Help me... Please

[Cwmbran]

I don't know where to post this in relationships or here.

Well... I'm crying writing this, and you guys are the last resort ive turned too.

I'm just going to be blunt with this as I don't know how else to put it.
My girlfriend who I love so much (Im 17 so dont give me ******** about I dont know what love is) has passed away. She had been ill for the past week and she sufferd from breathing problems she passed away in her sleep.

And I just don't want this pain, I don't know how to stop it. Other people in my life have died but nobody that meant as much to me as she did.

I know people will say theres others out there, but I need her.
I had never felt the way I felt and still do about her I truly love her and I told her that I would never stop loving her which I wont.

I have no idea what to do I have turned to my friends, turned to my parents spoken to hers and i just have no idea what to do.

So im going to stop there as its taken me like an hour to type this because i cant stop crying.

Thank you for reading.

EDIT: And before some of you **** heads say that im looking for attention you can all go **** yourselves.

Edited by ---MAD--- (General Manager): Thread closed to avoid further arguments.

[Jordan,]

1st thing im sorry for your loss and what I woul o is think about all the good times you with her so basicly she still with u

[poloolop]

thats a terrible thing to go through, especially at your age. no-one can imagine that unless they go through it, so i have no idea what you are feeling.

im sorry for it yeah, and i think habsafe put it perfectly - all the good times, and she will always be with you.

i suck at advice so ill leave lyk, but im sure it will pull through in the end. all the best.

[Cwmbran]

I spose thats all i can do now. Just remember her but it upsets me that all she is going to be is a memory now.

[Jordan,]

Also when your in collage or 6 form or wt ever in public if somthing reminds you of her and u want to cry an u want to keep it in just cry, and talk to your mates they will be there to support you

[Cwmbran]

I've broken up from college now untill I go back.

I just feel like crap at the moment.
Her friends are trying to cheer me up but nothins working I just need her.

[Jackie Jack™]

wow im sorry man....... just think of happy times you had together :)

[Cwmbran]

I will, thanks.

[FatJoe]

My condolences man. I know this girl she was like my best friend and she passed away. I know how it feels. Did she have a disease or something? I find it odd just not waking up if your kind of old. The doctor didn't prescribe anything?

[Cwmbran]

No, she normally felt ill and tired all the time.

This past week she had been feeling extremly ill and she wanted some "me time"
I wanted to be there for her but i thought it would be best to leave her be for a few days.

I was going to ring her tonight and see if she was ok and then I got told that she passed away while she slept today.

[FatJoe]

Wow , that sucks. I feel for you man :(

[Cwmbran]

I just wish I could hold her hand, tell her I love her one more time.

Hopefully when I go she will be waiting for me where ever she is now.

[FatJoe]

I mean you have your whole life ahead of you.. I know how you feel at the moment. You will find someone else tho

[Cwmbran]

I mean you have your whole life ahead of you.. I know how you feel at the moment. You will find someone else tho


Yeh I'll find someone else I know that, but I will never forget about her.
as I said before in a way I want to get over her right now and just get on with my life, but I can't as I really did love her.

[Earthquake]

Dont wanna break up all this fuss, but someones gotta say it..LIAR.

[Cwmbran]

Dont wanna break up all this fuss, but someones gotta say it..LIAR.


You honestly think I would make up this when it's about my own girlfriend?

You seriously need to go and get your head sorted.

[Elkaa]

Dont wanna break up all this fuss, but someones gotta say it..LIAR.

Bad things do happen in the world, you know. Whilst 9/10 cases turn out to be lies, over the internet, it still meaning that the 1/10 are true. If you don't have anything decent to say, just plainly don't say it. I'm sure you'd love to have someone coming upto you and calling you a lier, if your girlfriend, or wife just died.

[velvet]

Dont wanna break up all this fuss, but someones gotta say it..LIAR.

shut up. l:

& i'm sorry to hear that, all you can do really is just cry it out and remember the good times,
try not to let it hold you back though, i'm sure your girlfriend wouldn't have wanted that.
I know it's one of the hardest things in the world to accept someone who ment so much to you is gone, but just try and be positive and talk to people. (:

[Cwmbran]

i'm sorry to hear that, all you can do really is just cry it out and remember the good times,
try not to let it hold you back though, i'm sure your girlfriend wouldn't have wanted that.
I know it's one of the hardest things in the world to accept someone who ment so much to you is gone, but just try and be positive and talk to people. (:

Yeh I've done plenty of crying, I think im kind of dry and well posting here even though its about her it's taking my mind off things and I haven't cried for about 1 hour now.

Going to be on the phone to her mum tomorrow, just talking about stuff like the funeral etc.

[Lime_Jello]

I'm sorry this happened to you.. but don't do anything you'll regret out of depression.

Usually people who lose loved ones go through a depressed stage but they soon figure out what God has planed and that everything happens for a reason.

You'll be happy in no time.

[Cwmbran]

I'm sorry this happened to you.. but don't do anything you'll regret out of depression.

Usually people who lose loved ones go through a depressed stage but they soon figure out what God has planed and that everything happens for a reason.

You'll be happy in no time.

I wont do anything I regret, I've already thought about that and I know it's just the cowards way out of things so I wont be doing anything like that.

I'd be happy if she was still here but yeh one day I'll be happy again.

[:Delirium]

man, i know how it feels, remember that shes in a better place and her spirit will ALWAYS be with you, in your heart, i give you my condolences, friend.

Hope you stay well, watch your health.

-St0nemace

[Earthquake]

I still don't belive you.

[HabboIsKrouts]

I still don't belive you.

dude **REMOVED** this thread, you're thaughts are not wanted, i couldn't imagine the pain he's going through let alone a minority of people like you saying it's fake, just don't say it. Keep your measeley thaughts to yourself.

Anyway mate im sorry to hear about your loss, made a tear come to my eye, don't keep thinking about it, just live in a way that will honour and respect her, but that is the best thing you can do for her.

sorry to hear it, you'll get through it.

My thaughts and heart goes out to you in this difficult time (L)

Edited by Bomb-Head (Forum Super Moderator): Please don't avoid the forum filter, thanks :)

[Cwmbran]

man, i know how it feels, remember that shes in a better place and her spirit will ALWAYS be with you, in your heart, i give you my condolences, friend.

Hope you stay well, watch your health.

-St0nemace

Thanks, as I've said before I just wish I could just tell her I love her one last time.


I still don't belive you.

Just go get your head sorted then come back and talk ok?
Because why anybody would lie about such a horrific event I have no idea and I'm not one to lie ESPECIALLY if it's about my OWN girlfriend.




Anyway mate im sorry to hear about your loss, made a tear come to my eye, don't keep thinking about it, just live in a way that will honour and respect her, but that is the best thing you can do for her.

sorry to hear it, you'll get through it.

My thaughts and heart goes out to you in this difficult time (L)

I'll probably make something that will remind me of her, dunno what yet well I'll make two one to go with her and one for me.

[Jackie Jack™]

Make a cross or something in your backyard or w/e or make a memorial with a picture of her and you :)

Edit: mate at least (i hope) you didnt say anything rude to her before she left...
a friend and a favorite teacher of mine told their brothers they hated them and that was the last time they saw them :(

[Cwmbran]

Make a cross or something in your backyard or w/e or make a memorial with a picture of her and you :)

Edit: mate at least (i hope) you didnt say anything rude to her before she left...
a friend and a favorite teacher of mine told their brothers they hated them and that was the last time they saw them :(

I could never say anything bad to her, she was and still is the world to me.
I really do love her no matter what and I promised her no matter what I would always love her and she promised the same. We were so happy, until about a week ago when she felt ill and wanted some time to her self.

The very last thing I said to her was "I love you and it will never change." :(

[Jackie Jack™]

I could never say anything bad to her, she was and still is the world to me.
I really do love her no matter what and I promised her no matter what I would always love her and she promised the same. We were so happy, until about a week ago when she felt ill and wanted some time to her self.

The very last thing I said to her was "I love you and it will never change." :(
:) Just think of the love you two had together :) dont think about the bad.
And when you meet her again i bet her first words will be "I love you too nathan"

[lAdmire]

Well, I've heard that to get over a loved one is just to move on with your life. They say that's what your loved one would want. So, I think you should just live life one day at a time. It's hard to cope without her. But just give it a try. I'm not a fan of this advice like move on with your life, but it's what I've hear.d I say live life on day at a time. Don't forget about her, but don't be sad because she'll always be with you.

[le harry]

I send my condolences (sp?)
Sorry to hear for your loss, I can't imagine the pain and heartache you are going through.

Earthquake: Shut up you silly 12 year old, no one is jumping on your "hes lieing" bandwagon. Get out off this thread.

[Lord_Gig]

I'm deeply sorry for your loss :(

My best friend died from leukemia when i was 15, I know it's not atall the same sitiuation but i just want you to know, you will feel bad for a few weeks/months but things do get better. You will realise that she has gone to a better place and life does go on, one persons influence on another persons life is great, especially if you were in love with them, but you will find someone else to fill the void in your heart (sounds way to cheesy :P).

Once again i'm very sorry for your lost :(

[Metric.]

i really don't want to say "i'm sorry for your loss", because that won't bring her back, but that's all i can really say.

life goes on, you'll always remember her and she'll always be in your heart.

[---MAD---]

I am sorry for what has happened. The best thing to do is treasure the happy moments and slowly pick yourself up and start moving on. What you might want to do is keep somethings that you and heard enjoyed, maybe a nice photo, a T-shirt she loved or something like that, to remind you of her and her happy times with you and the love you shared :).

Once again I am sorry for your loss. Going through what you are going through is unimaginable as I have not gone through it and I hope not to go through it any time soon.

[Jackie Jack™]

I am sorry for what has happened. The best thing to do is treasure the happy moments and slowly pick yourself up and start moving on. What you might want to do is keep somethings that you and heard enjoyed, maybe a nice photo, a T-shirt she loved or something like that, to remind you of her and her happy times with you and the love you shared :).

Once again I am sorry for your loss. Going through what you are going through is unimaginable as I have not gone through it and I hope not to go through it any time soon.

Nice =P i know it might be painful but if you were really close with the family maybe spend the night ( or alot of time ) over there with them and you can comfort eachother..
And another thing you could get a pic of you and her or like a close item and keep it by your bedside :)

[Bun]

Dude... sorry to hear that. She sounded amazing, I can't possibly even imagine the pain you must be going through right now, I really am sorry for your loss.
The only thing I will say is that, she wouldn't have wanted you living your life in misery. She would have wanted you to be happy, I know it will be difficult but life moves on :(.

[Tbh]

Dont wanna break up all this fuss, but someones gotta say it..LIAR.

Damn i hate you tbh..
you unsympathetic *******!

Nate i know how you feel tbh,
but i hope it will work out in the end
Sarah was awesome and i know how much you loved her..
but as most people including myself have said..
it will take time but you will get over it «3

[luke-p]

Dont wanna break up all this fuss, but someones gotta say it..LIAR.

Got any proof of that?

If not then **** off and don't post you ****... Posting on a forum is obviously his last resort because he is upset and he doesnt want attention he just wants to keep his mind off the hurt!

I'm sorry for what has happend, even know you feel like you will never get over it, you will eventually... It just might take some time :(

[Cwmbran]

Well, I've heard that to get over a loved one is just to move on with your life. They say that's what your loved one would want. So, I think you should just live life one day at a time. It's hard to cope without her. But just give it a try. I'm not a fan of this advice like move on with your life, but it's what I've hear.d I say live life on day at a time. Don't forget about her, but don't be sad because she'll always be with you.
I'm moving on slowly, it will obviously hurt for the time being but ergh I can't help thinking that if I had been there for her when she said she needed time alone this would not have happened.


I send my condolences (sp?)
Sorry to hear for your loss, I can't imagine the pain and heartache you are going through.

Thank you, just as people have said I'll get over it eventually but she will also be in my heart.

I'm deeply sorry for your loss :(

My best friend died from leukemia when i was 15, I know it's not atall the same sitiuation but i just want you to know, you will feel bad for a few weeks/months but things do get better. You will realise that she has gone to a better place and life does go on, one persons influence on another persons life is great, especially if you were in love with them, but you will find someone else to fill the void in your heart (sounds way to cheesy :P).

Once again i'm very sorry for your lost :(
I'm sorry to hear about your friend, I have lost many people that were close to me but it has never hurt as much as loosing her, I still love her.


i really don't want to say "i'm sorry for your loss", because that won't bring her back, but that's all i can really say.

life goes on, you'll always remember her and she'll always be in your heart.
I know nothing will bring her back, and I really did not expect so many replies from this many people.
Good luck to you.


I am sorry for what has happened. The best thing to do is treasure the happy moments and slowly pick yourself up and start moving on. What you might want to do is keep somethings that you and heard enjoyed, maybe a nice photo, a T-shirt she loved or something like that, to remind you of her and her happy times with you and the love you shared :).

Once again I am sorry for your loss. Going through what you are going through is unimaginable as I have not gone through it and I hope not to go through it any time soon.
Thats a nice idea, I have a few photos I really like of her and her green top she always wore well not always but most of the time, I'll try and get that.
I hope nobody has to go through anything like this especially around this age, thank you.


Dude... sorry to hear that. She sounded amazing, I can't possibly even imagine the pain you must be going through right now, I really am sorry for your loss.
The only thing I will say is that, she wouldn't have wanted you living your life in misery. She would have wanted you to be happy, I know it will be difficult but life moves on :(.
She was and still is, and your right she wouldn't want me living life in misery it'll take time but I'll be over it, thank you.



Nate i know how you feel tbh,
but i hope it will work out in the end
Sarah was awesome and i know how much you loved her..
but as most people including myself have said..
it will take time but you will get over it «3
Thank you for being there Jord, you've been a great help and well it's not over yet is it.


Posting on a forum is obviously his last resort because he is upset and he doesnt want attention he just wants to keep his mind off the hurt!

I'm sorry for what has happend, even know you feel like you will never get over it, you will eventually... It just might take some time :(

Posting her death on the forum was my last resort, I've dealt with a lot of deaths in my time and this one has hurt the most, as it would because she is my girlfriend, I have found posting on the forums has taken my mind off things even if I'am posting about her, I spouse it is helping in some way.

I will get over it eventually, but I will not forget her I will always love her and nobody can compare to her. Thank you.

[Bomb-Head]

I'm sorry for your loss - at least now she isn't in pain anymore :(


I still don't belive you.

Please, have some respect :rolleyes:.

[Ostinato]

I don't know where to post this in relationships or here.

Well... I'm crying writing this, and you guys are the last resort ive turned too.

I'm just going to be blunt with this as I don't know how else to put it.
My girlfriend who I love so much (Im 17 so dont give me ******** about I dont know what love is) has passed away. She had been ill for the past week and she sufferd from breathing problems she passed away in her sleep.

And I just don't want this pain, I don't know how to stop it. Other people in my life have died but nobody that meant as much to me as she did.

I know people will say theres others out there, but I need her.
I had never felt the way I felt and still do about her I truly love her and I told her that I would never stop loving her which I wont.

I have no idea what to do I have turned to my friends, turned to my parents spoken to hers and i just have no idea what to do.

So im going to stop there as its taken me like an hour to type this because i cant stop crying.

Thank you for reading.

EDIT: And before some of you **** heads say that im looking for attention you can all go **** yourselves.

I give you my sincere condolences. I'd like to apologise for not posting sooner but have been busy and only saw the thread now you brought it to my attention.

I'd like to say I have a lot of respect for you for having the guts to post here about it. It seems you have tried all the things you can think of to help you get over this grief and hopefully posting here for some friendly advice might be useful to you.

Out of my own experience the only thing I can tell you that is gonna help you get over it - is time. Trust me. Right now you will be feeling so bad and as though everything just isn't worth it etc. It is completely understandable as when you do lose someone it is completely natural to mourn and go through several stages of grief as you clearly are. All I can say though, is that from my own personal experience time really does help.

No-one is ever expecting you to just one day wake up and forget about your girlfriend and no longer love her. I know that close people to, me such as one of my best friends, who I have lost are always going to mean something special and have a place in my heart. I think about them every single day of my life in one way or another.

At the moment I presume it's all still pretty fresh on your mind and it still will be for the next couple of weeks. There is no denying at all that your going to face a difficult struggle over the next few days and weeks. However, if you can overcome it, it really will make you a much stronger and better person and will also prepare you for just about anything life can throw at you.

As it is still quite fresh to you the pain and hurt is going to be at it's maximum right now - hence all your crying and upset. It is completely normal and understandable so don't worry about it. Even if you think your way of grief is a bit strange or anything - just don't worry as everyone really does cope with things like this in their own way.

There is also no point punishing yourself and making it even worse by thinking of things over and over and wishing you where there. Unfortunately what's done is done and you can no longer change that. Therefore, rather than beating yourself up over the past and what you could have done - you should focus on what you can do now to help you get over your grief but ensure you always have a place for your girlfriend.

I definitely recommend, like suggested by MAD and others, perhaps making a wee shrine or something... It really is helpful even to just have a wee box of stuff to help provoke your memories and help remember your girlfriend. Just stuff like photos of you and her together, just her etc.

You will probably be able to see your girlfriend before she is buried/cremated in her coffin and say a proper goodbye. Just think about some stuff you maybe wanna say to her, as although she is not here in lifeform to hear it - I promise you just letting out stuff thatyou've got to say and reassuring her that you will always love her will make you feel better.

I really do hope you get through this mate and I promise you - if you do it seriously will help develop you as a person and make you a much stronger guy. If you ever need someone to talk to I really do suggest going to your parents, friends, family friends, neighbours or even phoning up a help line such as childline. Also, I am always here for a chat if you ever wanna drop me a wee PM and can hook you up with some numbers for confidential chat and help lines.


Dont wanna break up all this fuss, but someones gotta say it..LIAR.


I still don't belive you.

Earthquake nobody actually cares about you. We do not actually care whether you believe it or not. Your sitting here trying to provoke some sort of turn against the guy claiming it's fake and all. You have no reason at all to say so apart from the fact you are an immature little imbecile who needs to get a grip of reality and grow up. I seriously suggest you take a look at yourself and your posts within this thread. I seriously have no respect for you in the slightest - and nor does anyone else who has posted in this thread going by their reaction towards you.

Fair enough you are entitled to believe he is lying, but why post about it? Your doing nothing but adding fuel to the fire and make it worse. If you think it's a load of crap and don't wanna read about it then you know exactly what to do - ignore the thread or log off... and with a bit of luck don't log back on again. To be honest, the sort of posts you are making in this thread simply aren't welcome and it shows the people who really do contribute to Habbox's community and care for other members of it.

[348GTS]

I still don't belive you.

GO ******* DIE NO ONE GIVES A **** ABOUT WHAT YOU THINK




Sorry about your girlfriend man, I really hope you find something good about this experience. Life is all about experience, so try and learn from it.

[Cwmbran]

I give you my sincere condolences. I'd like to apologise for not posting sooner but have been busy and only saw the thread now you brought it to my attention.

I'd like to say I have a lot of respect for you for having the guts to post here about it. It seems you have tried all the things you can think of to help you get over this grief and hopefully posting here for some friendly advice might be useful to you.

Out of my own experience the only thing I can tell you that is gonna help you get over it - is time. Trust me. Right now you will be feeling so bad and as though everything just isn't worth it etc. It is completely understandable as when you do lose someone it is completely natural to mourn and go through several stages of grief as you clearly are. All I can say though, is that from my own personal experience time really does help.

No-one is ever expecting you to just one day wake up and forget about your girlfriend and no longer love her. I know that close people to, me such as one of my best friends, who I have lost are always going to mean something special and have a place in my heart. I think about them every single day of my life in one way or another.

At the moment I presume it's all still pretty fresh on your mind and it still will be for the next couple of weeks. There is no denying at all that your going to face a difficult struggle over the next few days and weeks. However, if you can overcome it, it really will make you a much stronger and better person and will also prepare you for just about anything life can throw at you.

As it is still quite fresh to you the pain and hurt is going to be at it's maximum right now - hence all your crying and upset. It is completely normal and understandable so don't worry about it. Even if you think your way of grief is a bit strange or anything - just don't worry as everyone really does cope with things like this in their own way.

There is also no point punishing yourself and making it even worse by thinking of things over and over and wishing you where there. Unfortunately what's done is done and you can no longer change that. Therefore, rather than beating yourself up over the past and what you could have done - you should focus on what you can do now to help you get over your grief but ensure you always have a place for your girlfriend.

I definitely recommend, like suggested by MAD and others, perhaps making a wee shrine or something... It really is helpful even to just have a wee box of stuff to help provoke your memories and help remember your girlfriend. Just stuff like photos of you and her together, just her etc.

You will probably be able to see your girlfriend before she is buried/cremated in her coffin and say a proper goodbye. Just think about some stuff you maybe wanna say to her, as although she is not here in lifeform to hear it - I promise you just letting out stuff thatyou've got to say and reassuring her that you will always love her will make you feel better.

I really do hope you get through this mate and I promise you - if you do it seriously will help develop you as a person and make you a much stronger guy. If you ever need someone to talk to I really do suggest going to your parents, friends, family friends, neighbours or even phoning up a help line such as childline. Also, I am always here for a chat if you ever wanna drop me a wee PM and can hook you up with some numbers for confidential chat and help lines.

Thank you for your reply, I had to read it about 3 times to take it all in.
I don't really know what to say anymore so I'm going to try and keep it short.

I will make something to remember her by, it's the little things that you remember most and things that you had planned to do being canceled.
We were joking one day about them paper chain people that you make and she was telling me how she couldn't make them and I was going to help her make some, and singing was a big part of her life and the piano. She challenged me to a singing contest where we were going to get all our friends together I'm just upset now that we didn't have the time to do them things together.

I tried ringing her mother today to talk about her and if she had any plans for the funeral, and she would pick up then hang up straight away so I'm going to try and get round to her house to see if shes ok.

I've got a load of stuff to say about her at her funeral spouse it's just my way of preparing to let her go as much as I don't want too.

I would like to thank everybody for the support they are giving me even the little comments are helping, and just getting to talk about her is really helping me through this, thank you all.



Sorry about your girlfriend man, I really hope you find something good about this experience. Life is all about experience, so try and learn from it.
I have already in a way, not to take your life for granted and to treat the people you love with the utmost respect and make sure they know that you love them.

[Metric.]

I know nothing will bring her back, and I really did not expect so many replies from this many people.
Good luck to you.


no, good luck to you :)

[Earthquake]

I'm just saying ''HENCHE THE 19 -REPS'' That you don't really come on your computer when someones died and tell people about it, its quite sad. Yea I
dont give a toss what you lot think

[Cwmbran]

no, good luck to you :)
Thanks. :)


I'm just saying ''HENCHE THE 19 -REPS'' That you don't really come on your computer when someones died and tell people about it, its quite sad. Yea I
dont give a toss what you lot think

Do you think that's the first thing I did?
What do you think I thought at the time? "Oh no my girlfriends dead lets post it on the internet."

You are really sick minded to think that anyone would do suck a thing, as I said in the very FIRST post of this thread "I'm not looking for attention, you guys are my last resort."

So yeh if you don't want to believe me fine with that, I hope you go through the pain I have had to go through you heartless piece of ****.

[Earthquake]

Thanks. :)



Do you think that's the first thing I did?
What do you think I thought at the time? "Oh no my girlfriends dead lets post it on the internet."

You are really sick minded to think that anyone would do suck a thing, as I said in the very FIRST post of this thread "I'm not looking for attention, you guys are my last resort."

So yeh if you don't want to believe me fine with that, I hope you go through the pain I have had to go through you heartless piece of ****.
Oh go talk to people you actully know then internet buddys you loser, do something more respectful then sit on the computer all day

[Cwmbran]

Oh go talk to people you actully know then internet buddys you loser, do something more respectful then sit on the computer all day


Do something more respectful than sit on the computer all day?
Are you saying you know me, because I can guarantee you that you don't.

You have no idea what I' am going through, and for your information I have been on the phone most of the day ringing family and friends.

[[DC]eption]

Oh go talk to people you actully know then internet buddys you loser, do something more respectful then sit on the computer all day


You can talk about ******* repspect you **** faced ******. YOU THINK HES LIENG ABOUT THE WHOLE THING!

sorry to hear about your loss :( Hope you start to feel better soon.

[Cwmbran]

sorry to hear about your loss :( Hope you start to feel better soon.

Well I'm starting to feel a bit better now, it's just getting used to her not being here.

[Earthquake]

Oh go out you loser, I know your lieing, jsut like 30% of all your posts, Why
don't you go get a new gf to cheer yourself up, First you tell me your 14 on habbo then you come here claiming to be 17 pfft, And if this is all true, why don't you go help out the family then sit on your *** all day trying to get yourself some sympathy, your just a ''bf'' nothing more then that, She probally was cheating on you anyway.

[Catzsy]

Well nothing will change the way you feel at the moment -it is natural to feel such a big loss. She was lucky to have known you by the sounds of it. The feelings of sadness and loss do disappear into the mists of time eventually but you will always remember her with great fondness. This is a link to a website that may help you to cope during this very unhappy phase of your life but it will get better just go with how you feel.=]
Link:http://www.crusebereavementcare.org.uk/

[Bun]

Oh go out you loser, I know your lieing, jsut like 30% of all your posts, Why
don't you go get a new gf to cheer yourself up, First you tell me your 14 on habbo then you come here claiming to be 17 pfft, And if this is all true, why don't you go help out the family then sit on your *** all day trying to get yourself some sympathy, your just a ''bf'' nothing more then that, She probally was cheating on you anyway.
go socialise, freakin nerd.

once again nathan, sorry about your loss man :(.

[Cwmbran]

Oh go out you loser, I know your lieing, jsut like 30% of all your posts, Why
don't you go get a new gf to cheer yourself up, First you tell me your 14 on habbo then you come here claiming to be 17 pfft, And if this is all true, why don't you go help out the family then sit on your *** all day trying to get yourself some sympathy, your just a ''bf'' nothing more then that, She probally was cheating on you anyway.


I don't even know you on habbo.
You can ask anyone you want from habbo if you so called know me and find out my age.

If you actually read the thread you would see that I tried calling her mum and she would answer and the put the phone down. Then I went around her house to find her in tears, and I can guarantee you that my girlfriend would not have cheated on me as we spent practically all of our time together.

So you can go and **** yourself for all I care, as Ostinato said "Nobody else is jumping aboard your hes lying band wagon." So why don't you just drop it.


Originally posted by Catzsy
Well nothing will change the way you feel at the moment -it is natural to feel such a big loss. She was lucky to have known you by the sounds of it. The feelings of sadness and loss do disappear into the mists of time eventually but you will always remember her with great fondness. This is a link to a website that may help you to cope during this very unhappy phase of your life but it will get better just go with how you feel.=]
Link:http://www.crusebereavementcare.org.uk/Your right nothing will change the way I feel about her, it's will just take time to get over her.
Thanks for the link I didn't think there was anything like that out there. Thank you.

[Earthquake]

No I won't until you face up to ******* terms and admit your've just done this 1) for sympathy and a bit of respect or 2) you've done this in a sick way to get more rep 3) you just ****** yourself and thought it would be funny to post this as your a perverted freak

Edited by micky.blue.eyes (Super Moderator): Please don't be rude towards other members.

[Bun]

No I won't until you face up to ******* terms and admit your've just done this 1) for sympathy and a bit of respect or 2) you've done this in a sick way to get more rep 3) you just ****** yourself and thought it would be funny to post this as your a perverted freak
He's got enough freaken repuation and respect on these forums, he wouldn't need to pull a sick trick to get one.
I hope your life is full of misery you pathetic, immature, little :rude:.

Edited by micky.blue.eyes (Super Moderator): Please don't be rude towards other members.

[msb.]

lol things like this happens, but atleast that ain't the last time u will see her right, well if u believe in heaven and hell like me :D
I am sure if you believe in god and heaven and hell and she was a good person, she will go to heaven and if u are an bad person then u will go to hell, then you will proably see her right?
I am sure if she is watching you, I don't think she will be happy to see u crying, so i think the time has come for u to STOP
sum people deal with it by turning to god which in my view is an good idea...

I am in no way trying to offend people that don't believe in god, i am expressing my view and trying to help if you don't like what I said please ignore it, if you disagree with my view then please ignore it... I am saying that is what I believe... THANKS

[Earthquake]

He's got enough freaken repuation and respect on these forums, he wouldn't need to pull a sick trick to get one.
I hope your life is full of misery you pathetic, immature, little :rude:.
I'm loved by many, hated by scum

[Cwmbran]

No I won't until you face up to ******* terms and admit your've just done this 1) for sympathy and a bit of respect or 2) you've done this in a sick way to get more rep 3) you just ****** yourself and thought it would be funny to post this as your a perverted freak

1) I have not received any rep from this thread, nor have I given any out, apart from the -Rep to you.
2) You really must have something wrong with you if you think that I' am lying about this, there is no way in hell I would lie about anything like this especially if it was about my own girlfriend. Also how does posting this asking for help make me a perverted freak?

I would like to see some evidence that proves I' am lying.
But you don't have any do you, and it's quiet clear that you are in the wrong.

[Mr.Enviormental]

soz man how did she die? i hope u was a good bf to her as life isnt that long

[Cwmbran]

soz man how did she die? i hope u was a good bf to her as life isnt that long

She just died in her sleep, she had been ill the week before and leading upto the death and just went. Thats all I really know about it.

We had alot of good times, and hardly any bad times so yeh I hope she thought I was a good boyfriend to her.

[brapp]

aww, sorry to hear.

and earthquake **** off you disrespectful little ****.

[Ostinato]

Oh go out you loser, I know your lieing, jsut like 30% of all your posts, Why
don't you go get a new gf to cheer yourself up, First you tell me your 14 on habbo then you come here claiming to be 17 pfft, And if this is all true, why don't you go help out the family then sit on your *** all day trying to get yourself some sympathy, your just a ''bf'' nothing more then that, She probally was cheating on you anyway.

Seriously...

You are completely out of order and to put it plain should be completely removed from this forum. There is certain issues I think everyone should have a degree of respect towards either way no matter what you believe, but you've basically illustrated how much of an insecure, pathetic little boy you really are.

You seriously do not deserve to even be alive. There are unfortunate people who do not get the chance to live for as long as you may have, decent people who actually have respect for others get their lives taken away from them whilst people who are a complete waste of space like you are left.

That's unfair for you.

[Earthquake]

Seriously...

You are completely out of order and to put it plain should be completely removed from this forum. There is certain issues I think everyone should have a degree of respect towards either way no matter what you believe, but you've basically illustrated how much of an insecure, pathetic little boy you really are.

You seriously do not deserve to even be alive. There are unfortunate people who do not get the chance to live for as long as you may have, decent people who actually have respect for others get their lives taken away from them whilst people who are a complete waste of space like you are left.

That's unfair for you.
Like yourself.

[Cwmbran]

14-07-2007 10:35 PM I hope she died in pain you scum.

You know what you ******* piecie of **** eathquake, I seriously hope somebody runs you down tomorrow, or better still your whole family and friends so you will know what it feels like you ******* worthless scum bag.

[luke-p]

Like yourself.

And thats your response...?

Everything ostinato said is right, you are a waste of space... Now why don't you just go, and dont come back in 4 months :\


14-07-2007 10:35 PM I hope she died in pain you scum.

You know what you ******* piecie of **** eathquake, I seriously hope somebody runs you down tomorrow, or better still your whole family and friends so you will know what it feels like you ******* worthless scum bag.

My responce to earthquakes rep comment to cwmbran:

Oh my ******* god, earthquake you little ******* **** you know what you deserve to have your heart ripped out for syaing that What the **** is wrong with you you worthless peice of ****

[Ostinato]

Like yourself.

Like me? Yes we are so similar... :rolleyes: I'm dedicating time to create lengthy replies in response to this thread in order to try and help the creator in some way or another whilst you are simply making damn right outrageous, hurtful and simply insulting comments and remarks. I really do not know how you can sleep at night with the type of attitude which you display.

I have personally PM'd ---MAD---, Seacat & Wayne. regarding Earthquake on this forum as I feel the comments which he has been making and specifically the reputation which he left for the thread creator is completely out of order and he simply has no place within this forum with that type of attitude. I call for him to be removed from the forum. If you agree with me I recommend you also PM the managers emphasising this.

[luke-p]

I have personally PM'd ---MAD---, Seacat & Wayne. regarding Earthquake on this forum as I feel the comments which he has been making and specifically the reputation which he left for the thread creator is completely out of order and he simply has no place within this forum with that type of attitude. I call for him to be removed from the forum. If you agree with me I recommend you also PM the managers emphasising this.



I think every decent person on this forum, after reading his posts in this thread and the rep comment he left cwmbran... Would entierly agree with removing him from this forum.

[Ostinato]

I think every decent person on this forum, after reading his posts in this thread and the rep comment he left cwmbran... Would entierly agree with removing him from this forum.

Like I say - whoever also agrees I suggest you PM the managers and see if something is done about it then.