Needing Advice

[Hopeless]

Well i need a bit of advice..

my girlfriend has been with many people in the past.. and i only have been with a few. And i was worried about the whole STD thing..

So i said to her we should both get tested... and she was like yer ok.. So i got myself tested and got the documents and showed her tht i had no STD's.

So she said oh yea same, and i was like well can i see the papers nd then she was like :

"OMG... WHY DO I HAVE TO SHOW U A PROOF, ISNT MY WORD GOOD ENOUGH?"

and i was like.. well if u were clean then it wouldnt be much harm should it..

and tbh i dont wanna do anything with her until i no for definate she is clean, cuz theres been rumours tht some of her X's have had STD's.. but not for definate

wat should i do?

+Rep for logical advice :)

[Cwmbran]

Nothing you really can do, the ball is in her court so to speak.

If she won't show you the papers then it seems like shes trying to hide something but she may think the papers are private and for her to see only and she may not want to show any of them.

If I was you I wouldn't do anything with her until you have substantial proof that she is clean.

You could go behind her back and steal the papers off her but I wouldn't recommend that... Even though I've given you the idea of stealing them ok stop.

Yeh... Just be careful.

[Keyboard]

I know its going to be harsh, But your going to have to find these papers, If thats looking through hers things, Trying to talk to her saying what ever the answer your always be their for her.

[lAdmire]

if i was in the same position, i'd do the same thing.
so, good job.
if she doesn't show you then forget her.
leave her behind.

[.:jamie-jbm:.]

Well it is her private documents...

[WarezKid]

Well it is her private documents...

well he cant have sex with her thennn :rolleyes:

[Hopeless]

Ummm but i dont want not to go out with her.. it was just her reaction like she was hiding something

anywayz thnx for the advice :)

giving rep to those who helped or tried too :)

[velvet]

Explain to her your reasons for wanting to see them and tell her that you won't have sex with her until she has. Since theres no point in risking your health.

[:Hazel]

erm use protection? also really if you can't trust her and take her word for it there really isn't any point in the relationship is there?