Friend always have me there when shes with her bf

[Nightrose]

sorry should be has me there*


Everytime my mate goes out with her bf or has him round hers, i have to be there because she says there will be awakard silence betwen him and her and its like i feel like a 3rd wheel and i dont like it tbh, thats why i try and tell my mate to go with him herself to the movies but she wont. its really annoying i mean shes my best mate and all, but it tires me out, plus i have my own problems to sort out

sorry if in wrong section

[Concentric2]

If you want my view it's that you should talk straight to your friend about it and explain that it's not suitable or comfortable for you. She should be capable of dealing with her own boyfriend socially - coming to you about specific things is fine, great, but you shouldn't need to hold her hand 24/7.

[Nightrose]

yeah i dont mind her coming to me about things to do with the relationship.
but hers dads having his bday party on saturday and she wants her bf to go but i have to go as well or he cant go to it.
so i feel gulity about it
its tiring and i feel like im a 3rd wheel being there.
im like yeah its a party but psh
i cant be around her 24/7
i think im gonna say to her: she shouldnt really be in a relationship if she doenst want to be alone with him, its not that she doenst trust him sexually and stuff its that she thinks they wont talk
SHES ENGAGED TO HIM NOW TO
i finding it hard to keep them both happy

[Pelfe]

Been there done that, lost the friendship :}

you must tell her before its too late pls xx if she's a true friend she'll understand.

[Concentric2]

SHES ENGAGED TO HIM NOW TO

woooooow wwooooooow slow down, they're ENGAGED? :O How old?
This is rediculous, doesn't the boyfriend get frustrated at you always being there?

[Nightrose]

shes 16 in umm aug
hes already 16

and im tried telling her but she doesnt seem to understand why idont like being around her and her bf now

nah he dont mind tbh, we get on well.

[Carlos]

hmm, i understand the situation but you must try and talk to your friend.