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krimzen
21-05-2007, 08:07 PM
Hey all, Just got a small problem.

Wall of text incoming!

Well my girlfriend went out with her friend and they got drunk, there 15 years old. My girl friends mum found out they got drunk, and my girlfriends friend (Kris) told her mum it was all my girlfriends fault (Katie). Anyhow, Her dad has a past of violence and she has hit katie before and done it that bad shes had to go to hospital and pretended a chav beat her up. Shes worried hes gonna do the same again, I told her she can come live with me for a while see what happens, but she doesnt want to put my parents out! But my parents say its fine. But now her dads threating to make there family move.
And shes really upset, no matter what i say or do she wont get out off there.
I dont want to see her get hurt..
Anyone know what i can do?

Any help would be deeply appeciated
+Rep

Cysne .

Willz
21-05-2007, 09:36 PM
Call ze fire brigade.

Edited by Nick- (Forum Super Moderator): Please do not post pointlessly.

VPSwow
21-05-2007, 09:40 PM
Hi if i was you i would speak to your parents about it and see what they think.

Parents minds are usually better at these sort of things.

Hope everything gets sorted out ;D

Concentric2
21-05-2007, 09:41 PM
Don't go out and get drunk?

I found your explanation quite difficult to follow - what has her dad's violence problem got to do with her being drunk with her friend?

Bef
21-05-2007, 09:54 PM
If hes beat her before then she needs to get out of ther asap. nobdy deserves that. Trust me.

Shawnstra
23-05-2007, 09:28 AM
I'd suggest contacting the police. Using physical abuse against someone is against the law, and get the police to investigate. They are more professional, so I think they would know whats best for you. Tell your mate that your parents are fine with letting her stay with you. Try to reason with her, as much as possible as to make her stay in your house. If she refuses, force her, it is for her own good.

Good Luck :)

Catzsy
23-05-2007, 11:20 AM
There is a sticky at the top of the forum.
Link:http://www.habboxforum.com/showthread.php?t=150013
That gives numbers to professionals who can offer confidential advice.
Where is her Mother in all of this? Really something should be done by an adult as soon as possible to protect her. What the Father has done in the past is actual bodily harm or grevious bodily harm and normally, if found guilty, he would go to prison. Her wellbeing is the first priority so something should be done urgently. The fact she was drunk really doesn't come into it. If I had a violent bully of a father like that I would probably turn to drink, myself. However, if she does not want to do anything there is little you can do about it and this decision is her responsibility.

:Hazel
23-05-2007, 11:35 AM
She needs to speak to someone about her Fathers behaviour towards her and fast before he seriously injures her.

DiscoPat
23-05-2007, 02:47 PM
Ide just say, no questions your not going back there, I dont want you to get hurt, so come move in to my place where you will be safe.

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