Homelifes getting bad...

[Earthquake.]

Yea well, i'm having a real bad time at home at the moment, Well I feel my step-mums turning my dad agaisnt me, he swears at me, tells me I should die, Once I come in drunk he punched me full front in the face and I just went upstairs to bed, Now his been calling the police when we argue, And when I have my music on loud he just turns like my computer socket of so I have to reload my whole computer, His been telling me about my mum and how bad she is, I haven't seen her for like 9 years, she walked out I know she was a bad person but all he says is ''Go back to your cow of a mum'' and stuff like that, yea I have a good time out with mates/at school but its really hurting when im at home, now im just spending more and more time in my bedroom and neglecting the home family, ive been around my nans like two times a month, and some times i just feel like to end my life... I shouldn't really be telling you all this as your like simular to my own age 15, but I just wanna get it all out, and I don't exactly wanna call 0800 1111 as their the last people I would like to call... I've told my gf I got with recently and yea shes been supportive and trys to find the good sides of my life but its really depressing and i feel like ending my relationship with my gf because im so depressed and angry...

[Catzsy]

Well I really feel for you and it has shown that you are very angry and upset in your recents posts. You need to talk to somebody you are close to such as your Nan as it seems you have got into kinda a conflict circle that is just going around and around. Maybe you should try to contact your Mum - there is usually 2 sides to every story. Not the time to give up your girl friend i dont think - you need the support. I would give 0800 11 11 11 a ring. They will listen to you and thats what you need at the moment and it is free. Hope you will feeling better soon. Also it won't be long before our life is your own and then you should really start to enjoy. =]

[sock]

I feel sorry for you, i suggest that you go to your dads mum and ask if she'd sort it out, grandmas always help!

[jackass]

"I don't beleive you".

[Earthquake.]

Well I really feel for you and it has shown that you are very angry and upset in your recents posts. You need to talk to somebody you are close to such as your Nan as it seems you have got into kinda a conflict circle that is just going around and around. Maybe you should try to contact your Mum - there is usually 2 sides to every story. Not the time to give up your girl friend i dont think - you need the support. I would give 0800 11 11 11 a ring. They will listen to you and thats what you need at the moment and it is free. Hope you will feeling better soon. Also it won't be long before our life is your own and then you should really start to enjoy. =]
Cheers for that, I've tryed to put on a happy face around the forum but it always come out wrong, like text formatting i'm flamed and hated for it, And I will give 0800 11 11 11 a ring when i got for a walk someday, but at the moments everyones chilled and I just sick of the argueing, my older brothers recently moved back into the house as he lost his flat and his living in my room and he is REALLY annoying, Only about 2 hours ago i had a full blown fight with him, Ive told my dad I cant sleep in the same room as him as he juss dosses around, he has a lil part time job and all he does is come home and **** me of when im on the computer, if i ignore him he will just throw stuff at me so i tell him to **** off and stuff like that, I ain't saying im the innocent one here but i just want my old life back where my dad was caring, and i had my own room, Since my brothers got back home my rooms been looking messy, I've had to make a place where i am only allowed in my room and his side is like really disgusting, i aint the sort of teen who wants to spend time in a room with someone so gross, and if i tell my dad he just moans at me and tells me to pack my stuff and get the **** out, his been recently sneeking onto my computer going onto... **** sites as I checked the history and its kinda sick.. I come home today and the room actully smelt of pure sweat and I just wanted to get out of the house, I ain't going out until 10:00pm as im trying to avoid some of my mates due to I got one of their gf's to dump then due to them cheating and all they wanna do right now is punch my in the face, I tryed inviting my gf round but when she got here my dad refused her in for some reason so we sat in the front garden chatting until she to go, Im joining the army as soon as im 16/17 because the fact I can let my anger out, and be doing a job, and be getting away from people who annoy me, so yea cheers catzsy.

[Catzsy]

"I don't beleive you".

Lets give him a break unless something happens that we realise that it is a hoax post =]

[Earthquake.]

"I don't beleive you".
I don't really care what you think right now, I've tryed to make things better with us due to our last arguement, and now I am going to forget everything you say and move on, thanks anyway.

[Zuar]

"I don't beleive you".
your a *****. get a life..

and also try not speaking to him?
if he hits you walk out, and live with your nan.

if anything ever happens in my family bad I just go to my auntys or my nans and stay there?

and i know it may be hard as this person I know it happened to him so just don't put up with it thats what i say.

Edited by micky.blue.eyes (Super Moderator): Please don't be rude towards other members.

[jackass]

your a *****. get a life..

and also try not speaking to him?
if he hits you walk out, and live with your nan.

if anything ever happens in my family bad I just go to my auntys or my nans and stay there?

and i know it may be hard as this person I know it happened to him so just don't put up with it thats what i say.

How am I?

I feel sorry for him, yes.

I purposely put it in quotes, because thats what he said to that guy whos girlfriend died.

[Foobar]

LIAR. :rolleyes:

You should possibly consider other peoples feeling before you post a thread about your own feelings, because you will just end up getting flamed.

Like Bio said, I do feel sorry for you if it's true, but you just need to consider other peoples feelings or else like what I said above.

[dannyisnotamazing]

I don't believe you.


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Harsh isn't it? Except the concept of someone dieing is x10 worse than your situation.

[shokz]

0800 11 11 11

who are they ? :P

[Nuxty]

Hey!

Look, what I would do is go to someone like an adult your close to maybe your in a relationship and you could ask your partners parents if you could maybe stay with them for a while? Let things cool down. Just think to yourself? Why should I be angry?! Why should I feel hatered?! Why should I feel like the bad one?! Just put the world behind your and make yourself happy. Just try to stay somewhere else or something. Don't let people put you down.

I would reccomend 0800 11 11 11. But you have to do what feels right.

Good Luck!

Nuxty.

[-:Undertaker:-]

Don't join the army, please don't throw your life away..

I think you should call for help on that phone number, if you have any family like auntys or grandads then ask them if you can live at their place.

[danny-dyer]

i think ur attention seaking
does ur dad hit u hard?????

[indian8132]

Isint it 0800 1111? Not 6 ones for childline, only 4 ones :P

[beth]

Don't join the army, please don't throw your life away..

I think you should call for help on that phone number, if you have any family like auntys or grandads then ask them if you can live at their place.
joining the army isn't throwing your life away? that's so stupid. people who are fighting for your safety overbroad. i believe that comment is so ungreatful & rude. oh my. so the people who fought in world war 1 & 2 saving our country threw their lives away? how rediculas.

anyway: "Cheers for that, I've tryed to put on a happy face around the forum but it always come out wrong, like text formatting i'm flamed and hated for it" that sounds like attention seeking tbh, but if this is true, then: i do feel sorry for you and perhaps spend more time away from home or speak to another relative & ask to stay there for a while.

[Catzsy]

Isint it 0800 1111? Not 6 ones for childline, only 4 ones :P

You are right it is 0800 11 11 ... think I must have got a bit 1 happy there :P


Link to Childline:

http://www.childline.org.uk/?lpsrc=google&lpcat=childline&lpgrp=general&lptxt=gen2&lpkey=childline&gclid=CLibiZqOrY0CFRWOEgodbDcy1A

Earthquake it also sounds as if you have had all your personal space taken away and somewhat invaded since your brother returned which also must be very hard. Is there a another room he could stay in. Also your Dad is in the middle here and probably doesn't know which way to turn between you and your brother. I have to side with you on this one as your brother does not seem to have any respect for your privacy.

[lAdmire]

Well, speak to your dad at a time when he's in a good mood. Tell him how you feel. Or write him a letter and just put it in his room or something. Hopefully, he'll understand. If not, just go live with your grandma. It's in your best interest. Don't hold anything back. Speak your mind. Don't be afraid.