Girls get stressed over nothing?

[mike475]

STUPID FORUM KILLED MY POST WHICH TOOK ME 40 MINUTES TO WRITE, so now im only typing the really important bits..

basically she calls me fat, i call her fat, and more insults etc [theres more to this, and your see the funny side, but i cbb to type it out again] and a horror thing was on tv sayin this guy talked to the dead, room shook, heard voices, i said oh its saying lose some weight, and now apparently gf's mum is ****** at me for sayin that, even though it wasnt at her and she knows im joking cuz me and my gf do it all the time infront of her... [not liteally]

but basically i got the old texts "we need to talk..what about..us..what about us..stuff..like...not in text, in person"

... = new person speaking

and i think im getting dumped tomorow? anyway. and why do girls get stressed over everything, like she would call me fat botox fish lips [i got big lips apparently] this was in school, and i just said shut up cuz she just went on and on past the line, and shes like stressed were over, and im like n00b then at the end of the day she goes only jokin and im you n00b

and she says her mum wants to speak to me tomorow so i need ideas on what to say

so i needs advice & help..
thanks

[Leeroy]

i cant make sence of it all but i think i get ya
dont call her fat back for a start

[mike475]

dont call her fat back for a start
yeah i know, but why can they say it to us and not expect a comment of the same thing back?

[sarey]

'cause girls are more sensative and take it really seriously. :P

[mike475]

'cause girls are more sensative and take it really seriously. :P
Yeah thats what my mate said, i'll guess i'll just have to accept that.

But now im crapping it going to her house tomorow and getting a talking from her mum for apparently calling her fat, but i didnt though.

I need help/ideas fast...
Thankyooooooou

[VPSwow]

Dnt go, tell your GF you wanna tlk privatly.

[mike475]

Dnt go, tell your GF you wanna tlk privatly.
And say what??

Im ment to be going up a hill in the middle of no where with them and there dogs...

Im gonna have a run-in with the axe murderer up there I think.. :(:rolleyes:

[mike475]

I think this is the crisis over moment!

I just texted my girlfriend saying.. [Its in txt talk because it went over the limit]

"Hey,when u get da we need 2 talk txt & ders no kiss @ da end, da 1 who got it normally gets dumped the nxt day, im afraid 2 ask, but am i? :-( Love you loads x x"

2 minutes later the reply said

"Yea im really soz na im only jkn i luv u 2 much lol ur jst gunna get slapped legs ma mum sed lmao luv ya x x x 3 kissed 4 ya x n another 1 lmao"

HURRAY FOR BEATINGS!
Now I know what im getting, and I still got my girl, i'll get threw tomorow like a fat kid gets threw chocolate.

[Bun]

I think this is the crisis over moment!

I just texted my girlfriend saying.. [Its in txt talk because it went over the limit]

"Hey,when u get da we need 2 talk txt & ders no kiss @ da end, da 1 who got it normally gets dumped the nxt day, im afraid 2 ask, but am i? :-( Love you loads x x"

2 minutes later the reply said

"Yea im really soz na im only jkn i luv u 2 much lol ur jst gunna get slapped legs ma mum sed lmao luv ya x x x 3 kissed 4 ya x n another 1 lmao"

HURRAY FOR BEATINGS!
Now I know what im getting, and I still got my girl, i'll get threw tomorow like a fat kid gets threw chocolate.
Glad to hear it! :D:D.

And yeah for future reference, try to not insult girls :).

[mike475]

Yeah, I must not.
Ah im soo chuffed guys!

[Yoshimitsui]

Her mums going to BEAT you? :S rofl - sorry but it is a bit confusing.

And it seems you have a rocky relationship, you could do with being more polite, respective and be more complementatie towards one another. And they are strese becuase you are both of that age wher you have hormones flying around like bullets.
So she is more likely to snap alot sooner.

But just try a few things.

[Throne Sofa]

Girls are funny things.
They do get stressed easily aswell, period maybe? haha lol

[CJW93]

Basicly I think its the three letters all boys dread
PMT

[.Nickie]

u lads aye.. if only you lot got PMT u would understand..
and if u seriously call ur gf fat thts cruel even if it is jokingly. girls take things to heart even if they are a joke.. maybe u should stop with the snidy remarks and ur relationship would be a whole lot better. ur relationship seems wierd and well yeah i ent gonna say anythin else

[@K]

You called her fat :eusa_wall Sorry but, you prat, my girlfriend keeps saying she's fat (she really isn't, no where near it) and I don't say yeah you are, I say to her, no you bloody well ain't your gawjus (can't remember how to spell it lol).

[beth]

you're doing nothing for her self esteem you know. even if you're joking.

and the title of this thread is such a horrendous generalisation. i can assure you i'm female and i don't get "stressed over nothing" ty very much.

[HotelUser]

STUPID FORUM KILLED MY POST WHICH TOOK ME 40 MINUTES TO WRITE, so now im only typing the really important bits..

basically she calls me fat, i call her fat, and more insults etc [theres more to this, and your see the funny side, but i cbb to type it out again] and a horror thing was on tv sayin this guy talked to the dead, room shook, heard voices, i said oh its saying lose some weight, and now apparently gf's mum is ****** at me for sayin that, even though it wasnt at her and she knows im joking cuz me and my gf do it all the time infront of her... [not liteally]

but basically i got the old texts "we need to talk..what about..us..what about us..stuff..like...not in text, in person"

... = new person speaking

and i think im getting dumped tomorow? anyway. and why do girls get stressed over everything, like she would call me fat botox fish lips [i got big lips apparently] this was in school, and i just said shut up cuz she just went on and on past the line, and shes like stressed were over, and im like n00b then at the end of the day she goes only jokin and im you n00b

and she says her mum wants to speak to me tomorow so i need ideas on what to say

so i needs advice & help..
thanks

By the looks of things, I would say you are younger, If her mom talks to you say we were both saying it to each other. Be polite and look honest because you are being honest. If you don't like that she insults you you should tell her this. Saying these things back to her is not the right thing to do. She could be crying her self to sleep over these words, "You're fat."


'cause girls are more sensative and take it really seriously. :P

Some take it way to far and are too sensitive, then there are guys who are not sensitive to anyone or their feelings..
.. That doesn't mean there aren't sensitive guys and insensitive girls though.


you're doing nothing for her self esteem you know. even if you're joking.

and the title of this thread is such a horrendous generalisation. i can assure you i'm female and i don't get "stressed over nothing" ty very much.

I'm sure he didn't mean every female.

[GoldenMerc]

even if girls are thin call them fat and they wont be happy.

[sarey]

Some take it way to far and are too sensitive, then there are guys who are not sensitive to anyone or their feelings..
.. That doesn't mean there aren't sensitive guys and insensitive girls though.





I'm just saying most girls are actually really sensative inside and pretend to not be bothered about comments such as them, but then their are others who actually show it.
I didn't say their wasn't sensative guys either.

[FlyingJesus]

Punch her.

[Rizter]

hmm i dont think the ideal conversation with a gf is to insult her tbh lol, but ye you should talk to her in person.

[Browney]

Punch her.

It worked for me. My girlfriend is now a cowering wreck. But atleast she's quiet.

[mike475]

It worked for me. My girlfriend is now a cowering wreck. But atleast she's quiet.

Lmao.

OK well her mum answerd the door, gave me the evil of all evils, and i just giggled and i said sorry for what happens yesterday, and she goes yeah its ok for you to laugh, but i think me and her mum are ok. me and my gf are fine :P

[Earthquake.]

Yeah thats what my mate said, i'll guess i'll just have to accept that.

But now im crapping it going to her house tomorow and getting a talking from her mum for apparently calling her fat, but i didnt though.

I need help/ideas fast...
Thankyooooooou
If you said ''The room shook on the horror film'' and then you took an insult at your gf, if she is like large, or a bit chubby leave her. And even if shes skinny DO NOT, she will go on a diet and won't eat hardly nothing like that girl on the hollyoaks soap.

[HotelUser]

I'm just saying most girls are actually really sensative inside and pretend to not be bothered about comments such as them, but then their are others who actually show it.
I didn't say their wasn't sensative guys either.

I didn't say you said there wasn't sensitive guys.

[beth]

If you said ''The room shook on the horror film'' and then you took an insult at your gf, if she is like large, or a bit chubby leave her. And even if shes skinny DO NOT, she will go on a diet and won't eat hardly nothing like that girl on the hollyoaks soap.
LOL. that's silly. just cause she's been called fat once she's about to go make herself sick?

[lAdmire]

Just tell her mom that her daughter is to blame for her stress also and she goes past the line. Also, say that you don't even know why she told her mother because most of her stress is caused by her. Just tell the truth. Don't be afraid cause her mom can't do nothing to you.