View Full Version : Coming out :l
Technologic
03-08-2007, 06:09 PM
I'm not suure about how to teel people at my school that i've finally decided i'm gay..
Any tips? :(
Eamonn
03-08-2007, 06:12 PM
Wear a sign; "I'm GAY"
Or just casusally go to someone "urm yea hes fit.."
Once a few people know it will be sure to spread anyway so you don't need to tell loads of people.
lAdmire
03-08-2007, 11:52 PM
Just say it & if they can't accept it, then that's their problem. No one said they have to approve of you being gay. It's your decision. So, yeah.
Jackk
03-08-2007, 11:56 PM
when you say nice lads just randomly say 'id do him' make sure your mates around. ;)
-:Undertaker:-
03-08-2007, 11:57 PM
Don't say it if there is no need to?
PriceTags
04-08-2007, 12:04 AM
if you announce it to everyone, you'll be accused of attention seeking, so you shouldn't. just tell your closest friend.
Stephen
04-08-2007, 12:11 AM
AT school tell your teacher you want to make an announcement in assembly.
Or the easiest way is to go up to your best mate and snog him tbh. ;)
Pretendant
04-08-2007, 12:14 AM
Just tell a close friend :]
Make sure you trust them though, cause I told my friend, then another two, and soon everyone was coming up to me asking if I was a lesbian, I denied it though, cause I went to an all girls school full of nasty people.
I told too many friends I guess.
I trust to easily.
If you want people to know, just do it casually :]
dirrty
04-08-2007, 12:20 AM
first tell the people close to you. the tell others when you are more comfortable. you will probs receive some negative responses but thats why you should tell people when you feel that you are strong enough to take all of the ******** from people.
Technologic
04-08-2007, 10:44 AM
Anybody who gives me a hard time will get a slap :)
Hazza
04-08-2007, 10:59 AM
Anybody who gives me a hard time will get a slap :)
*Punch.
Lol, I would just tell a close friend. I'm bi (No one knows) and I don't want to tell people cos' people at my school are just froobs tbh.
Good luck, Whatever you do:)
Herman
04-08-2007, 12:02 PM
there's no need to announce to the entire school, really. as mentioned, it seems like attention seeking. or rather, it is attention seeking.
just tell a few friends if you need too and if you're comfortable with it. but honestly, you don't really need to tell anyone unless they bring the topic up.
Eamonn
04-08-2007, 01:01 PM
Anybody who gives me a hard time will get a slap :)
Well I think you are a bit too immature then, because frankly violence doesn't solve anything and you should expect some people to take it badly, but if you can't you obviously aren't ready to 'come out'
Technologic
04-08-2007, 03:10 PM
Does nobody on this forum know what a joke is? xo
lScottl
04-08-2007, 03:22 PM
so u r nt gay!??!?!?!!1
Technologic
04-08-2007, 09:17 PM
I am gay. :l I was just joking.
Gaawd
Lozzoling
04-08-2007, 09:18 PM
don't.
wait till sixth form
RedCrisps
04-08-2007, 11:51 PM
the way everyone in school found out i was gay is i said i'm gay to a big mouthed friend of mine and i didn't have to say anything then :]
CrazyColaist
05-08-2007, 01:43 AM
just tell a few friends to tell there friends and to get it around the school.
Stephen
05-08-2007, 02:57 AM
Tell your friend on msn.
If he tells all your other friends and they make fun of you, then move away to china and grow up and marry a boy named ying yow.
Or kick your friend up the ***
Tell your friend on msn.
If he tells all your other friends and they make fun of you, then move away to china and grow up and marry a boy named ying yow.
Or kick your friend up the ***
LMFAOOOOOOO
Anyway, I'd wait until you've left school - that's what I did - and all my friends know I'm gay now and most are fine with it (except some guy who's determined to make me straight) lol, he'll fail tbh ^_^
Earthquake
12-08-2007, 03:00 AM
Your gonna get beaten up boy, Some gay guys bullied all the time in our lunch hall, Once someone put a ***** on he's lunch
Crazy
12-08-2007, 03:04 AM
Only tell the people that need to know.
Tbh I like gay guys more than straight :P. lol
Earthquake
12-08-2007, 03:05 AM
Only tell the people that need to know.
Tbh I like gay guys more than straight :P. lol
What because they dont wanna have sex with you?
Recursion
12-08-2007, 01:02 PM
Just tell them. I have a gay friend. No one treats him any differently. When someone bothers him, he shouts **** off at them and stamps on there feet LOL.
Shawnstra
14-08-2007, 10:12 AM
Don't tell people, if they ask, just say ye I am.
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