BIG Problem

[3420]

Okai, me & girlfriend have been going out for 3 years now... But Just RECENTLY I've started to like someone else.... :| Thing is... I've started to loose feelings for her... I do love her but my feelings just go away when I speak to her a little... because recently we've been arguing Yeah? && Now we haven't even said Love you in 4 days... I'm really stuck... I don't want to just WASTE 3 year relationship ='[

[Ekalb]

Do something to enhance the relationship. Go on a really good date/spend time together doing something interesting. Or do something that will make her more attractive (Not necessarily physically) to you.

[VPSwow]

I think you should talk to her. Not about the other girl you like but about your relationship then maybe go to the cinema or out for a meal somewhere. :D

Good luck

[Dan2nd]

I think 'Love' is a word thrown around to often and people just say it because they want to make their relationship last if you really love someone you don't have to say it every day because your partner should already know it. Its natural for you to be attacted to other people even when your in a relationship.

[YoManGo!]

choose the one you like most.

simple.

[3420]

Uh, this is more complicated now... She knows about the other person && she is really upset by it.... I don't know what to do at all now... && It is long distanced But I only see her once a month

[Rizla,]

If it's long distance and you only see her once a month but you see this other girl all the time... then have the other girl as your bit on the side ;)

[3420]

I did it... I dumped my girlfriend.. but I don't want this other girl though.. yet because it will hurt my ex.... I really did cry alot today, while I was typing I couldn't do this more I got so much stufff on my mind.,.. I think it's just better to be single... I just said that to her && I cried my eyes out... but now if this girl locally works out... I dunno.. but I will get with my ex... if I can meet her a bit more frequently...

[YoManGo!]

good for you if youre like 13 and youve been going out 3 years. have some fun in life.

[3420]

I'm 14 "/ .. Nearly 15 soon...

[Haylz]

Aw :( I know what you mean by you don't want to go out with the other girl just yet, having just broken up with your ex, But in time try and get around it and maybe carry on with your ex as friends? :)

[:J05H]

You should let her go, gently, and try to still be friends with her. it's better letting her go sooner than later because to be honest, theres a 1 in 100 chance that your going to marry her, and you never know, she may feel the same. Hope this helps, Josh

[Shawnstra]

You need to be more dedicated to her. Spend more time with her, get each other presents, etc.