So theres this girl...

[Mr Macro]

We met 3 years ago and have been best of friends ever since.Last year i asked her out and she said yes, it was perfect.She dumped me 11 months later, but we're still friends.Shes going out with this other guy now.I really love her.I pretend that shes just a friend but i no shes the one.I now she likes me as she has told me she does, but she doesn;t wan;t to leave her bf.I don't wan't to break them up, but i love her.What should i do ?

[@K]

Well if she wont dump her bf just wait, that's all you can do really, because if you split them up then she might start to hate you.

[Sunny.]

yes, wait and if she dumps her bf, then ask her then, if shes over the bg she has atm :) GL.

[Jamieb]

We met 3 years ago and have been best of friends ever since.Last year i asked her out and she said yes, it was perfect.She dumped me 11 months later, but we're still friends.Shes going out with this other guy now.I really love her.I pretend that shes just a friend but i no shes the one.I now she likes me as she has told me she does, but she doesn;t wan;t to leave her bf.I don't wan't to break them up, but i love her.What should i do ?

Mate im in the same place i don't know what to do... I love her really bad, but i come to terns ( I think) with the fact of that she's over me how much i hate my self for dumping the girl but now she is single she broke up with last one.. but when we went out we could talk for hours about anything she is one of them girls were if its just us to you never going to know what might happen ... But i will always *Hope* for me and her.. we are really good mates now we can open up to each other i think thats why she does not want to go out as we are really closes as mates and i don't want to mess that up but ... i like her.. i duno if she feels the same she told me on msn a few weeks ago that she did'nt know if she wanted us to to be like that .. i love her to bits and she knows but there is not a lot i can do so sorry mate i am in the same place as you....

[indian8132]

If you really care about her feelings, tell her you are happy that she is happy with the new boy and maybe they will split up, and you have a chance again :)

[Antallica]

Patience ;]

[e5..]

Wait for her to break up with her current bf, then wait a little longer for it to settle down, then ask her.

[blah blah blah]

You dont want them to break up but you like her soooo much and she likes you (as you said)... How can you be fine with them being together lol! if they break up you have potential to be a couple again.

[london]

don't push her.

just be patient; i know it's hard but if you really love her it'll be worth it.

[le harry]

yeah. tell her how you feel first up then see how it goes x.

[I3rap]

If you get involed it might ruin the relationship, I've spoken to the girl I liked whos going out with somebody, spoken to her baout the problems their having etc and just gotton to know them better, I'm happy with being mates but I think we're both getting closer each day.

[Rizla,]

Just tell her you're happy that she's happy, that's laying the ground work. Just be good mates with her for a while and if she ever asks your opinion on her relationship say you don't want to say because you feel like you're butting in. Little things like that show her you care about her happiness, but don't overdo it, you want her to know you care, but not that you're a whiny little *******. Don't turn the convo serious yourself just make her laugh alot, talk to her, if she ever gets a bit serious with the conversation go with it. Show her you can treat her better than her current BF and you care more than him, without making it obvious it's what you're trying to do.