Gay friend?

[Bef]

One of my best mates is a guy yeh, and he has been telling me he loves me for years. (But never really tried anything on which is weird, like we shared beds before but he doesnt try anything on) So yeh, hes always been quite feminine and most people who meet him think he is gay but he has always denied it. He's 20 so if he is just scared to come out then thats a bit odd cos everyone will accept it.
Nenywho, he just text me saying. Bef i forgot to tell you im gay!
so im like :o and text back o really?
and he then rang me saying he was only joking
but its kind of weird thou, do you think he was just trying to test the waters and see what my reaction would be?
Im going out for a drink wit him tomorrow and i told him id take him to a gay bar so he can explore his sexuality. LOL

anyway, i dont mind if he's gay but i feel a bit weird as he has always told everyone that he is in love with me and stuff so does that make me a man?

One of my best mates came out as a lesbian 2 years ago and everyone has accepted that fine so i dont think he could be worried about peoples reactions. Most people just assume he is gay anyway. Lol.

[:Hazel]

i think he might well be but just wanted to see what your reaction was.

[Jamie!]

aye, he probs just done it to see what you'd say.

one of my mates had always said he fancied all these lasses etc, but the other week he came out saying he was gay and saying that he'd never liked a lass before and that he'd done all this stuff with other lads.

[Vause]

yeah, just talk to him about it? (:

[Bef]

Ok now he wants to go out tonight, he said he wants to speak to me. ;o

[Jamie!]

Ok now he wants to go out tonight, he said he wants to speak to me. ;o

he is either deffo gay or wants to get in your pants (if you wear any..) :D

[Bef]

:o hes always been like "omg bef i fancy uuuu" but hes never actually tried anything seriously. I mean, wev snogged drunkenly but that doesnt count. If he wanted in my pants he would have made a move by now. Im meeting him NOW and for some reason im really nervous :S

[Jamie!]

lol, ah reet! why you feeling nervous like?

[Charlie]

He could of just used saying that he fancied you as i cover so that people wouldn't say he was gay maybe?

[Bef]

K he didnt come out. He says hes not gay. I still think he is thou he was wearing a camoflauge thong :|

[:Jamie]

K he didnt come out. He says hes not gay. I still think he is thou he was wearing a camoflauge thong :|

And how did you find that out :O

[Bef]

And how did you find that out :O

Cos i had to share my bed with him :(

[Zample]

atleast he's stylish. :)

[unit]

My friend did exactly the same (although not with me) he said he was in love with my other friend who's a girl and then about a year later he came out saying he was gay.. it might just be a cover up orr he's bisexual?