Owwie.

[Browney]

Well, in maths a boy called Lee (apparently the hardest boy in the year, but whatever) kept calling a friend of mine, Eduardo "Fat (the t word for breasts)" and hitting me in the ribs to watch me jump. Nearing the end of the lesson me and Eduardo were thuroughly annoyed to say the least.

Eduardo called Lee a (T word for breasts). Lee responded with typical "hard guy" talk saying: "You think I'm a (let's just put t in brackets next time), eh? We'll see who's the (T) outside."

So this went on for the rest of the lesson. "We'll see." "Outside after lesson." And in our typical laid back style was just like "meh, ok." (But really, I was bricking it. I had never had a fight before. And "the hardest lad in our year" would be a sort of baptisim by fire. But anywho...) Then outside me and Eduardo just walked away, ignored them.

Then he hit Eduardo once on the back of his head and he swayed and almost fell over. And I could tell he was hit hard. Then he hit him on the back of the head again and said "Who's the (T) now?" I turned around and replied "You." Not the smartest idea, I know.

So for my efforts I got 2 whopping thumps on the back of my head.Then Lee turned his attention back to Eduardo and gave him another thump on the back of his head. All the time we never turned round, just ignored 'em. But I could tell Eduardo wasn't well by his glazed eyes. Turned out he had to go to hospital to get checked out for a slight concussion.

This was all on friday and it now turns out that when talking to the Year Head Lee told him that me and Eduardo swung out at Lee first. Which is rubbish. Then he asked for our stories so I told him exactly what I'm typing now.

But what I wanted to post this was to know whether I'd get in trouble or do you think I'll be ok? And what should I do to avoid him and his mates as soon as he comes back to school? (He got excluded.) Any advice is greatly appreciated.

(Sorry if I sound show-offy. Like: "OMGZ I GOT HIT.)

[Dan2nd]

well from your side of the story it dosn't sound like you've done anything wrong

[Browney]

I hope so but I'm not so sure on strict language in my school or if he'll believe Lee over me.

[beth]

just tell them everything you've told us and you should be fine. and anyway, i wouldn't worry about the language since you WERE provoked. surely this lee kid should be automatically excluded for punching this kid. even if he says he was provoked, there's no doubt that he hit him. hope it all works out alright :) xo.

[Danny,]

lol it sounds like this guy slapped you round the head? coz u cant exactly punch someone in the head coz it would hurt like hell, and you probably will get in trouble coz this boy will most likely get people to say you swung first

[dirrty]

from that, you havent done anything wrong.

and that lee guy sounds like a ***** because hitting someone while their back is turned is like the most cowardist thing to do. obviously when their back is turned, they cant do anything. so he thinks hes such a big guy, but really he isnt.

there are ppl like that in my school and it ****** me off because they walk around all "hard", and i just want someone to kick their *** to prove that they are not and knock them back down to reality.

[beth]

from that, you havent done anything wrong.

and that lee guy sounds like a ***** because hitting someone while their back is turned is like the most cowardist thing to do. obviously when their back is turned, they cant do anything. so he thinks hes such a big guy, but really he isnt.

there are ppl like that in my school and it ****** me off because they walk around all "hard", and i just want someone to kick their *** to prove that they are not and knock them back down to reality.
i will come to yr school & shank them up for you kkz.

[RunescapeWorker]

Fair enough, hardest kid in your school, but you atleast stand up for yourself, tell him to stop. don't ignore him. you're just giving him to benefit of the doubt.

But you see, I had a hard time at school, it wasn't bullying by people who aren't anything to me, it was my CLOSEST friends, but I thank them truely, it's made me a stronger person in general, heck I probably wasn't the coolest had all the girls along with a 9", but i'm the one thats earning to most out of all of them, i'm the one that said if I'm not that cool in social life I best make up for it in school time, hard-work pays, I bet even if you try your hardest, you'll wish in 2 years you tried harder, but don't let this phase you, people go through worse **** than you, you have a family, you have friends, you work hard.

Please understand what I'm saying, in Rastafari, we MUST never hurt ANYONE ever, if you take some wooping, who cares. it won't make you loose sleep, tommorow is a new day :)

[Browney]

Thanks for all the advice, thankfully, my year head knows how much of a bully Lee is and trusted me instead of him. +Rep and love to you all. :)

I know it sounds like I had done nothing wrong but I was getting wound up and worried and needed some re-assurance. Thanks.

[RunescapeWorker]

You shouldn't try to avoid him..

Like I said, if he sees your weak then he'll take advantage, don't let this phase you, it has caused a lot of people to go of track at school, stupid bullys, don't worry about it, he won't do jack, you won't do anything.

BUT, what you have to learn not to do, is hate, NEVER hate, whatever he does to you.

[AndyDude312]

Worst thing to do is ignore them. There are some "hard-nuts" at my school who are in the year above me. On the way home, me and my mate tend to see them. When we overtake them, they'll say something like stupidly awkward like: "Can I lick your *****?" (<-Hair beginning with P) for example. My mate does the usual thing and stays silent. But that's so bad. It makes him look like the bullied emo. I tend to say something back like: "It's your lucky day cos there's plenty to go around." It kinda puts them off. DONT STAY SILENT! *Hit em where the sun don't shine!*

[RunescapeWorker]

No^^ Don't.

One day, and I hope you will learn, you'll talk back to someone you don't want to, and then it's not just bruises you'll get your *** wooped seriously. Its advisable to SHUT up. Words are silver, silence is gold.

Having a big gob now, won't help you now or later in life. Alot of people in my street had a big gob, then they got beaten by a gang, for having a big gob, look where it got them, it changed their lives, they buckled up.

But, at times, it is good to stand up, you can't live like it. thats why you should never ever use violence. Don't advise people to punch them where the sun don't shine, because if someone done that to me, it wouldn't do ANYTHING but make me ape ****, so so bad.

All i'm saying is that you have to believe in yourself, don't let the mouth do the dictating, think about what you say, you won't look like a fool. You and only you know what you should or shouldn't say.

Look at Luther King.. Did he go up to the president and hit him where the sun don't shine?

He chose his words correctly, he done nothing wrong, he was smart about it.

Self-Displine is what is needed, learn to respect yourself, you'll learn to respect others, if you use your hands to harm a person, you aren't any better than the bully, it has been told to you by everyone, take it from someone who is down to earth, who's lived through it, just like you.

[AndyDude312]

No really. If I were you I'd say something like this: If we were (T)s, then technically we would have to be on some woman's chest day in day out. Which would mean she'd be here right now. There's no woman here. So we can't be (T) cos we're not stuck to a woman's chest. Also we don't get kinky looks from men so there's another reason why we can't be (T)s. If we were such big (T)s then wouldn't you want to start feeling us up? No? Then we're clearly not (T)s [The next bit is optional] Also, (T)s don't have (C)s (remove trousers and underwear.)

[RunescapeWorker]

Wow, you are very stupid.

You have NO IDEA what i'm talking about..

[Browney]

I'd rather ignore them and not get drawn in. I'm not the mouthy or violent type. I'd prefer not to try to act e-hard because I'm not hard in real life. I could go on here saying how I did swing back at him or how was sooo clever for replying with he's a (T). But I'm not that type, thanks anyway.

[beth]

Worst thing to do is ignore them. There are some "hard-nuts" at my school who are in the year above me. On the way home, me and my mate tend to see them. When we overtake them, they'll say something like stupidly awkward like: "Can I lick your *****?" (<-Hair beginning with P) for example. My mate does the usual thing and stays silent. But that's so bad. It makes him look like the bullied emo. I tend to say something back like: "It's your lucky day cos there's plenty to go around." It kinda puts them off. DONT STAY SILENT! *Hit em where the sun don't shine!*
wow. i'd rather not degrade myself by stooping to the "bullies" level. and i don't think cola should either. he's obviously a better type of being than this lee, so why go there?

that's foolish.

[Browney]

wow. i'd rather not degrade myself by stooping to the "bullies" level. and i don't think cola should either. he's obviously a better type of being than this lee, so why go there?

that's foolish.

Thanks for that. :D

[Assassinator]

You should not let him get away with this,this lad sounds like a right cocky "beep".I Know this sounds perthitic buts there's only one way to sort out people like this, and its give them what they give out.I Could ashure you if you "battered" this guy he wouldnt touch you,but im not saying you should.

[Browney]

You should not let him get away with this,this lad sounds like a right cocky "beep".I Know this sounds perthitic buts there's only one way to sort out people like this, and its give them what they give out.I Could ashure you if you "battered" this guy he wouldnt touch you,but im not saying you should.

I probably wouldn't know how, LOL! Like I said, I haven't had much experience. Now is when I regret quitting Karate, Aha.

[jackass]

Kill the fool.

Nah i'm joking, best too leave it. Unless you want to swing at him out of school completely, so you don't get into trouble. This guy sounds like a right ****. Its best just to keep away from them for a while, don't run and don't let them win. If they do it again, just act calm and ignore it. If it won't stop, tell someone or beat the hell out of him. ;)

And to answer your question, no you shouldn't get into trouble, it wasn't your fault at all, so you should be fine. :8

Good luck.

[luke-p]

Schools should take bullying more seriously, I have not had the unfortunate experience of being bullied... But I know it can affect peoples education and make them misrable...

Short story, from when I was in year 11... One of my younger friends in year 9 was being bullied and he had been for about a month with names and mental abuse... He didnt tell anyone for about a month but then it got to much for him and he came to me in tears, and I hate seeing my friends cry :\ anyway. He told me who it was, and I resolved it without violence... Not that hard to do, you just got to choose the right words, and the right tone... Dont seem to soft or they will think AHH What ever, then it could turn violent...

Anyway, I hope everything turns out well for you :)
And that bully gets what is coming to him...

[:Hazel]

Try and keep away from that fool :P

If he is the "hardest" in your year its most likely they will believe you if this boy is known for throwing his weight around.