scared about going to high school

[CrazyColaist]

well i already have 5 people from Henlow middle and robert blue on msn

and there all like

Ewww And I dont belive you

So im going to be scared when i say im gay to the people in the class.

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[its-me-sam]

aww ;[[ mmm i dunno how to help

Edited by Youheard (Forum Moderator): Please do not post pointlessly.

[Nemo]

just tell ur close friends first, if they dont like it, then cheese them. Also tell a big mouth... and it shall spread!

[cocaine]

once people have heard it, for a while they'll be "omgomg he's gay", then after a while they'll be like "oh, cool." and just move on.

trust me, it's not a big deal.

[Charlie]

You shouldn't be bothered about what people think of you, and what your sexuality is. As long as your happy with it, then why should anyone else opinion matter?

When i finally came out, loads of people asked me stuff and laughed and i just ignored them and laughed it off and i started to realise that i shouldn't care what other people think.

[Virgin Mary]

Well you don't even need to say it. If someone asks then fine, but there's no real reason to be like "I'M GAY!!!!" out of the blue.

[Blinger1]

theres some gay kid at school and he is popular.. never know, you might be the next him!

[CrazyColaist]

ive already thought of my introduction


im just going to say

Hi my name is liam im 13 and im a homosexual
and then sit back down (thats who i am i just come out with the first sentence)

[dannyisnotamazing]

urgh sorry but you're annoying me so god damn much with you being gay.

wipdeedoo you're gay, thousands of people are. you're nothing different. just tell them when you want to? tell one person and im sure it'll get round quick enough. it's upto you.

[Dan2nd]

ive already thought of my introduction


im just going to say

Hi my name is liam im 13 and im a homosexual
and then sit back down (thats who i am i just come out with the first sentence)

I'm sorry but that reminds me so much of Dafydd Thomas off Little Britain LOL

Just because your gay dosn't mean you have to declare it to the world what would you think if everyone was walking around shouting 'I'M STRAIGHT'

[Callum.]

wow.

you're going into highschool so you must be like 11 or 12? and you already think you're gay? you're going through puberty and hormones everywhere. theres no point coming out straight away, and a few years or months down the line decided you're straight?

[Herman]

i remember one of your threads where you said you were still 13. it could just be your crazy hormones jumping around atm since you're still going through puberty. but suit yourself if you want to tell everyone now.

you don't even need to tell anyone if no one asks, but if someone does ask, just say you're unsure.

found it;
http://www.habboxforum.com/showthread.php?t=364849

[e5..]

if your embarrased about people knowing then you can't be proud of what you are... your proud? well don't give 2 craps what people say then :DIts not like the people who make fun of you actually matter, as they are sad, losers and low life people.. kk?

Im not gay and I have nothing against them so im all on your side :).

[Decapitated!]

i say you come out in like year 9 when your class mates are more mature..
year 7's = immature.

[Lime_Jello]

Don't keep it bottled inside.. and kept a secret because eventully you will have to tell people and they will think your weird that you are so embarrased about it...

Be open about it but only tell people you can trust and if you are made fun of.. screw them, they judge too easily. ;)

[Liam!]

Don't keep it bottled inside.. and kept a secret because eventully you will have to tell people and they will think your weird that you are so embarrased about it...

Be open about it but only tell people you can trust and if you are made fun of.. screw them, they judge too easily. ;)
:S

maybe not? what if it's just hormones, puberty.

[GommeInc]

Why do you need to tell them? Being gay is just, well about as meaningful as saying you're straight. It is accepted now. If people don't accept it, then they're failing at life for living in the anti-social past.

Don't say "Oh hi, I am gay. Nice to meet you." Because that is just, well, odd "/ People will think you're self-obsessed if anything. When you make friends you may tell them you are when you get into a conversation related to relationships, sex etc.

[Bef]

Just be yourself. Why do you need to declare it? Its not like when i meet people im like. "Hi im Bef and im straight!"
thers no need for it. Let them get to know you and obv if it comes up in convo then say.

[Duck Hunt]

o.o you shouldnt care what others say. it might just be hormones it might not be but still. no point declaring it. im not saying its wrong but, when your through with puberty and you tell people your strait they'll think your kind of odd :s

[Shawnstra]

I suggest don't talk about it. If people ask, just tell the truth. If you are happy with your sexuality, you shouldn't be bothered by people around you. Anyway, if they laugh or make fun of you, its very immature.

[CrazyColaist]

wow.

you're going into highschool so you must be like 11 or 12? and you already think you're gay? you're going through puberty and hormones everywhere. theres no point coming out straight away, and a few years or months down the line decided you're straight?
13....

[today]

havent you heard the saying...


KEEP IT TO YOURSELF.

[CrazyColaist]

Ever heard of the word
NO I CAN EXPRESS MYSELF WHEN I WANT

[today]

Ever heard of the word
NO I CAN EXPRESS MYSELF WHEN I WANT


Then you'll like to hear

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Unless your not one of them, then your alright with me :) So no im not agaisnt gays :]

Edited by Rizter (Forum Moderator): Please don't be rude.

[Maximo]

If people ask, tell them truthfully, if you want to EXPRESS YOURSELF WHEN YOU WANT, but don't stand up and be like Hi, I'm gay, when you first meet people, as people above have said people don't say Hi I'm gay/straight, just keep it to yourself apart from good friends, and if people ask.

[today]

If people ask, tell them truthfully, if you want to EXPRESS YOURSELF WHEN YOU WANT, but don't stand up and be like Hi, I'm gay, when you first meet people, as people above have said people don't say Hi I'm gay/straight, just keep it to yourself apart from good friends, and if people ask.

Exaclty, you dont go flaunting it :rolleyes:.

If they ask then tell them, but as your only 13 it seems abit stupid to tell anyone as your still growing. :$

[deltateamaplha]

I've been reading through quite a lot of your posts and threads. I'm getting the impression that you want everyone to know your gay. This is fair enough but introducing your self saying hey i'm gay may not be the best idea. People might start to think that your advertising your Sexuality which is NEVER attractive. It's like them kinda of guys who walk down the street with one hand bent over going " oh my god no one understands me everyone hates me im GAY im scared IM GAY GAY GAY GAY". I hang around Gay Night Clubs are bars enough to know how irratating this is. So my advice is if people ask just be truthfull with them you never know people might just guess if they have a smashing gaydar xD. Anyway good luck with going to high school and if people don't accept you thats there problem. I'm sure your going to grow up to be a confident outstanding male.
xxxx

[dirrty]

Ever heard of the word
NO I CAN EXPRESS MYSELF WHEN I WANT


if you can express yourself when you want, then you should have no problem expressing your sexual orientation then should you?

[today]

i got warned for telling him that i dont like camps. peh. :S -.-'
You just want people to feel sorry tbh.

[GrAcE ShOrT]

To be honest, almost everybody on this forum says that when a person of 12-14 claims they're gay, that it's hormones. Yes, people do go through the stage of hormonal changes, but sometimes that isn't the case. Lots of people know they're gay, from a young age - even when they haven't started puberty. So there is no need for people to repeat that "omgz its ur hormonez n itz u hittin yer puberty" It's pointless.

Into your problem, you can be yourself without people knowing you're gay. People don't need to know you're gay. For people who say "oh they're living in the past, they're failing at life." Homophobia hasn't passed, yes - homosexuality was made legalised(?) over 40 years ago now, but people still aren't accepted as they're classed freaks, sicko's and just misfits altogether. A minority of people are accepted, but I'm sure the majority aren't.

Telling people you're gay in your introduction will just attract unneccesary attention. Rumours will be started, looks will be given, and whispers will be made. I can almost confirm that now. Never in my life have I came across a set of people in year 7 having maturity when it comes to this subject. I advise you to keep it to yourself, and to tell just a handful amount of people when you get close to them. You don't want to make your first couple of years in secondary school a regret, right? Exactly.