Please, please help me.

[jackass]

Okay this is a really long story, so I will cut it all short and simple. This girl I went out with before christmas, she was/is the only person I have ever loved. & I use the term "love" propely. Not just a "fad" over someone. It only lasted 2 weeks & she let me go. I have been trying to get over it for sometime, but I still love her & I am really struggling. I have tryed not looking at her & not making eye contact, but its too hard. Please help.

[WarezKid]

Wow, that been happening to me :(


you could try and think of other things?

talk or work with your mates, and you dont have to stop eye contact with her if you want, there nothing wrong with it

i mostly slove it by thinking that i will get someone better then i used to have [Doesnt work ;l] but it helps me with the day sometimes,

You can alway speak to her about how you feel and she could try an help you...

That all i can think of =]

[Yoshimitsui]

Happend to me recently, what i found out that works is if you carry on keping a good friendship as possible with her. And maybe make it so she maybe a TAD jelous maybe...? Talk with her mates if you know them nd over time she may begin to like you again, but you will need to build things up and keep at it as it wont happen instantly, may take a few weeks. But stand by her is the best option, if they know you care, the more they will hopefully realise.

[ahenthorn]

;l This is a tough one, Make her jealous is someways like flirting with other girls.

[YoManGo!]

move on. however you find it best, you gotta find out which way works for you.

[3420]

Sorry but two weeks... You need to get over it dude.. Sorry but you do "/.. Anything really over month is heartbreaking.. well anything is but two weeks is a little you know...

[Cwmbran]

I've had a problem like this before.
This is what I did;

I tried not to look at her, not talk not even mention her name or anything to do about her, also my friends helped me out by taking my mind off her by going out practically everynight and do something.

I still have feelings for this girl but it's nothing compared to what I had felt for her.
Hope you get over her soon.

[Charlie]

You can try and be friends with her, this might make you like her as just a friend because thats what you have with her. And, you can just try and let things run it's course, and carry on with what your doing now, it will be hard to get over someone that you love, but if you try and take your mind of things and do other stuff and see other people maybe, it'll help you get over her because you aren't thinking about her and how you love her.

[Haylz]

I know how it feels, try stay away from her a while or something. Or maybe just be friends and take stuff from there

[Catzsy]

You struggling to get over somebody you hardly know. Thing is when maybe if you had got to know her better then perhaps you would have let her go.
Its a fantasy really not reality. I think you may need a new diversion but only you will know when the time is right for you. =]

[Fonejacker]

Okay this is a really long story, so I will cut it all short and simple. This girl I went out with before christmas, she was/is the only person I have ever loved. & I use the term "love" propely. Not just a "fad" over someone. It only lasted 2 weeks & she let me go. I have been trying to get over it for sometime, but I still love her & I am really struggling. I have tryed not looking at her & not making eye contact, but its too hard. Please help.
blow up doll...

But if that fails you should keep busy... like Football :D

[Leeroy]

Happened to me .. you will get over her

[Simmzay]

Time heals everything - wait it out.

[Kissed]

Tbh, once your in love its well hard to get over someone.
The theory is that it takes half the time you were with someone to get over them, but in your case half the time you liked her. To fall in love with someone you must have liked her for longer than 2 weeks i'm guessing.
I was with someone for a year and it took me about 5 months to get over them. Once you love someone it doesnt ever go away, but the hurting does :].
So just hold in there &just try and have fun, whatever you do don't go on the rebound - it may seem real but it very often isn't.
How good is my advisage skillz todai?? :]
Good luck hunny we've all been there , xx

[jackass]

You struggling to get over somebody you hardly know. Thing is when maybe if you had got to know her better then perhaps you would have let her go.
Its a fantasy really not reality. I think you may need a new diversion but only you will know when the time is right for you. =]

What...? I do know her, I have known her for ages... :S
But thanks anyway.

& I have sorted it now anyway, thanks all. Thread closed. :)