretty much ******* me off;
Well this boy, ill call him jon and well in english he just takes my bottle and then puts a hole in it just cause i sed i use the same bottle for about a week coz i just want to drink water and im not exactly rich enof to buy water everyday from the canteen as they are expensive
Then at lunch the same boy "jon" gets the bottle fills it up and pours some water down my neck, and as he already know, water and sweat aggrovates me eczema, which makes it itch.. he also is meant to be my friend
Then 3 of my "friends" and doin some weird song thing and im there and then 2 of em are like "Lets kick niamh first and then go.." but then one of em who is my only real friend just doesnt really do anything, so one of em kicks me (not hard) but then i just push him hard... then he gets me in a headlock, as hes stronger than me, but i just pull his hair as i know that hurts him... so i just do that, then same thing happens with the other boy... and well its the only way for me to express my true anger on them
Then in my final lesson of the day, about 5 of my "so called" friends just sought of desert me on my own... to sit on a table, as the teacher says 4 to a table and well i was there with 2 of them first, so the other lot go and sit on another table, then the other 2 are acting all lame and stuff and then they just go.. and for the whole double period im just on my own..and there it is, i get counselling but it just doesnt help..
im not being funny and i only read your post so dont moan

but all that seems like they are winding you up thats all :S

[Nemo]

im not being funny and i only read your post so dont moan

but all that seems like they are winding you up thats all :SNot just winding me up, but also physical abuse which is just... mean and other stuff... plus i have been bullied since about yr3 and in the famous words of popeye "i can stands alot but i cant stands no more!"

[OMGitsaROSS]

tbh there is only one answer and you know it. So don't sought help from us, the only people who can help you are your parents and headmaster/mistress or head of year..

If they do nothing tell the press and get cash (THAT is a serious suggestion as I feel it would make the schools buck up, start with Local papers, then move onto national).

[alexxxxx]

I'm glad to see this might be getting sorted out.

I also think you should join a group out of school. (Sport? Scouts?) You could make some more friends there.

[Aflux]

Do you ever think it's because of your race or something like that because that's against the law [ I think ].

Don't make yourself an easy target, stand up for yourself.

[Nemo]

tbh there is only one answer and you know it. So don't sought help from us, the only people who can help you are your parents and headmaster/mistress or head of year..

If they do nothing tell the press and get cash (THAT is a serious suggestion as I feel it would make the schools buck up, start with Local papers, then move onto national).I didnt ask for help, ppl were just saying anyway as there were concerned... well wanted to help


;3437471']I'm glad to see this might be getting sorted out.

I also think you should join a group out of school. (Sport? Scouts?) You could make some more friends there.ye i was thinking of joining a sport.


Do you ever think it's because of your race or something like that because that's against the law [ I think ].

Don't make yourself an easy target, stand up for yourself.nah it aint race coz they are all diff races so it cant be that

[Cool--]

School's Are ment to be focused on bullying, If you have told your teachers and they havent done nothing about it thats not acceptable.

Maybe asked to move form/tutor group.

I bet you something else, When one of the bully's are on there own they dont start kiking you and being horrible to you, They do it in groups to "show off", I think it is pathetic.

[Rozi]

tbh -the school- needs to do somthing about bullying beause I know everyone in my "group" at -the school- was builled at sometime. Specialy Bethany. And so far I haven't seen anything positive happen about that.

Asked to get moved to 8A?

[Nemo]

School's Are ment to be focused on bullying, If you have told your teachers and they havent done nothing about it thats not acceptable.

Maybe asked to move form/tutor group.

I bet you something else, When one of the bully's are on there own they dont start kiking you and being horrible to you, They do it in groups to "show off", I think it is pathetic.yep ur right, they only do it in groups...


tbh -the school- needs to do somthing about bullying beause I know everyone in my "group" at -the school- was builled at sometime. Specialy Bethany. And so far I haven't seen anything positive happen about that.

Asked to get moved to 8A?
eww i hate 8A lol, it shuld be soughted now anyway

[Luckyrare]

If your mum has told the head teacher, try get beaten up. Get on the news and you will get money for interviews. :rolleyes:

OR you can move schools...

[Nemo]

If your mum has told the head teacher, try get beaten up. Get on the news and you will get money for interviews. :rolleyes:

OR you can move schools...
Or i can wait and see what happens on monday and how they are now that the teacher has told them, altho the money thing is tempting ^^

[Xibtz]

Id say, Build up your body for the next 2 months then kick their buts, thats what id do. But, Thats not really good advice.

[HotelUser]

I think you have no choice but to talk to the head or a trusted teacher, that way, that will handle it, but if that doesn't work

Ask your mom to call the bullies parents.

[Oreeo]

Rofl, I get bullyed to.

It's because i'm so tiny the boys like to pick on me, by pushing me, and I get ****** off easy. But I am good with my words. ;)


But the school won't do much, my mom has tried to make my bullies stop, didn't work. She phoned the school board, got the teachers into trouble etc..

[Hudds-Giants]

Going to the local press is actually a good idea. This will force your school at act, if they don't to begin with.

If they did this to me, I'd probably jump them in some way or form.

[chaos-man2006]

If you ask me they aint very good friends and i should no because this happens to me to but i have learned just to ignor it and if i am attacked i start a fight then... well lets just stop there.

[ChainLightning]

Me and 2 other lads at school bully this guy called Josh in the same way these people bully you, like ignoring him, getting away from him, moving tables, but he's really annoying, talks about sex all the time, thinks he's funny and stuff but now I've heard it from the victims point of view ill confront him and tell him how he annoys us and hopefully he'll stop it -.-
Soo.. just saying, do you reckon theres any reason they're bullying you?

[CJW93]

Go kick his ***!

[luke-p]

Go kick his ***!

Probably the best Idea, some people you can talk to and resolve your issues etc... But some *** holes just need a good *** wooping :P... Break his nose, make him cry etc etc etc.

[Jackboy]

I reckon you should sort this out yourself. Just learn to fight. If you really want these certain goons to leave you alone, learn to fight. I havn't been bullied before so its hard to give advice. If you learn to fight and stuff then you can sort them out yourself. Even if u get a boxing bag and learn to punch harder. This guy that got you in a headlock, i doubt hes that strong. And all you have to do is get out of it and punch him in the nose. Remember to knock it down or sideways because u only wanna break it and not kill him.