Interested in a girl 3 years younger than me

[bigdavecox90]

Well there's a girl that I know, never really spoke to her much before. Got to know her through a mate, and the mate gave me her number. Last night was on the phone to her for 2 hours :O But I have decided I am beginning to quite like her. However I am 17 and she is 14. What do you think?

[Tristan]

I think - lol.

[poll]

Hmm tbh think thats a bit weird when young theres a big difference tbh 1 year differnece i think is ok 2 years i think is bit weird anything more is just bit umm perverted imo. because big difference within those 3 years of maturity etc. seems bit weird meh. my personal opinion but if u like someone meh.

[bigdavecox90]

Hmm tbh think thats a bit weird when young theres a big difference tbh 1 year differnece i think is ok 2 years i think is bit weird anything more is just bit umm perverted imo. because big difference within those 3 years of maturity etc. seems bit weird meh. my personal opinion but if u like someone meh.

Thanks for helping mate, and don't worry I ain't no pervert, wouldn't have sex with anyone that young anyway, if you get what I mean?

[Crimson]

My mum is 3 years younger than my dad...

Stuff other people's opinions, if you like her then fine. :)

[bigdavecox90]

My mum is 3 years younger than my dad...

Stuff other people's opinions, if you like her then fine. :)

Thanks mate, but I always thought that things like that were differenct, as they are older, as in adults.

[The Professor]

My mum is 3 years younger than my dad...

Stuff other people's opinions, if you like her then fine. :)

My dad is 15 years older than my mum (true), can you imagine a 28 year old going out with a 13 year old? While that philosophy works for people over 18, you have to put it into context.

To the thread starter: I think you're right to be conisdering it. I'm obviously not going to try to pursuade you either way, but you may want to conisder this: if you're together for a while theres a fairly good chance that you'll do more than just talk. Could you handle the consequences if you got someone that young pregnant?

[WarezKid]

It might sound werid whn your young lool becasue it sounds like your preving on them [no offence tbh]

but what i trying to say is it looks normal when your older if you get what i'm saying

if not i speak a load of bull ;p

[Invent]

It only seems different for adults because of their level of maturity.

There isn't much difference being say 30 and being 35.

Whereas it's a lot different to be 14 than say 18. (In terms of maturity and physically).

[Swastika]

I'd say leave it out mate, you'll get known as a perv or something - i personally hate lads who go out with younger girls, i mean real younger, its very sick.

[CrazyColaist]

I would watch out for when your 18

girls normally want sex at 16. so.

[WarezKid]

It only seems different for adults because of their level of maturity.

There isn't much difference being say 30 and being 35.

Whereas it's a lot different to be 14 than say 18. (In terms of maturity and physically).

That what i meant lol


I'd say leave it out mate, you'll get known as a perv or something - i personally hate lads who go out with younger girls, i mean real younger, its very sick.

But would you say that to adults who go out with eachever 5 years younger? :S [Just asking]


I would watch out for when your 18

girls normally want sex at 16. so.


Not around my area, Unlike some idiots :rolleyes: but ye, it true around other areas i have been in ;)

[Hxf Santa]

It's up to you.
Age doesn't matter.

[Davii]

wait til shes like 17 if you can, that way it seems more reasonable

[Jordee]

Personally, i think age doesnt matter, it does sometimes, well, its easier to get away with it when your a adult. It sounds better.
Instead of you being the age you are now, but i'd go for it,
if you like her for her, not because of what age she is.
Ive been dating a older guy for 9 months now, people say things,
but it doesn't bother me anymore :]

btw, My mom & dad are 9 years apart.

[@K]

Well I am almost 3 years older then my girlfriend, she is 14, and I turn 17 in September. But I think Spain is different, as I know 14 year olds who are going out with 19-20 year olds. But it's up to you really, follow your heart :D

[:Hazel]

when your younger and still at school people might question it but when your older e.g. 20 and 23 it doesnt matter so much.

[Browney]

Especially as questionable because you're over the consent age and she isn't. You realise, if you two had sex it would be classed as rape even if she consents? Apparently she won't be old enough to understand what consent means.

[YoManGo!]

my sister went out with a 26 year old when she were 15. if you like her go for it.

[Eccentric]

Its up to a personal opinion if you like her and she likes you don't worry what others think espcially her friends just go for it. :)
If you don't want her... Lol :P
Eccentric.

[lew!]

Go for it, I know loads of people that date younger girls, Well obv not like 20 and 13 but like 17 and 14 is fine.. Girls are generally more mature than males and 17 and 14 are like kinda the same maturity. My mum (back in the day) when she was 14 she dated a 16 and 17 year old..

[deltateamaplha]

right. Age difference is okay the guy i'm seeing in 6 years older than me. But theres a difference... I'M LEGAL. This girl is 14 and therefore not legal, you may say you will not have sex with her but people might think different. Stay on the safe side and stay away from her... and to be honest people 3 years age difference is NOTHING.

[ilove2spam]

right. Age difference is okay the guy i'm seeing in 6 years older than me. But theres a difference... I'M LEGAL. This girl is 14 and therefore not legal, you may say you will not have sex with her but people might think different. Stay on the safe side and stay away from her... and to be honest people 3 years age difference is NOTHING.


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[deltateamaplha]

I said he may say he will not... but people might think otherwise :rolleyes:

[Ostinato]

NO YOUR ******* COMPLETLY WRONG. YOU SCOTTISH ****** DIDNT YOU READ THAT WHOLE THREAD? YOUR A ******* ****. HE SAID HE WOULDNT HAVE SEX WITH SOMEONE THAT YOUNG MEANING IT DOESNT MATTER IF SHES LEGAL. SO GTFO AND READ IN FUTURE YOU HAIRY SCOTTISH *****, //rant ovaaa

Three words for you pal.


GET A GRIP

Seriously what are you about? Meyaz posted with a constructive opinion which she developed in order to try and benefit the thread creator in relation to their problem. If you feel she has perhaps been biased or not completely took into consideration the full concept of this problem - then thats a different story which you should have maturely expressed. However, you have completely undermined yourself and simply made yourself look like a fool to be honest.

I don't particularly see why you brought the fact that she is Scottish into anything as it is completely irrelevant and simply outlines your sheer ignorance. Also calling someone "hairy" isn't really an insult - but more than a feeble use of a word which you obviously think is going to offend people.

Quite clearly you have some sort of insecurity issue with yourself, as rather than trying to contribute to and / or develop this thread further by offering advice, you targeted one individual and made extremely petty, racist and damn right rude comments towards them.

Quite clearly from your small post we know exactly who the small-minded ignorant person is... Pal. :)

[DiscoPat]

three years is no problem mate, if you like her then its all kl !! :D

[ilove2spam]

Ostinato your scottish 2, *Text Removed*. thx

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[ilove2spam]

and thanks for the supa long post i feel like a king ! :]]

You think i didnt flame her to get a reaction.. Bah your stupid.

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[Metric.]

kinda pervish

[Swearwolf]

go for it
im 17 and went with a 14 and she was a ***** and a liar and i finished with the ***** but what the hell it was fun

[jellme]

in my point of view, i think its ok. Well if both of you like each other, then i think age shouldnt be a problem. :l

[Krusty]

go for it
it wont matter when your abit older

[,Jess,]

I think like a lot of people have said when you're younger 3 years is quite a big gap, still having said that I think that sometimes when the 2 people really like each other then age is no problem ;]

[Djcafc.]

to me 3 years is a bit to much im 14 and cant imagen going out with a 17 year old

[tully4leanne.]

Hmm tad Pedorific if u ask me but hey give it a shot go for it dude


*not my fault if u get ur head smashed in by her dad for tryin to sleep with her*

[Psychonaut]

this doesn`t seem like a big deal.. maybe it`s just me seeing as i prefer older people due to feeling like i`ve grown up faster than most people my age so i can`t relate to them on an emotional scale `cuz of the difference in maturity..

[Earthquake]

She might not even fancie you mate

And if her names nicole bain **** off



It's up to you.
Age doesn't matter.

What so it would be okay for an 8 year old girl to go out with a 47 year old man..

[whoooosh]

I dont think there is anything really wrong with it. When i was 14 i went out with a 17 yr old. He used to get a bit of bother about it, like people saying he was a perv and stuff but we both knew he wasnt so it didnt bother us. If you trust eachother then you can get past stuff like age, 3 years isnt really that much if you respect her and her dicisions.

[Sentrax]

It may be a big difference now, but when you're both older it will seem like nothing. As long as you don't do anything in bed then you're alright - that could get into some legal rubbish.

[CrazyColaist]

it may seem sick but it isnt.


some adults are like 10 years apart.

[Wig44.]

She might not even fancie you mate

And if her names nicole bain **** off




What so it would be okay for an 8 year old girl to go out with a 47 year old man..

I slept with her. She is very tight. VERY tight indeed...

[Alkaz]

It may seem a little wrong but if you love her then i supose its ok. Say it like at these ages and it dont seem too bad ..
20 - 17
23 - 20
Dont seem as bad as 17 - 14

[Kissed]

Well there's a girl that I know, never really spoke to her much before. Got to know her through a mate, and the mate gave me her number. Last night was on the phone to her for 2 hours :O But I have decided I am beginning to quite like her. However I am 17 and she is 14. What do you think?
Well, where I live that would be totally fine tbh.
I don't think age gaps matter, unless its like a stupid difference and in your case, this really isnt.
Whilst she's at school it can be hard though & make sure she doesnt go for you just for your age (if she does) because some girls are like that.
Take it slow though, she could feel under pressure because of the age difference too.
I'm 16, and my best friends boyfriend is turning 20 and they're a better couple then it was when she was with someone our age.
I've been out with someone 3 years older than me before and it was fine, I just personally wouldnt go there again just because I feel quite immature lol.
But really, I don't think there is any problem with the age gap.
Remember girls mature on average 2 years quicker then boys, and if you think about it like that you're theoretically only 1 year apart :D

Hope this helped matey :]

[Lycan]

agh i went out with a 14 year old girl once... very immature..... beyond the normal joke around level

different people this girl maybe ok, age doesnt really matter when it gets down to it, just a number but i can't stand 14 yearolds way way way too immature

[edible]

age is just a number, follow your heart.

[velocity]

the older you get, the bigger the age gap can be. simply because if your older you're both classed as adults and have the same rights.

[Chocobos]

Well i guess 3 years difference isnt alot but... If its 14 - 17, then it seems a little peadoish.

24 - 27 seems good.
35 - 38 seems good too.

14 - 17 seems very peadoish, as she most likely hasnt fully matured.


Lolz

[Enuk]

Well there's a girl that I know, never really spoke to her much before. Got to know her through a mate, and the mate gave me her number. Last night was on the phone to her for 2 hours But I have decided I am beginning to quite like her. However I am 17 and she is 14. What do you think?

I think you should get to know her a bit more, take her out... Age difference is nothing 10 years difference between my mum and dad.

[Puma]

Well i guess 3 years difference isnt alot but... If its 14 - 17, then it seems a little peadoish.

24 - 27 seems good.
35 - 38 seems good too.

14 - 17 seems very peadoish, as she most likely hasnt fully matured.

LOL! there is 14 year old gyal tht lyk me aswell buh she 15 now.. buh i really didnt want a relationship because i missed my ex ;[

[Jamie!]

Aslong as she doesn't look like a little kid (If you get what I mean?) then I don't see the problem.

There is a 14yr old in our school which could easily pass off as a 18/19yr old. Seriously, she is fairly tall and has huge ****, pure mint body too.

[HaboCola]

My dad is 15 years older than my mum (true), can you imagine a 28 year old going out with a 13 year old? While that philosophy works for people over 18, you have to put it into context.

To the thread starter: I think you're right to be conisdering it. I'm obviously not going to try to pursuade you either way, but you may want to conisder this: if you're together for a while theres a fairly good chance that you'll do more than just talk. Could you handle the consequences if you got someone that young pregnant?
Ugh! That's nasty.

[The Professor]

Ugh! That's nasty.

I know, I try not to think about it :P

[Neil]

I don't see the problem with it :S
My dad is 10 years older than my mum
I'm a year and 3 days older than my girlfriend
And both of those are fine, but if I was 3 years older than her that instantly makes me a pervert? How does that work?
It's not like she'd be a 7 year old (because that really is just wrong)
Don't listen to other people and be with the person you like, if they take the **** out of you for it then forget about them because they're not worth it, and in 10-20 years see them and see the difference in age between them and their husband/wife, you'll see most of them will be basically contradicting themselves

[Earthquake]

I don't see the problem with it :S
My dad is 10 years older than my mum
I'm a year and 3 days older than my girlfriend
And both of those are fine, but if I was 3 years older than her that instantly makes me a pervert? How does that work?
It's not like she'd be a 7 year old (because that really is just wrong)
Don't listen to other people and be with the person you like, if they take the **** out of you for it then forget about them because they're not worth it, and in 10-20 years see them and see the difference in age between them and their husband/wife, you'll see most of them will be basically contradicting themselves
So if your mum was 10, And your father was 20, You would find that okay, You need to think more in detail then just age.

[benjamin]

It aint that bad, just the fact she's underage..

I mean I'm with someone whos 18, and I'm 15 atm, 16 next week.. So I can hardly talk.

[The Professor]

I don't see the problem with it :S
My dad is 10 years older than my mum
I'm a year and 3 days older than my girlfriend
And both of those are fine, but if I was 3 years older than her that instantly makes me a pervert? How does that work?
It's not like she'd be a 7 year old (because that really is just wrong)
Don't listen to other people and be with the person you like, if they take the **** out of you for it then forget about them because they're not worth it, and in 10-20 years see them and see the difference in age between them and their husband/wife, you'll see most of them will be basically contradicting themselves

You do have a point, but you do have to put it into context. Your mum and dad met when they were adults (I hope) and planned to get married, have children and the such. When you're young and you obviously don't plan to get married, the reason for going out with people is to enjoy yourself and the time spent with another person. Enjoying spending that sort of intimate time with someone who is far younger than you, at that age, is wrong in the eyes of most people and, usually, the law.

[rnix]

my last relationship was 19 xD

[Neil]

So if your mum was 10, And your father was 20, You would find that okay, You need to think more in detail then just age.

But my mum isn't 10 is she, and she didn't know my dad then either :rolleyes:
And what do you mean more in detail? The whole thing is about age, not every relationship is based on sex believe it or not


It aint that bad, just the fact she's underage..

I mean I'm with someone whos 18, and I'm 15 atm, 16 next week.. So I can hardly talk.

Like I just said, not all relationships are based on sex..

[Lepore]

To be honest Age doesn't really make a difference.

GO FOR IT.

[Jamesy]

You just have to be careful seeing as you are 17 and may want to do more things than are aceptable by the law...

[bigdavecox90]

Aslong as she doesn't look like a little kid (If you get what I mean?) then I don't see the problem.

There is a 14yr old in our school which could easily pass off as a 18/19yr old. Seriously, she is fairly tall and has huge ****, pure mint body too.

HAHA, I showed a picture of her to a mate, and he thought she was 19 :D

[Bladder]

Idk, tbh age in teen dating is a major thing.
Maybe for a girl thinking "omg I'm dating a 17 year old" at her age would be funny for her.. But it just wouldn't be the same. You got to look at it from the parents point of view.
Bit odd?