that lost girl.

[today]

I may sound really evil,sick minded but meh.

I dont feel sorry for the amily why? They LEFT the girl in the room WHEN the hotel had childcare services, would you leave such a young girl in a room, so what if you was checking every half hour, that DOESNT mean u can leave them alone at all

When i go on holiday with my family and friends, one is a 4yr we never leave him alone at all, why? C'us he doesnt know whats right and wrong all the time.

Would you leave a girl at her age alone in the UK while you went else where? No. so why would you on holiday

Tbh yeah shes lost, probs dead but it falls down to the mums fault, if shes dead i think the mum should be charged, her fault it began with.

Now i expect alot of -rep from this -.-'

[Scott™]

I agree with the mum being charged bit.. She should def be charged if shes dead. :l

[Aces]

She shoulld be charged, it's mostly her fault this happened.
+rep, good thread.

[today]

I feel for the girl but only her, not her family 'cus there silly enough to do this. ;[

Though anywhere else if this happened there wouldnt be anywhere near this much news about it, why is this case getting all the media?

I know she's lost and young but these cases happen every year, month and such

Though she could be anywhere. Be lucky if they get her back. <3

[Xotuako]

I agree, mums fault, can I have a link to the storey? (if it was on the news?) +rep if you can :P

Should never leave kids on their own, just plain stupid!

edit: found it on bbc

( http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/6645341.stm )

[Barkel]

I feel for the girl but only her, not her family 'cus there silly enough to do this. ;[

Agreed!
If they wanted her to be safe they wouldnt have left her on her own!
Its their own fault shes missing tbh
But I do feel sorry for the girl ;[
Socail services shoudl take their kids away from em tbh

[Aces]

Yes, i think the same.
Such a innoicent girl nd this happens to her.. :(

[today]

The funny thing which i've heard, after all this is over, the family are getting sue'd i think. (Though im unsure) by the police ?

[Barkseh2131]

I find it funny how it was the dad who keeped going back an forth checking if the kids were okay and he dosent really look too botherd now :P

[DaveTaylor]

I find it funny how it was the dad who keeped going back an forth checking if the kids were okay and he dosent really look too botherd now :P
haha yep :P

[2hd.]

Wasn't there a story saying how many guests had complained about the childcare and how bad it was?

[dirrty]

the thing is, they are both doctors (at glenfield hospital - i think) and if they cant look after their child, how can you trust them to look after you when you visit them?

& since them being doctors, they sure could afford to pay for the childcare easily.

[today]

Wasn't there a story saying how many guests had complained about the childcare and how bad it was?

Then you take the children with you to eat.


the thing is, they are both doctors (at glenfield hospital - i think) and if they cant look after their child, how can you trust them to look after you when you visit them?

& since them being doctors, they sure could afford to pay for the childcare easily.
Meh, makes it works.!

[Boo-]

To be honest I feel for the little girl the most, who knows what shes going through.. or even if shes still alive. Its her Birthday tomorrow aswell.

I feel for the family also.. I mean I suppose its a 1 in a million chance that they thought there child would get taken (plus they left there 2 year old twins aswell). HOWEVER they shouldn't of left her alone even if they were down the street. What happens if something esle happened? Like she managed to hurt herself or fall from the balcony etc.

If I have kids I would never leave them alone and always make sure they are with someone responsible to look after them.

Also I suppose when you are on holiday people liek some time to themselves without the kids so I dont know.

I do wish them the best though and hope that shes found.

[3d]

I may sound really evil,sick minded but meh.

I dont feel sorry for the amily why? They LEFT the girl in the room WHEN the hotel had childcare services, would you leave such a young girl in a room, so what if you was checking every half hour, that DOESNT mean u can leave them alone at all

When i go on holiday with my family and friends, one is a 4yr we never leave him alone at all, why? C'us he doesnt know whats right and wrong all the time.

Would you leave a girl at her age alone in the UK while you went else where? No. so why would you on holiday

Tbh yeah shes lost, probs dead but it falls down to the mums fault, if shes dead i think the mum should be charged, her fault it began with.

Now i expect alot of -rep from this -.-'
i understand what you mean my mum is the same she has no sympathy but fgs people make a few BIG mistakes in their lifes

[efq]

Defently Agreed.

Although lockin door at house and going to shops Id think is ok. Although its not.

But leaving Front Doors open to there Apartment and Blinds down is really pathetic.

[PaulMacC]

I find it really sad that it's her birthday tomarrow aswell.
There's something wrong with the parents, they're not crying enough, if your child went missing you'd be crying all the time and be on the booze.
Seriously when you see them they're actually looking fine and on that new's interview they didnt even cry.

They went out to the downstair's pub to get a drink yet they leave 2 one year old's and 3 year old in their appartment. Thats plain right idiotic in my opinion and I know I sound hateful but when they did that they had it coming.

Any Mum/Dad that goes for a pint over there kid's is a terrible parent imo.

If it had been their money they wouldnt have done that, You wouldnt leave money in the house lying open so why would you do it with a child.

God damn idiots.

[today]

i understand what you mean my mum is the same she has no sympathy but fgs people make a few BIG mistakes in their lifes
I think you gave me the -rep? Anyhow fair point, but as Pokemon said, they shouldnt of done it just for food? Take the children, its their fault at the end of the day and i hope they pay, not the children, i feel really sorry for them having to lvie with parents like them.

I only care for the children as they had no choice in the matter.


I find it really sad that it's her birthday tomarrow aswell.
There's something wrong with the parents, they're not crying enough, if your child went missing you'd be crying all the time and be on the booze.
Seriously when you see them they're actually looking fine and on that new's interview they didnt even cry.

They went out to the downstair's pub to get a drink yet they leave 2 one year old's and 3 year old in their appartment. Thats plain right idiotic in my opinion and I know I sound hateful but when they did that they had it coming.

Any Mum/Dad that goes for a pint over there kid's is a terrible parent imo.

If it had been their money they wouldnt have done that, You wouldnt leave money in the house lying open so why would you do it with a child.

God damn idiots.
Great post +Rep.

[sock]

ye, I feel sorry for the girl, but not for the family

[PaulMacC]

Yeah God bless her wherever she is atm.

People around my school said she got threw in a volcano or she's been taken to Africa.

All a load of bull

[cocaine]

All a load of bull

OH REALLY? :rolleyes:

[PaulMacC]

OH

That sounded well weird mate.

[Xotuako]

Yeah God bless her wherever she is atm.

People around my school said she got threw in a volcano or she's been taken to Africa.

All a load of bull
The volcano one, for sure. Africa is close to Portugal though. But, probably a load of rubbish.

I hope she returns safe, before it's too late.

[efq]

Volcano O.o I dont think ive known a volcano In portugal near algarve.

Africa I dunno, they could go to Angola in africa. Thats portuguese

[Krusty]

It wouldnt take much to plan doing this tbh.
You follow a family.
watch them for a bit. in their room. they leave the kids there. then you just gotta see time how long it is inbetween them coming back and them leaving again... it aint exactly the hardest plan ever..

blame the parents. i suppose. you dont leave children on their own. under the age of 5. its ridiculous :o

[Aces]

And they blaming the portugese goverment? lol.

[3d]

I think you gave me the -rep? Anyhow fair point, but as Pokemon said, they shouldnt of done it just for food? Take the children, its their fault at the end of the day and i hope they pay, not the children, i feel really sorry for them having to lvie with parents like them.

I only care for the children as they had no choice in the matter.


Great post +Rep.
nope -rep is pointless tbh

[stratosphere]

I agree it was the parents fault. I think they are the only ones to blame for this. You leave a little child in a room on her own when she's that young of course something is most likely to happen.

[efq]

They were 50 Yards away.

Thats between restruant and apartment.

But, how come the knew to go into that apartment? Did they have a enemy?

[Haylz]

I honestly well and truly feel sooooooooooo sorry for the little girl, Plus
her mum and dad don't seem responsible enough either, as they've just left their kids in hotel/etc all on their own when their all only really young without a care in the world, its SICK! :( I would never leave my kids alone!!. I hope they find her soon!!. Plus I also feel sorry for her as its her BIRTHDAY tomorrow. I hope she's found! and I truly feel really upset about this. x

[Jamie!]

ye, I feel sorry for the girl, but not for the family

how can you not feel for the family? fair enough, they left her and should feel some guilt, but they've just lost one of their kids ***.

[3d]

how can you not feel for the family? fair enough, they left her and should feel some guilt, but they've just lost one of their kids ***.
excatly no one should be going through this ever, no matter what

[:Jamie]

I may sound really evil,sick minded but meh.

I dont feel sorry for the amily why? They LEFT the girl in the room WHEN the hotel had childcare services, would you leave such a young girl in a room, so what if you was checking every half hour, that DOESNT mean u can leave them alone at all

When i go on holiday with my family and friends, one is a 4yr we never leave him alone at all, why? C'us he doesnt know whats right and wrong all the time.

Would you leave a girl at her age alone in the UK while you went else where? No. so why would you on holiday

Tbh yeah shes lost, probs dead but it falls down to the mums fault, if shes dead i think the mum should be charged, her fault it began with.

Now i expect alot of -rep from this -.-'

Nothings saying you have to feel sorry.:rolleyes: People make mistakes in life. I bet theres loads of familys out there that let there kid run around the street/leave them on there own. I dont believe the mother should be charged for this what so ever.

The only thing they should be concerned about is finding this kid.

[efq]

nothing says they shouldnt of left young children on there own and got thereself in this problem

[today]

nope -rep is pointless tbh
Oh my bad then


I honestly well and truly feel sooooooooooo sorry for the little girl, Plus
her mum and dad don't seem responsible enough either, as they've just left their kids in hotel/etc all on their own when their all only really young without a care in the world, its SICK! :( I would never leave my kids alone!!. I hope they find her soon!!. Plus I also feel sorry for her as its her BIRTHDAY tomorrow. I hope she's found! and I truly feel really upset about this. x
I agree


how can you not feel for the family? fair enough, they left her and should feel some guilt, but they've just lost one of their kids ***.
Easy, they lost her, their fault. I wish the little girl a better family then current.


excatly no one should be going through this ever, no matter what
See above.


Nothings saying you have to feel sorry.:rolleyes: People make mistakes in life. I bet theres loads of familys out there that let there kid run around the street/leave them on there own. I dont believe the mother should be charged for this what so ever.

The only thing they should be concerned about is finding this kid.
Its pretty obv you dont leave your children in a unknown place, even if its half hour, you dont know whos around the corner or whos watching.

The dad or mum should of stayied home while the other went to get food and eat in. Not leave the children "/

[Chickenblob]

I find it really sad that it's her birthday tomarrow aswell.
There's something wrong with the parents, they're not crying enough, if your child went missing you'd be crying all the time and be on the booze.
Seriously when you see them they're actually looking fine and on that new's interview they didnt even cry.

They went out to the downstair's pub to get a drink yet they leave 2 one year old's and 3 year old in their appartment. Thats plain right idiotic in my opinion and I know I sound hateful but when they did that they had it coming.

Any Mum/Dad that goes for a pint over there kid's is a terrible parent imo.

If it had been their money they wouldnt have done that, You wouldnt leave money in the house lying open so why would you do it with a child.

God damn idiots.

Well if you look at the mother she has lost ALOT of weight, shes practically gone anorexic. People have different ways of showing grief, you don't have to be crying.

Many parents leave there kids in hotel rooms while they go for a quiet drink. It was just VERY unfortunate that this has happend.

The parents should not be charged, if they were to be many people would be outraged by it. As I said earlier many parents do this and its just unfortunate that this has accually happend..

[SusieC]

Around me, I have pretty mixed points of view.

My teacher says that it wasn't the parent's fault- that they aren't pathetic druggies who would leave their children at home without anybody and they aren't stupid either, because they're doctors.

But my Mum says that they really shouldn't have left the children alone in a foreign country, where they probably only know how to say the basic things. The front window was also open.

The news is on and talking about the very same thing while I am typing this. This is really sad and it's also her birthday tomorrow.

[Crono]

Yeah it might partially be her fault, but I still feel for them. I know if someone in my family was kidnapped or something I wouldn't want people saying "it's pretty much your fault so I don't feel sorry for you." I haven't heard about this, maybe I should check out the news more often.

[paradox]

poor girl ;(

[Shawnstra]

Yep, the mother should be more responsible.

[joshuar]

I don't think you deserve bad rep for this thread as it is a very good point.

They shouldn't have left her on her own, it was a family holiday anyway so they should have been out together, or the kids left with the childcare services if they were in the hotel.

I do feel sorry for them, but this whole situation could have been avoided with a bit more care and attention to the children.

[PaulMacC]

What day's it now , Day 10 of the search ?

[Jordie]

i cant see her being alive tbh:( been missing for to long now and plus someone was taking snaps of her playing how sick is that:(

[Unpred5000]

I think this thread is correct, it is the parents fault for leaving the child by her self, what parent would do that? a parent that does not care about their child most properly.

The girl may be dead, but you never no?
She may still be alive somewhere hidden, you still don't no.

But i read in the newspaper today, that there were pervs taking pictures of little girls, and she was one of them.

[Krusty]

I was talkin to my mom abwt it y'day. we both said that thers not much chance that she's gonna be alive... do they even know how long it was inbetween the 30 min checkups.
eg.
dad goes bk at 4pm. then again at 4.30
what time was it. inbetween 4 and 4.30 that she got taken?

[madmike666]

I may sound really evil,sick minded but meh.

I dont feel sorry for the amily why? They LEFT the girl in the room WHEN the hotel had childcare services, would you leave such a young girl in a room, so what if you was checking every half hour, that DOESNT mean u can leave them alone at all

When i go on holiday with my family and friends, one is a 4yr we never leave him alone at all, why? C'us he doesnt know whats right and wrong all the time.

Would you leave a girl at her age alone in the UK while you went else where? No. so why would you on holiday

Tbh yeah shes lost, probs dead but it falls down to the mums fault, if shes dead i think the mum should be charged, her fault it began with.

Now i expect alot of -rep from this -.-'

EXACTLY How i feel about it. +Rep. :P

[Havoc_Generator]

Ye all family's faught should of known a peedos outside, that peedos a saint.

Sarcasm

[Seacat]

I agree with your post. I don't feel sorry for the family, because, personally I think that they should be put up for gross negligence charges if the little girl turned up dead. It's a huge omission of your responsibility to leave a young girl in a ground floor room with a window open, when a few minutes away from your room is a childcare service.

I do feel sorry for the little girl though and I hope she does turn up alive.

[today]

I don't think you deserve bad rep for this thread as it is a very good point.

They shouldn't have left her on her own, it was a family holiday anyway so they should have been out together, or the kids left with the childcare services if they were in the hotel.

I do feel sorry for them, but this whole situation could have been avoided with a bit more care and attention to the children.
Tell that to the people who gave me -rep with comment "sad"


I agree with your post. I don't feel sorry for the family, because, personally I think that they should be put up for gross negligence charges if the little girl turned up dead. It's a huge omission of your responsibility to leave a young girl in a ground floor room with a window open, when a few minutes away from your room is a childcare service.

I do feel sorry for the little girl though and I hope she does turn up alive.
Yes, i agree, the hotel offers childcare and they went for dinner, why didnt they take the children even if they wasent hungry you'll still take them for a family dinner on a family holiday.

I hope the girl is alive and well, the chances of this are getting slim but there's always hope.

[Ashley 12344]

I may sound really evil,sick minded but meh.

I dont feel sorry for the amily why? They LEFT the girl in the room WHEN the hotel had childcare services, would you leave such a young girl in a room, so what if you was checking every half hour, that DOESNT mean u can leave them alone at all

When i go on holiday with my family and friends, one is a 4yr we never leave him alone at all, why? C'us he doesnt know whats right and wrong all the time.

Would you leave a girl at her age alone in the UK while you went else where? No. so why would you on holiday

Tbh yeah shes lost, probs dead but it falls down to the mums fault, if shes dead i think the mum should be charged, her fault it began with.

Now i expect alot of -rep from this -.-'

Exactly what I thought. With the people dedicating MSN screen names and the lark to her, theres FAR worse things going on in the world, that have been for decades.

[le harry]

the window wasnt open, it was jimi'd open, it was originally locked i think. but not sure.

[Pixel]

I hope they find her alive :(

In the easter holidays I was staying at a place basically along the coast to where she was taken :o

[Y!]

I may sound really evil,sick minded but meh.

I dont feel sorry for the amily why? They LEFT the girl in the room WHEN the hotel had childcare services, would you leave such a young girl in a room, so what if you was checking every half hour, that DOESNT mean u can leave them alone at all

When i go on holiday with my family and friends, one is a 4yr we never leave him alone at all, why? C'us he doesnt know whats right and wrong all the time.

Would you leave a girl at her age alone in the UK while you went else where? No. so why would you on holiday

Tbh yeah shes lost, probs dead but it falls down to the mums fault, if shes dead i think the mum should be charged, her fault it began with.

Now i expect alot of -rep from this -.-'

I agree I posted something similar to this on another topic I'd call leaving your own flesh & blood to be kidnaped should at least count for man slaughter

[:Hazel]

I would tend to agree that she shouldn't have been left on her own at all. Most people wouldn't leave their kids alone in the UK let alone anywhere. If they wanted a quiet holiday they should have left the children at home with grandparents or something.

[Y!]

I hate the fact that celebs are giving the family false hope by offering money for her SAFE return, hardly likely to happen when she's probably already dead, and the fund the family are setting up expecting people to donate to find the girl who is likely to be dead. Why donate to wealthy people? If I'm gonna donate I'll give it to charities who deserve it not some half witted scam attempt which the funds thing will turn out to be when the family find out she's dead and keep all the money, well they deserve all the money and all the publicity they can get after all it was them who lost their daughter in the first place and probably feel like right idiots now, why don't we just give them some extra money if they dance around like chickens or something. Honestly the world these days is like everyone is doing tricks for peanuts or something ;/

[le harry]

I hate the fact that celebs are giving the family false hope by offering money for her SAFE return, hardly likely to happen when she's probably already dead, and the fund the family are setting up expecting people to donate to find the girl who is likely to be dead. Why donate to wealthy people? If I'm gonna donate I'll give it to charities who deserve it not some half witted scam attempt which the funds thing will turn out to be when the family find out she's dead and keep all the money, well they deserve all the money and all the publicity they can get after all it was them who lost their daughter in the first place and probably feel like right idiots now, why don't we just give them some extra money if they dance around like chickens or something. Honestly the world these days is like everyone is doing tricks for peanuts or something ;/

Lets all donate so we can get better helicoptors to find her! :rolleyes:

[Y!]

Lets all donate so we can get better helicoptors to find her! :rolleyes:

Lol hell no. Incase you haven't already learned unless you're a somebody in the UK no one gives a damn about you so why should we give a damn about them? I know people in life who have struggled, including myself in various aspects and I'm sure many of you have struggled in life in some way. However did anyone give you money? Since when has anyone ever been nice to you in the UK? I'm not talking friends or family I'm talking a complete stranger...

[R]

its still sick you should feel safe leaving ur child in a room in a hotel people like the person who abducted her shouldnt deserve to live theyre sick ******s.

[Ezzie.]

The parents have showed no emotions. and they're too confident and all...





It's probably nothing but my senses are tingling... sounds fishy imo..

[le harry]

The parents have showed no emotions. and they're too confident and all...





It's probably nothing but my senses are tingling... sounds fishy imo..

Same, If your thinking what I'm thinking... :O

[Ezzie.]

Same, If your thinking what I'm thinking... :O

I'm always a good judge of character... can tell if someones genuine or not.. *did same with my mums boyfriend who turned out cheating on her :@*

They just don't look worried :S I can't put my finger on why exactly they would do anything fishy.. well other than the heaps of money that's being donated to them but.. :eusa_wall

[le harry]

Yeah.. a set-up or something. It just sounds too dodgy. No successful proper parent like them in there right mind would do what they did.

[BlueLord]

Yeah this thread is totally true.
If the little girl is found she should be put into care because personally i wouldn't want to have parents like that. They were strangers in the country and they leave there child in an appartment, even if they keep checking on her every 30 minutes. This isn't good enough. My point being they shouldn't even have children if they're going to treat them like this. They're only saying 'We believe Madine is safe, and she's still alive' this is just an assumption, i do hope she's alright.

[Angel-Light]

I'm always a good judge of character... can tell if someones genuine or not.. *did same with my mums boyfriend who turned out cheating on her :@*

They just don't look worried :S I can't put my finger on why exactly they would do anything fishy.. well other than the heaps of money that's being donated to them but.. :eusa_wall



Yeah.. a set-up or something. It just sounds too dodgy. No successful proper parent like them in there right mind would do what they did.

I have been thinking it was a set up as well, just like Ezzie I get a weird feeling from all the family (especially up here in Scotland).

I mean if she was abducted (which no doubt she was) why were her twin siblings left as well? Leaving three kids alone is disgraceful in my opinion. Now the family are trying to get the Government to help out but what I question is: Why is this case so special? What about the other child abductions that happen here and abroad?

I do still hope the little girl is alive and safe but I believe the parents should be charged in a way for providing such an easy plan to be carried out.

[bullwinkle]

I only found out about meralyn or whatever shes called yesterday

[brandon]

I agree, everyone moans at me about it but that's my opinion.
Obviously I'd like to see her return but I don't want it to be on my TV everytime I turn it on, I don't want people pasting to me every 5 minutes chain letters about her on MSN etc

[lAdmire]

I sort of agree but maybe the mom thought nothing of it. Sometimes, we don't even realize what we're doing so maybe she didn't. I wouldn't charge her. There are times when we leave our kids alone but you don't leave your kid alone in a place where there are tons of people && you don't know if their safe or not because you don't know who's there.

[RedStratocas]

It's her fault that someone else abducted her kids? Maybe some of her actions made it easier for the abductors, but how does that make it her fault? If you leave your bike unlocked outside a store and it gets stolen, how is it your fault more than it is the person who stole it?

[today]

I have been thinking it was a set up as well, just like Ezzie I get a weird feeling from all the family (especially up here in Scotland).

I mean if she was abducted (which no doubt she was) why were her twin siblings left as well? Leaving three kids alone is disgraceful in my opinion. Now the family are trying to get the Government to help out but what I question is: Why is this case so special? What about the other child abductions that happen here and abroad?

I do still hope the little girl is alive and safe but I believe the parents should be charged in a way for providing such an easy plan to be carried out.
I agree! :)


It's her fault that someone else abducted her kids? Maybe some of her actions made it easier for the abductors, but how does that make it her fault? If you leave your bike unlocked outside a store and it gets stolen, how is it your fault more than it is the person who stole it?
As you left it unlocked, its just begging to be stolen.

[RedStratocas]

As you left it unlocked, its just begging to be stolen.

But where does precaution end and paranoia begin? If there were a man that snuck in your closet at night, and came out once you were asleep and killed you, were you begging to be killed because you didnt check your closet before you went to bed? I could think of a million different scenarios, and each one of them can have a way that the victim could have prevented it, but no one ever thinks about the unlikely.

[alexxxxx]

But where does precaution end and paranoia begin? If there were a man that snuck in your closet at night, and came out once you were asleep and killed you, were you begging to be killed because you didnt check your closet before you went to bed? I could think of a million different scenarios, and each one of them can have a way that the victim could have prevented it, but no one ever thinks about the unlikely.

In our country, if you leave your house unlocked and everything gets stolen it's deemed your fault. The insurers won't pay out.

[hadouken!]

Let's be honest. I think it's false hope. She's either comign back in a bag or not at all. Thats my plain and simple view.

[R]

;3510071']In our country, if you leave your house unlocked and everything gets stolen it's deemed your fault. The insurers won't pay out.
thats why u get decent insurance and *Text Removed*
of tesco

Edited by Ry (Forum Moderator): Please don't avoid the filter.

[R]

But where does precaution end and paranoia begin? If there were a man that snuck in your closet at night, and came out once you were asleep and killed you, were you begging to be killed because you didnt check your closet before you went to bed? I could think of a million different scenarios, and each one of them can have a way that the victim could have prevented it, but no one ever thinks about the unlikely.
could u wirte 500 of them plz

[PaulMacC]

Sorry to bump but I didnt want to make another thread on this

What day is it now Day 18 or something.

Where-ever she is Im like 90&#37; certain she's dead or she's been kidnapped and been disguesed.

I know this sounds horrid but I think they've shaved her head and dressed her into boys clothes to make her disguesable.

If not that then they may even have her wear sunglasses because of her right eye,.

[RedStratocas]

;3510071']In our country, if you leave your house unlocked and everything gets stolen it's deemed your fault. The insurers won't pay out.

So they don't even look for the person who stole your belongings, just because its fair game because you left your doors unlocked?

[le harry]

She's gone.

Let this thread die ;)

[DaveTaylor]

i doubt she's still alive and tbh they dont look to worried anymore if you look at them