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Earthquake
12-06-2007, 11:25 PM
Okay, Well.. I've got to be reasonable, Me asking a girl out sucks, Very poor confiedence...

Okay, Well this is what happend, I started to take intrest of this girl in school, and I really got to like her, My feelings have grown for her... Well I didn't tell ANYONE how I felt about her, and then I got hold of her msn email, And talking to her a few times, I got to know her a bit, she didn't talk to me much on msn I do have to say, With her most said to me is about 3-4 words. And then I started talking to her more and more often, I know she don't really want to talk to me, As today I have found out, Anyway Well after that, On the week of, I really got worked up and decided I had to tell this girl how i feel, well i talked to her on msn a bit, then she blocked me, so i went on her piczo site and told her i need to speak to her, then I said I need to speak to her in person, but she said she would rather me tell her on msn, so I tell her how I feel, and saying how beutiful and good looking she is, And then all she says is aww, like im some little kid fancing some women and her feeling sorry for me, like wth! Anyway few days go past, were back in school, now she's starting to say hi to me, but I know she's trying to advoid me, When I look at her, she will look back at me and thats when my low confiedence kiks in, And I get like nervous and stuff, Everyday everynight I want to tell her how much i actully like her and just kiss her, and love her, well anyway yesturday i told her i have a problem, that i like this girl in school really badly, and she told me to tell the girl i sopoesly like, i don't tell anyone i like as my confiedence issue kiks in again... and then today, i tell her i didn't tell the person i really like, how much i like her, And for some reason i find it easy to talk to her on msn then real life, well anyway, Some girl pops-up, I don't have a clue who she is, and turns out I added her step-sister while in a convosation with her exbf, then she starts chatting to me, and i told her how much i like her sister, and she goes and calls me a control freak and not to falling love at a certain age and get a life, (shes 18) Then i said some things, she goes and says her sister likes someone else and she would not want her sister going out with me (shes never met me in real life btw) and so i said a few things, NOT NASTY THINGS, And then her sister comes online, the girl i like and she starts argueing at me why i was getting rude to her sister, so i really had enough then, I told her the girl i was on about was her and she was just saying ohhhh, well then she goes offline, I have found out she blocks me each time i start talking for some time,

Guys/girls/ladies/men look you notice how much i like this girl from all of that, I really need your help! How do I boost my confiedence? Also how the hell do i get this girl and tell her how much i really like her, (we are 15) i really, really, really like this girl, and sometimes i tell myself i love her, i know its a big word...

Jamesy
13-06-2007, 06:25 AM
i dont think anyone finds it easy to ask girls out... and something like that will knock your confidence off balance. Just get over i think would be the best option tbh. Go hang out with ur mates, wait until that spcial person comes along :D

Callum.
13-06-2007, 06:52 AM
Okay, Well.. I've got to be reasonable, Me asking a girl out sucks, Very poor confiedence...

Okay, Well this is what happend, I started to take intrest of this girl in school, and I really got to like her, My feelings have grown for her... Well I didn't tell ANYONE how I felt about her, and then I got hold of her msn email, And talking to her a few times, I got to know her a bit, she didn't talk to me much on msn I do have to say, With her most said to me is about 3-4 words. And then I started talking to her more and more often, I know she don't really want to talk to me, As today I have found out, Anyway Well after that, On the week of, I really got worked up and decided I had to tell this girl how i feel, well i talked to her on msn a bit, then she blocked me, so i went on her piczo site and told her i need to speak to her, then I said I need to speak to her in person, but she said she would rather me tell her on msn, so I tell her how I feel, and saying how beutiful and good looking she is, And then all she says is aww, like im some little kid fancing some women and her feeling sorry for me, like wth! Anyway few days go past, were back in school, now she's starting to say hi to me, but I know she's trying to advoid me, When I look at her, she will look back at me and thats when my low confiedence kiks in, And I get like nervous and stuff, Everyday everynight I want to tell her how much i actully like her and just kiss her, and love her, well anyway yesturday i told her i have a problem, that i like this girl in school really badly, and she told me to tell the girl i sopoesly like, i don't tell anyone i like as my confiedence issue kiks in again... and then today, i tell her i didn't tell the person i really like, how much i like her, And for some reason i find it easy to talk to her on msn then real life, well anyway, Some girl pops-up, I don't have a clue who she is, and turns out I added her step-sister while in a convosation with her exbf, then she starts chatting to me, and i told her how much i like her sister, and she goes and calls me a control freak and not to falling love at a certain age and get a life, (shes 18) Then i said some things, she goes and says her sister likes someone else and she would not want her sister going out with me (shes never met me in real life btw) and so i said a few things, NOT NASTY THINGS, And then her sister comes online, the girl i like and she starts argueing at me why i was getting rude to her sister, so i really had enough then, I told her the girl i was on about was her and she was just saying ohhhh, well then she goes offline, I have found out she blocks me each time i start talking for some time,

Guys/girls/ladies/men look you notice how much i like this girl from all of that, I really need your help! How do I boost my confiedence? Also how the hell do i get this girl and tell her how much i really like her, (we are 15) i really, really, really like this girl, and sometimes i tell myself i love her, i know its a big word...

that isn't always the case, i told my gf how amazing she is when i wasn't going out with her and she aww and said the same back.

your completly different then me lmao, I just can't speak to her on msn only in rl.

and yeah, you might have to let this go because if she doesn't like you, then you've got to accept that.

Jamesy
13-06-2007, 06:54 AM
i find i can get to know girls really well in R/l but i cant ask them out wivout msn :S

cocaine
13-06-2007, 06:56 AM
at the end of the day you can change her mind and get her to like you, you just gotta be yourself and try and act confident around her, even if you're not. you could boost your confidence with her by just talking to her, and making conversation with her :]

Callum.
13-06-2007, 06:57 AM
what would you rather do?

i asked my girlfriend out in real life, and she thought it was nice that i done it in real life rather than msn. if you ask her out in real life and she accepts, you can hug and kiss =)

Jamesy
13-06-2007, 07:06 AM
on the other hand she is nearer to him to hit him if she gets ****** off with him....

FlyingJesus
13-06-2007, 11:26 AM
Err you've told her twice now how you feel and both times she's tried getting rid of you.

Get the picture.

Ekalb
13-06-2007, 11:46 AM
Treat 'em mean keep 'em keen.

Maybe you need to just put your mind off it and forget.

:Hazel
13-06-2007, 11:54 AM
just be yourself and chill out over it, don't get so worked up. then maybe sometihng will happen when you least expect it...

Jamie!
13-06-2007, 01:01 PM
if she don't like you, you can't force her too so you're best moving on..

awelsh
16-06-2007, 08:59 PM
carry on with life, find someone else

and asking people out on msn, dont like it that much. Prefer to ask them in person, but when u get "Just Friends" ur like oh ****

jackass
16-06-2007, 09:14 PM
Well your attutide and rudeness how I know it on this forum is terrible.

So maybe work on that?

blah blah blah
17-06-2007, 03:46 AM
I had a situation like that once. it was terrible :( But mine got alot worse then yours... trust me stop now and move on.

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