Can't stop thinking about her!

[Nemo]

Ok well i still like this girl after quite a while and ive known her for about 3/4years? Basically im short for my age and have really bad eczema. Well i also got bullied from year 3 til... now and i have a really low self esteem.. i havent really gone out much and haven't seen her in about a week and she lives on my road :l... Everything reminds me of her though...even naruto! I just really like her and i just dont have the guts really to ask her out or anything. My other friends on my road even say she likes me but i don't see that, she acts the same to the my other friend (who is a boy) although she had kept inviting me round her house after school everyday for like 2weeks (nothing happened but we were alone xD)


Well im just really not sure what to do..

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[lAdmire]

well, i think you should go.
don't sit at home wondering if she likes you.
even if you think she doesn't go because you never know, she's probably the same way as you.
low self esteem & scared to go & talk to you.
just try it.
it's best you try.
you'll never know unless you do.

[Cwmbran]

I'd say she does like you.
Invite her out with your friends say she can bring some of her friends if you don't feel to confident, or invite her round your house or ask if she wants to go see a movie together or something along them lines. While you are out with her spend most of your time with her, drop compliments in while talking to her but not all the time.

You really do just have to go for it. After going out with her a few times invite her round your house or if she invites you around hers when you think the moment is right tell her how you feel.

Best of luck with this.

[Nemo]

well, i think you should go.
don't sit at home wondering if she likes you.
even if you think she doesn't go because you never know, she's probably the same way as you.
low self esteem & scared to go & talk to you.
just try it.
it's best you try.
you'll never know unless you do.
she doesnt seem like she does and i just thought no one would like me how i am right now... until someone who is on this forum said they liked me when i was even worse... so that really boosted me up but i just dont know


I'd say she does like you.
Invite her out with your friends say she can bring some of her friends if you don't feel to confident, or invite her round your house or ask if she wants to go see a movie together or something along them lines. While you are out with her spend most of your time with her, drop compliments in while talking to her but not all the time.

You really do just have to go for it. After going out with her a few times invite her round your house or if she invites you around hers when you think the moment is right tell her how you feel.

Best of luck with this.yeah i may go ask her to cinema, haha rush hour 3? :P

[Browney]

yeah i may go ask her to cinema, haha rush hour 3? :P

Definately. Something funny you two can both laugh at and talk about afterwards.

[adidas™]

Go for it, most girls have a funny way of showing if they like you or not anyway :) rush hour 3 is great too :P

[OMGitsaROSS]

give her it hard :)

OJJJJ


urm well just text her or something, i think texting is easier.

[Antallica]

Look my friend, its a girl.
if she says no, you can still be friends.
its not the end of the world, if you dont ask now, she might get a bf soon. ;)
be strong and DO IT!

[Nemo]

give her it hard :)

OJJJJ


urm well just text her or something, i think texting is easier.ughh i really wouldnt like to do the texting thing XD

also the thing im worried about is ruining our friendship..

[Browney]

Well you shouldn't worry about wrecking your friendship because a while back a friend of mine asked me out but I said "I don't think I'm ready for another relationship, but we can always go to the cinema as mates." And we did, and now we are better friends than ever before. :)

And from there it's less of a jump to ask again because you know each other better. ;)

[WarezKid]

If she saids no, maybe make a joke outta of it

like


You: Heyy wanna go out with me
Girl: No
You: oh well, i was kiddin or w.e pmsl

[Nemo]

If she saids no, maybe make a joke outta of it

like


You: Heyy wanna go out with me
Girl: No
You: oh well, i was kiddin or w.e pmsllol i suck at lieing ;P

[Browney]

lol i suck at lieing ;P

He has a point though. Keep dropping hints and saying stuff laughingly about going out. :)

[Nemo]

He has a point though. Keep dropping hints and saying stuff laughingly about going out. :)

Yeah ill give it a go, ill try asking her to cinema tomorrow :) Thanks all +rep to all ;]

[Nemo]

asked her, she said she cant today but still, theres hope xD

[Recursion]

Ok well i still like this girl after quite a while and ive known her for about 3/4years? Basically im short for my age and have really bad eczema. Well i also got bullied from year 3 til... now and i have a really low self esteem.. i havent really gone out much and haven't seen her in about a week and she lives on my road :l... Everything reminds me of her though...even naruto! I just really like her and i just dont have the guts really to ask her out or anything. My other friends on my road even say she likes me but i don't see that, she acts the same to the my other friend (who is a boy) although she had kept inviting me round her house after school everyday for like 2weeks (nothing happened but we were alone xD)


Well im just really not sure what to do..

Just like me, I am short for my age and was bullied for 3 years in a row. Confidence just went for me when I got bullied. I think of this one girl too, and Naruto (assuming the Anime?) and just about all other Anime reminds me off her because she loves it so much. We are pretty much in the same boat, I'd say just go for it if when you feel confident enough.

[Nemo]

Just like me, I am short for my age and was bullied for 3 years in a row. Confidence just went for me when I got bullied. I think of this one girl too, and Naruto (assuming the Anime?) and just about all other Anime reminds me off her because she loves it so much. We are pretty much in the same boat, I'd say just go for it if when you feel confident enough.
yes the anime, and it was just sakura doing a face on it reminded me lol xP

and i did go for it... well i asked her to go to the cinema but she said she cant today :[

[WarezKid]

yes the anime, and it was just sakura doing a face on it reminded me lol xP

and i did go for it... well i asked her to go to the cinema but she said she cant today :[


when you ask a girl out, you shoudltn really say

Heyy wanna go to the cinema today ect, plan it out ;)

ask her today if she wants to go to the cinema next week or w.e

[Nemo]

when you ask a girl out, you shoudltn really say

Heyy wanna go to the cinema today ect, plan it out ;)

ask her today if she wants to go to the cinema next week or w.eyeah i know but... i dont know xD i asked if she wanted to go today but she said she cant so i said ok, how about another day, and she said yeah ok, who else is going. :[

[Xxhannah]

Aww,
Well it seems you must really like her obv lol,,

Just maybe build up the confidence some way..
Or drop hints?
Get your friends too try tell her how you feel if you dont feel you can do it your self?

Hope it helps?

And good luck xox =]

[Nemo]

Aww,
Well it seems you must really like her obv lol,,

Just maybe build up the confidence some way..
Or drop hints?
Get your friends too try tell her how you feel if you dont feel you can do it your self?

Hope it helps?

And good luck xox =]thanks lol, i told one of my friends on my road who i have known since i was like 3 so i told her and she was... well wasnt surprised Lol! They all think we like each other but im not sure really lol, well we'll see again tomorrow, ill go to her in person, see if shes coming out and then.. go from there

[Rauhl]

Look my friend, its a girl.
if she says no, you can still be friends.
its not the end of the world, if you dont ask now, she might get a bf soon. ;)
be strong and DO IT!

Do It THis Happend To Me I Was Sad For A Long Time ^^

[Titch]

i used to have same problems, Really Really short and had blood cancer at time and all my hair kept falling out for years, untill year 7, new year school, cancer had gone and hair was growing back quick, i mananged to get in with a new croud and found really good friends and really boosted my confidence, now i dont have troubles with bullying anymore and have a wicked nickname out of it,

titch,

also remember, be strong, dont let ur confidence die no-matter what happens.

[RightThen]

am not being mean, but you do fit that you are short and have eczema in most posts.

[Robzor]

she doesnt seem like she does and i just thought no one would like me how i am right now... until someone who is on this forum said they liked me when i was even worse... so that really boosted me up but i just dont know

yeah i may go ask her to cinema, haha rush hour 3? :P

omg , i watched rush hour 3 at weekend , ownage movie tbh , gave me teh giggles.

[Nemo]

am not being mean, but you do fit that you are short and have eczema in most posts.yeah, not most posts, just a few in here really... and im going to do it :P

[M6mmikaru]

Go for it, guy! No, really. If she invited you to her place and you were alone
and when people tell you she likes you.. Come on! ;D
I mean.. Maybe she doesn't act like it just because she doesn't
want anyone to know yet.
But if you are planning on telling her, I suggest you not do it by
texting or msn or something, because in real life you could see
her real reaction and everything.

Trust me - it feels so much better!
<3 Good luck with her.

[Nemo]

Go for it, guy! No, really. If she invited you to her place and you were alone
and when people tell you she likes you.. Come on! ;D
I mean.. Maybe she doesn't act like it just because she doesn't
want anyone to know yet.
But if you are planning on telling her, I suggest you not do it by
texting or msn or something, because in real life you could see
her real reaction and everything.

Trust me - it feels so much better!
<3 Good luck with her.ok thanks, shes busy all this week so i havent really had a chance to see her, ah well... Maybe another dayyy

[adidas™]

ok thanks, shes busy all this week so i havent really had a chance to see her, ah well... Maybe another dayyy

busy doing?..

[Nemo]

busy doing?..not sure, but when i go to her house no1 is in xD

[adidas™]

not sure, but when i go to her house no1 is in xD

lol oh ok, well when you get chance, ask her wats she's busy doing and maybe you could do some of the stuff with her.. you never no.

[Nemo]

lol oh ok, well when you get chance, ask her wats she's busy doing and maybe you could do some of the stuff with her.. you never no.mmmh yh, ill try that :D

[liquid]

damn, you need a new school! i'm short and have eczema but i've never been bullied for it :)

[edible]

she likes you, tell her how you feel now! :)

also, you need a new school like jordan said. the people at your school must be idiots.

[Nemo]

she likes you, tell her how you feel now! :)

also, you need a new school like jordan said. the people at your school must be idiots.yeah they were idiots, and its so hard xD i tried ringing her before i got on just now and no answer ;[

[edible]

well, leave her a v'mail message.

[Nemo]

i suck at them ;P ill wait

[Tristan]

wot...
naruto??
lolllll.
i fink u shud giv up or sumfin coz ur finking of her in relation to naruto lollll.

[Nemo]

wot...
naruto??
lolllll.
i fink u shud giv up or sumfin coz ur finking of her in relation to naruto lollll.Nah i hardly ever watch naruto, but i mean thats just how much i was thinking about her

[Charly]

C'mon NEMOOO!

You Can Do IT! :D
n You Better Do It! :P

Good Luckk! :D

[Nemo]

C'mon NEMOOO!

You Can Do IT! :D
n You Better Do It! :P

Good Luckk! :D
Still havent had a chance to see her, i have spoken to her but she is always out! :[ maybe on monday/tuesday :D

[JFolan]

take a rubber with u m8 ;) worked for me on my 12th birthday =]

[Nemo]

a rubber? and woah massive bump o.o

[Camy]

He means take a condom =/

Yh jst a little bit of a bump there

[Rhiz]

ouch, massive bump.

hope you talked to that girl in the end (:

[Nemo]

ughhhhh kind of x]

[Rhiz]

ughhhhh kind of x]

aww thats sweet (:
i hope it all worked out in the end

[Nemo]

aww thats sweet (:
i hope it all worked out in the endUghhh not really x]

[Rhiz]

Ughhh not really x]

argh that sucks :(
as they say
plenty more fish in da oceanz

[Nemo]

argh that sucks :(
as they say
plenty more fish in da oceanz
Not really that she rejected me, just... nothings happened.

[Rhiz]

Not really that she rejected me, just... nothings happened.

i seee.
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[Nemo]

i seee.
*Removed*
Not yet...

[Rhiz]

Not yet...

might be a good idea (y)

[united-champ]

Try it man!

if she invites you round shes obviously waiting for you. You like her, she prob likes you. Just go up to her one day at school and ask her if she wants to go to a local takeaway like macci D's or BK or KFC if she likes thtaa kinda stuff. if not, just sit ith her at lunch and help her out, i'm sure you'll get the guts.

Listen, if the dont liek you she wouldnt invite you round.

[Nemo]

Try it man!

if she invites you round shes obviously waiting for you. You like her, she prob likes you. Just go up to her one day at school and ask her if she wants to go to a local takeaway like macci D's or BK or KFC if she likes thtaa kinda stuff. if not, just sit ith her at lunch and help her out, i'm sure you'll get the guts.

Listen, if the dont liek you she wouldnt invite you round.Why does this thread always come back x]

Im pretty sure she likes someone else, and she doesnt go to my school btw.

[WarezKid]

Nemo && Jakey K-I-S-S-I-N-G in the da tree LOL.


anyways, talk to her more, try abit of flirting?

[Conorx0]

take a rubber with u m8 ;) worked for me on my 12th birthday =]
Lmao 12th birthday. :rolleyes:
And have you even asked her if she likes you yet ?
Your never gonna get anywhere sitting at home pondering about it.
Might aswel just ask n then move on with your life.
Worst case scenario she says she only like you as a friend.

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[Wig44.]

Gravedigging :P

Come on niamh tell us how it went

[Born_To_Live]

Bag her - End Off :)