am I jealous of my mates girlfriend?

[Dan2nd]

My mate has started seeing this new girlfriend.. For some reason every time someone talks about her or I see her I feel alot of anger build up inside of me. Shes never done anything to me thats what I don't understand I just seem to have this random hatered towards her for no real reason. I guess I'm jealous of her but don't know why because I don't see my mate any less than I used to. Has anyone else experienced this?

[beth]

it could be your subconcscious telling you that you're not happy with the situation, but if you seem to be then i don't understand it rofl.
you could well be jealous, but we can't answer that for you. only you will know if you are or you're not.

[Hecktix]

I feel like this about my best friends girlfriend.
But I have good reasons for him, in the past year I've seen him 5 times out of school, because every other time he's with her.
She controls his life etc.

Like Bethie said, it could be your subconscience thinking you arent happy, or that something isnt quite right about this girl, but not quite sure what.

Do you find her attractive?

[Kissed]

Yeah my mate ditches me for her boyfriends sometimes and it bloody drills lol.
When they don't stop talking about them you're just thinking "****" but just grin and bear it, cos once you get a girlf you'll most probably be exactly the same lol!

[kyle♥]

Maybe because you spend time with this mate, now he's gone and got a lass and he's not spending any time with you? so you get angry when you hear her name.

[Paulio]

Is this mate like one of your best mates, do/did you spend allot of time with him?

[Dan2nd]

Sorry for double posting read one below

[Dan2nd]

I feel like this about my best friends girlfriend.
But I have good reasons for him, in the past year I've seen him 5 times out of school, because every other time he's with her.
She controls his life etc.

Like Bethie said, it could be your subconscience thinking you arent happy, or that something isnt quite right about this girl, but not quite sure what.

Do you find her attractive?




no I don't find her attractive the funny thing is me and my mate get on so well but we're enjoy very diffrent things he's a bit of a Goth and so is his Girlfriend (which explains why I don't find her attractive) where as I'm more of a cheesy pop man :P

edit:
Is this mate like one of your best mates, do/did you spend allot of time with him?


yes we spend lots of time together we meet up in town almost every day.

[Paulio]

no I don't find her attractive the funny thing is me and my mate get on so well but we're enjoy very diffrent things he's a bit of a Goth and so is his Girlfriend (which explains why I don't find her attractive) where as I'm more of a cheesy pop man :P

edit:


yes we spend lots of time together we meet up in town almost every day.

Well you might feel as if she is taking him away from you...

[Hecktix]

i honestly dont know then dude.

likesay could be your subconscience telling you something is dodgy about her.

[Fonejacker]

My mate has started seeing this new girlfriend.. For some reason every time someone talks about her or I see her I feel alot of anger build up inside of me. Shes never done anything to me thats what I don't understand I just seem to have this random hatered towards her for no real reason. I guess I'm jealous of her but don't know why because I don't see my mate any less than I used to. Has anyone else experienced this?
ur automaticly asuming she is coming between you and your mate, Or maybe you have feelings for her ? Lol people have werid ways of showing effection for people

[kyle♥]

You missed my post :(.

[lAdmire]

Nope. Not at all. Sometimes, I just wish I was that person cause their dating the guy I like but that's all. I don't feel hatred towards anyone.

[Sunny.]

I think it may be jealousy but Its probably your mind thinking shes taking him away from you and shes controlling him which you might not like.

If its jealousy then just calm down abit n just well laughh :) Also do you have a girlfriend or not.. ? This may effect.

Good luck

[*]

Your jelous because he's scored the chick and you haven't.
End of, i feel it a lot too.

[Earthquake]

Don't tell her how you feel, she will throw it back in your face, Let your friend and he's girl be happy, I'm sure you will find someone you will get on with and the it will just click.. Clickly click chick.

[youraposer!]

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[Rizla,]

There are people who just irritate me for no reason, and I feel like that about them :p

[YoManGo!]

maybe you fancy the guy and wish you could swap places with her.