Step parent update

[indian8132]

Hi all

You may remember a day or two ago when I posted about my idiotic step dad. Well, today when we had an arguement I went out the door and went to walk around just to calm off. When I came back, he was at me again and I kicked the kitchen door out of anger. (I admit I shouldnt have done it.) Anyway, things acted surprisingly normal, and the police came because mum rang them without me knowing. I saw two officers and was like 'omg.' and tried to run out the back door but it was locked. I had to talk to them, and they were very understanding. They told me after they heard both stories that it was pretty silly of mum to ring them, and she was over protective. They just this minuite gone, but I had to shake my step dads hand which I hated every second of. Considering I kicked a kitchen cupboard door and it caused no damage, do you think she should really have rang the police :rolleyes:

Poll aswell added.

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[:Hazel]

Maybe she just didnt know what to do anymore and panicked.

[indian8132]

Maybe she just didnt know what to do anymore and panicked.
She didnt seem that she was panicking when I done it, she was actually very calm.

[-Soph-]

no I don't think she should of, sometimes you just need to let out your anger.

[indian8132]

no I don't think she should of, sometimes you just need to let out your anger.
Thank you, nice to know we have normal people still these days :D

[-Soph-]

yeah, you obviously needed to let it out, and you hit the door because you didn't want to actually hit him.

that's what I do anyway.
perhaps your mum just doesn't understand that some people handle anger differently

[indian8132]

im from a family that believes in irish traditions, one of them being that you dont lesh out like that and you have to hold it all in (unless its a drunken braul!) but people are disappointed in you if you lash out.

[Duck Hunt]

Yes if she called for your step dad
No if she called for you

Kicking/punching something inanimate is much better than punching an elder No matter how much you hate Him/Her (i know its a him but in other cases..)

[indian8132]

She called for me :rolleyes:

She said she was scared for her protection.. I would never hit a girl/woman.

[burton-x]

Yes, because, if stuff had got out of hand, on whoever's part, its better if somebodie with pepper spray and a big metal stick is there basically.

Have you talked to your mum about it since?

[@K]

No, I smashed a door off the hinges, told my dad to **** off, and hit someone and my mum still never rang he police.

[indian8132]

I asked mum why she done it and apologized to each other, but even the policeman said "Your mum is a bit overprotective, and imo, she shouldnt have rang."

[Bef]

No. Gawwd, if someone called the police everytime i lashed out and broke something or punched a wall/ door then theyd be on my back every day. If she rang 999 then thats really silly. 999 is for emergencys only. Ther could have been a serious domestic going on at the same time as your little tiff and the police would have been caught up with you.

[indian8132]

No it was the local Folkestone police station

[Shawnstra]

Nope, your step dad should understand how hard it is for you. Not keep going at you

[indian8132]

He says I cause trouble, but I dont (it was years ago) and each time they have an arguement, or leave each other, they blame me even though i havent said anything to them that day.

[Aces]

Well, she mabye just wanted to be on the safe side?
But she went a little too far, even though she was doing it for your own benifit.
Blaming you for theyre breakup is very unfair and selfish, as you are not the problem. They need to solve whatever problems theyre having and not take it out on you, a responsible parent shoulld be telling his/her kids that it's not theyre fault. Not attacking them with accusations

[indian8132]

Well, she mabye just wanted to be on the safe side?
But she went a little too far, even though she was doing it for your own benifit.
Blaming you for theyre breakup is very unfair and selfish, as you are not the problem. They need to solve whatever problems theyre having and not take it out on you, a responsible parent shoulld be telling his/her kids that it's not theyre fault. Not attacking them with accusations
They ALWAYS blame me that they are argueing, and I can be stupid sometimes but maybe it is me ?? I dont think so

[Flisker]

Well you knwo what mums are like... they go OTT about everything...

[Hecktix]

I threw a vase at my stepdad... it hit a door... i was arrested for criminal damage.

[Flisker]

ooo bad luck