Uch another day?

[Bouncing]

By the title yeah, you probably think argg not another depressive emo. The answer to that thought from me is no I'm not a depressive emo far from it.
I come on habbox forum, because really its the only place i can come and I feel not embarresed to say what ever the hell I want or which I will log on and find some decent answers to me not requests but "problems". It may seem that all my posts are about me being depressed but no im not depressed or maybe I am? I tend to be a happy boy when it comes down to it. Anyway here is what i logged on to talk about
My Problems.



Well in the family when I try to put a word in to a conversation everyone always interups me, mainly because they think im going to come out with the biggest load of bull. Which is totally un-true I dont speak unless its something which isnt crap. My dad always says what crap do you want to say now? He thinks I talk to much always critising me. None stop critising me, complaining my hair is too long " It shoudnt be that long get it shaved u puff" Wait a minute sorry I went away for 5 minutes because guess what speak of the devil? Came in "turn the ******* music down" I said ok ok yeah i will and turned it of. I said it nice and carmly. "Dont speak to me like that, open ur bloody window get ur hair out of your face and take the **** to the bin" Then i went ok, he went what are you doing anyway on that bloody laptop I said talking about how **** my life is, because nobody in this family will talk or listen to me he goes good. Now omg? That is what im talking about he can be nice when he wants to but ALWAYS critisising me! Always shouting at me for the tiny mistakes I do, always threatening me. I cant handle it because hes my dad and i love him so much but hes driving me mad and its so annoying i really cant bare him. I want to bare him I drive my self crazy because I want to bare him because i sometimes like his compony but I dont know what to think i really dont. My mum? shes fine just stresses and worrys too much but doesnt really bother me. Also which drives me to distraction is I moved house and tbh i hate the area but the house is nice i guess. my old area was so nice i miss it. I never get skallys round my old area I see some or more every day. after school i have to walk the other way now and bump in to skallys. There are alot of other problems but i cba saying them atm. But if i tell my mum my problems she worrys far too much and gets upset etc. My dad says im talking rubbish and wont listen tells me to get out wit friends and he doesnt understand my friends situation and never will understand and wont bother to listen or understand. And ive told my mum she just says " I cant help you im sorry. " Sisters say nothing they dont really understand either. And please dont say ring the little children line they will help i dont want that kind of help. I want to know what to with my life because every day is " Wake up dad in good mood then argument stars he complains about something, we argue he critisises. break between hes in good mood. Im too scared to retaliate and say why should i be happy with you all of a sudden when uve been a complete totall hypocritical uch i cant say what id say because it blocks out swearing but im sure ull know what Id say. I just want to go to uni and study law like i want become a solicitor earn more money than my parents money put together. but i have to wait years and put up with this horrible annoying life. but when im 18 out the door i go. Ill proove my self to my dad. All i can do now is listen to kurt kobain and wait.

[Cwmbran]

I would say I have exactly the same problem at home but I don't.
I have a similar problem and I won't go into it because this thread is about you not me.

I would suggest ringing childline, but you have made it clear you do not want to ring them.
In that case, talk to your mum make her sit down and don't leave or let her leave the room until you have told her what you want to say.
Tell her what you have written above, tell her that you are fed up of your dad criticising you at every moment.

As for your sisters are they older, younger than you or the same age?
Maybe they don't realise what your dad is doing so they think that you are telling bull, or maybe they do but your dad has turned them against you.

You could try talking to another relative if your mum doesn't help you.

[luke-p]

Do you have any relatives that live close to you? If so maybe you could stay with them

I have sorta of a problem with my mum, I would say I love her but I don't anymore I couldn't give 2 *****... The only reason I stay in this house is because of my dad... So I could understand if you wanted to stay because of your mum or your sisters...

Get him on his own, and talk to him and ask him why he does it, and tell him straight how much it ****** you off...

Hope it helped... Probably didn't as I'm sure you've tried already, but just in case you hadent :)

[lAdmire]

i think the only choice is childline.
or whenever he critisizes you, stand up for yourself.
you can't let him to do these things to you.

i think you need to talk to someone.
like a friend or a friend's parent that will understand.
maybe you need to get away for a bit & stay with someone else.

maybe you can even speak to a family member.
they'll understand.
then your problem will finally be over with.

i think your family needs help.
like your mom & dad.

[GreenCrayons.]

Childline is the key to success, but be carefull because if you take it to far social services could get phones by childline.
get like a family doctor.
but i recon you are lying a bit saying he came in just then and shouted at you etc..
just ignore him tell him to **** of its better than just letting him keep doing it.
tell him where to stick it then run into your room
keep doing that and he might stop?

[Cwmbran]

but i recon you are lying a bit saying he came in just then and shouted at you etc..
just ignore him tell him to **** of its better than just letting him keep doing it.
tell him where to stick it then run into your room
keep doing that and he might stop?

I'm sorry but thats the biggest bit of bull I have read in a while. If you are going to insult him he is just going to get aggravated and the problem could develop into something more than what it already is.

[today]

Childline is the key to success, but be carefull because if you take it to far social services could get phones by childline.
get like a family doctor.
but i recon you are lying a bit saying he came in just then and shouted at you etc..
just ignore him tell him to **** of its better than just letting him keep doing it.
tell him where to stick it then run into your room
keep doing that and he might stop?
You dont have any common sense do yer? :$

[VPSwow]

Stand up to him and say im sick of you treating me like this.

[Hoax]

ugh not another depressive emo

./slit

[today]

ugh not another depressive emo

./slit


ugh not another wannabe who thinks there 'hard' for saying emos are depressive.

[shokz]

what are skallys? lol

[e5..]

I think you should try talk to your mum, you'll never know until you talk.

[Earthquake]

Sorry to hear about your problems, Simular to me but I just get out as much as I can, If I was you, I would move out as soon as your 16, You can go to some place and say you've been thrown out, their give you a place like a flat, You get free food, free electricty, Stuff like that, And after a while their give you a flat and pay your rent for 3 months then your on your own to do it.

[Technologic]

what are skallys? lol

It's spelt scally and is short for scallywag.

It's bascially the northen term for chav :)