how much time would you need?

[Ree Yeah!]

how long do you think you should be with someone to move on from all the kissing and hugging stuff and take it further?

i think that you should deffo know wether they're not just using you for stuff.
so if you make them wait a bit longer, your gonna know.
for me i reckon about 2 weeks is ok to take it more than kissing.
but with my bf now i waited a month coz he had a reputation.

but also i think its different for different ppl.. like im a virgin so im gna wait longer for that
but maybe it would be different if ur not a virgin coz it woodnt be as important?
idk tell me what u think :)

[FlyingJesus]

Whatever you're comfortable with really, like you mentioned how you waited longer with your current guy because of his reputation, I'm sure that circumstance does come into it. My last girlfriend we got together basically because we had drunk sex at a party, and when we were going out I realised I didn't actually like her so didn't do anything again, and broke up with her. Girlfriend before that we were at it like rabbits from basically 3 weeks after we met, so it's all dependant on who you're with.

[Ini]

Well where i live you are sort of forced into it.

Not like raped i mean alot of boys dont stick around if there are not happy, i know as i used to be like it, if you like him dont wait to long as you could lose him.

But on the other hand if your not ready then dont do it.

[-Soph-]

I'm still a virgin, and idk...

I don't even want a serious relationship, but I don't want to loose my virginity to someone just because I want a bit of fun.

if you get me.

[Ini]

I'm still a virgin, and idk...

I don't even want a serious relationship, but I don't want to loose my virginity to someone just because I want a bit of fun.

if you get me.

I get what you mean theres plenty of other ways to have fun, but when you do it once you will gag for it

It's sort of like smoking when you dont have a cigarette you crave..

But no as serious lmao

[VPSwow]

Id say when your ready. Thats the simple answer and thats all i can say really.

[Kissed]

I'd say like when you're ready for more than kissing. But i'd say like atleast 2 months before you have sex, if your not over 16.
If that makes sense lol

[Ini]

you dont have to be over 16 just do it quietly lmao.

Nah some people say they are waiting for tright person, if thats you then wait lol

[@K]

Well, I had known this one girl for about 2 weeks, if that, we hooked up one day in th cinema, we really liked each other, and a few hours later, *BAM* lol.

[Ini]

check this lol this girl from skool got my MSN ive only been talking to her properly for one day and she is telling me she loves me.

So im going along with it, going to see her tommorrow and who nos

[Bef]

Depends on the guy. i dont see sex as a big thing. As long as you wrap up that is.

[Ini]

My cousin said the exact same thing one afternoon to me

Then night time came we went out around the bars got drunk and ended up loosing her virginity lol

[YoManGo!]

Took a month. Roughly, anyway.

[Antallica]

I'm still a virgin, and idk...

I don't even want a serious relationship, but I don't want to loose my virginity to someone just because I want a bit of fun.

if you get me.

I get you.

I would wait a month or 2 till i take my relationship further.

[DiscoPat]

If you're a virgin, keep it till you reach like 20s and in a proper relationship.
If not.. Then a month or two I'de say..

[YoManGo!]

"Taking it further" doesn't necessarily mean sex.

[Antallica]

"Taking it further" doesn't necessarily mean sex.


But it can lead to it ;]

[YoManGo!]

But it can lead to it ;]

no ****. you must read lots of books to have that knowledge.

[Ini]

no ****. you must read lots of books to have that knowledge.

I lol'ed

[Mitch4?]

omgs, if you're all teenagers you're all skanks! :P
When i saw this i was expecting if you're a virgin, and quite young possible 3 months to take it futher, 6 months to go all the way.
But no you all came out with 2 weeks and what not lol!! :P

I think when you're older, and you have had more experience, maybe 1 or 2 months to take it further/all the way? :P

[jrh2002]

15 to 20 mins ;)

[beth]

no ****. you must read lots of books to have that knowledge.
LOLLL. i bare lol'ed at that.
but yeah, i think whenever you're ready. you don't need to have a set time tbh.