22 year old guy having sex with 16 year old girl

[Dewayne2]

Hi. Long time reader, first time poster.

I found this in a fitness forum.

A guy, 22, wants to have sex with a girl who's 16. I'm the dad of a 1 year old daughter. I am worried about her enough as it is, but I cant think of how much I'd worry about this if this was my daughter. I'm angry about this guy doing this, am I right to be angry? What would you do if your daughter was in this situation?

(to make things equal, you can read the 22 year old guys side on his blog, http://www.becomingapua.com/2007/09/06/having-sex-with-a-16-year-old/)

[Jazza]

I've seen this posted somewhere before.

Found it: http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=54024567

[:Hazel]

one of my boyfriends mates is 22 and is in a relationship with a 16 year old and her parents aren't happy but there is nothing they can do about it as she is legally able to have sex with him if she wants.

i find it a bit odd that he is with a much younger "girl" so to speak but its a difficult situation...

[cocaine]

The girl is of legal age; therefore it is her decision.

[FlyingJesus]

I've always been like "omg well bad" but if I'm honest, few years time when I'm 22 I'm sure I'd gladly sleep with any 16 year old if they're fit enough.

[seattlegrace]

I've always been like "omg well bad" but if I'm honest, few years time when I'm 22 I'm sure I'd gladly sleep with any 16 year old if they're fit enough.

LOL.
I've ot nothing against that, I don't view it as sick or anything considering her being the legal age, and all...

[-Soph-]

I don't think it's that bad.

[crans]

thats dirty man, i swear if i saw that id go over and beat the "light" out of him.

if he couldn't get anyone his age doesn't mean he has to go that low, thats sick hope he stabbed.

[seattlegrace]

thats dirty man, i swear if i saw that id go over and beat the "light" out of him.

if he couldn't get anyone his age doesn't mean he has to go that low, thats sick hope he stabbed.


Ooh yeah, because I'm sure you'd teach him a lesson! He's probably stand on you.

[You]

Hmm, if a 22 year old can **** a 16 year old, why was Lee being bullied for going out with at 14/15 year old

[cocaine]

Hmm, if a 22 year old can **** a 16 year old, why was Lee being bullied for going out with at 14/15 year old

Because he was overage and she was underage.

[Installz]

thats dirty man, i swear if i saw that id go over and beat the "light" out of him.

if he couldn't get anyone his age doesn't mean he has to go that low, thats sick hope he stabbed.

Yea because thats gunna do SOOOO MUCH
Grow up fool
Age doesnt matter.

[seattlegrace]

Hmm, if a 22 year old can **** a 16 year old, why was Lee being bullied for going out with at 14/15 year old

He was a sexual predator, hahaha.

[FlyingJesus]

Lee was bullied before we found that out, that was just extra ammunition to use.

[RedStratocas]

in the olden days, 30 year old men married 16 year old girls. it's instinct and natural for men to be attracted to younger women, and for young women to be attracted to older men.

[348GTS]

Its bad, lol.

[Cwmbran]

After reading that blog thing, I find it hard to believe that actually happened.

I could tell what was coming very easily.
It all seems too rehearsed, planned as if someone has made it up.
Thats what I believe that this guy has made it up.

Although if it is real, and if I were the girls father I would be really annoyed, and would probably stop the guy from seeing my daughter somehow.

[GommeInc]

I don't find anything wrong with it. If they are both committed to the relationship, then they're is nothing wrong with it at all. It's only really bad if he is using her for the sex.

[TitaniumRubber]

Hmm, if a 22 year old can **** a 16 year old, why was Lee being bullied for going out with at 14/15 year old

Love knows no boundries!
If you love someone age does not matter and females mature before males so they are probibly of the same mental age. Gommie has a good point above, i agree 100%.

[-Soph-]

He was a sexual predator, hahaha.


Lee was bullied before we found that out, that was just extra ammunition to use.
L-O-L, I remember the "lee" phase.

[Shawnstra]

If it was forced, it was wrong. But if she agreed to it its ok.

[@xP]

Put it this way, i've seen worse ;)

[LeftForDead]

My brothers 18 and his lass is 16, also a lad from work is 29(ish) and his lass is 16.
I dont see anything wrong with it aslong as there both happy.

[English]

thats dirty man, i swear if i saw that id go over and beat the "light" out of him.

if he couldn't get anyone his age doesn't mean he has to go that low, thats sick hope he stabbed.
Now child, you couldn't beat the "light" out of him - unless you were playing runescape as you do!

Anyway I've dated younger girls but wouldn't go that for at this age, I'd go about 3 years younger and that's it. But he is a bit older than us & she is legal!

[le harry]

Now child, you couldn't beat the "light" out of him - unless you were playing runescape as you do!


loooooooooooooooooooool

its not bad
if it was like 30 year old man then yeah w.e

[BlueEyedSarah]

Hi. Long time reader, first time poster.

I found this in a fitness forum.

A guy, 22, wants to have sex with a girl who's 16. I'm the dad of a 1 year old daughter. I am worried about her enough as it is, but I cant think of how much I'd worry about this if this was my daughter. I'm angry about this guy doing this, am I right to be angry? What would you do if your daughter was in this situation?

(to make things equal, you can read the 22 year old guys side on his blog, http://www.becomingapua.com/2007/09/06/having-sex-with-a-16-year-old/)
Its only 6 years older, whats wrong with that? Its not like he is 32 or 45 wanting sex with a 16 year old, thats when I would find it strange and the right for you to be angry. She is 16, the legal age for sex and to make her own descision. As long as she knows whats right and wrong to be safe during sex then I see nothing wrong with it. If he was forceing her to have sex then thats IS wrong or trying to make her have sex when she doesnt want to (not respecting her) then thats wrong!

[hobo]

tis alright.
she's legal and everything so i don't see a big deal.

[bigdavecox90]

As long as she's legal, thats all that matters.

[shok]

thats dirty man, i swear if i saw that id go over and beat the "light" out of him.

if he couldn't get anyone his age doesn't mean he has to go that low, thats sick hope he stabbed.
you think *removed*

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[shok]

thats dirty man, i swear if i saw that id go over and beat the "light" out of him.

if he couldn't get anyone his age doesn't mean he has to go that low, thats sick hope he stabbed.
you thick *removed*

Edited by Devil.Wont.Cry (Forum Moderator): Please do not double post.

[liquid]

it's really not that bad, they're both of a legal age..

[Aflux]

No, it's not.

They're both legal, it's like saying is it wrong for a 46 and 40 year old? No, it isn't.

Those who think it is wrong are probably those under age.

[Stephen]

OMGZZ Jean Paul Gautier is my favourite!!! I wear it 24/7!!

ANyway yeah if I was him and thought she was fit then ill give her some Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon

As in her crouching down and the dragon my willy? :S

ps. Devil.wont.cry is a drag queen

[lScottl]

To be honest, people 'get married' (& sometimes have sex) with a 12 year age difference in there 30+'s, (eg - 45 & 57). I dont see what's different with this.

[Smiddy]

I've always been like "omg well bad" but if I'm honest, few years time when I'm 22 I'm sure I'd gladly sleep with any 16 year old if they're fit enough.
Ahahaha, that made me laugh :) Nothing like a dosile of truth :P

To be honest, people 'get married' (& sometimes have sex) with a 12 year age difference in there 30+'s, (eg - 45 & 57). I dont see what's different with this.
That was what I would of said, it's just because of the younger 1's age, if it was 28 and 22, would you be as distraught?

Thing is, would people complain more if it was 21 and 15? And if all the males friends have girlfriends of there age, would his friends also mock him for it.

I personally don't understand the motive behind it, but whatever floats there boats I suppose.

[Sammeth.]

According to where Ive seen this posted before, the 22 and 16 year old girl were in Canada where the legal age is 14. So if anything she was 2 years over the legal age. Even if it did happen in the UK I wouldnt see a problem with it, though if I had a daughter I would naturally be protective about something like that. Im sure any father would be.

[today]

Nothing wrong though if i was her father i would want to know the guy alot.

[Energizer]

I don't think there's anything wrong with it. They're both legal, so yeah.

[--ss--]

The girl is legal and if she wants to she can have it , it is actually a bit sick seeing the age difference is 6 years and the girl is quite young but if she likes the guy whats there stopping her.

Seeing as i don't know them i don't really care , but if it was my sister or daughter i would and would actually be protective.

[Markness.]

i could say its like a 14 year old dating an 8 year old... which is pretty sick. But it isn't they're both of legal age and theres not written rule that says you cant date anyone 6 years younger than you *texts little bros mate* :P

[FlyingJesus]

My ex ex ex's boyfriend is like 22 I think and she's 17... but her parents think he's 19 or something like that

[whoooosh]

Meh if they are both confortable with it

[Typers]

thats dirty man, i swear if i saw that id go over and beat the "light" out of him.

if he couldn't get anyone his age doesn't mean he has to go that low, thats sick hope he stabbed.

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[T0M]

nothing wrong with it imo

6 years isnt a major gap if they are both happy with the arrangement

[&]

ditto above.

Lets put it this way, my friend (15) is 6months pregnent with a child whose father is 30.
Thats wrong >> not this kk?

[BlueEyedSarah]

I agree with the above post, the 15 year old pregnant by a 30 year old is wrong and illegal!

[EverSteve]

Well im currently loving Joe im 16 hes 13. Not sure what were gonna get up to in the future, but 22 - 16 is 8 years, for me thats to much. 5 is the max.

[Azul]

I find the idea of a 22-year-old dating someone of the age of 16 pathetic, I don't care if it's legal. In my eyes its still wrong.

[ChainLightning]

Yes, I see why your angry. Your worried about your own daughter and the protection of her. Its just dad's nature to dislike ANY boy she is around I guess, but i dont think it is wrong for a 16 year old to go out with a 22 year old. If it was a 13 year old and 22 year old, then I'd be concerned, it'll sound a bit pervert-like, but the girl's 16, old enough to get pregnant, make her own choices.

[manga21]

thats dirty man, i swear if i saw that id go over and beat the "light" out of him.

if he couldn't get anyone his age doesn't mean he has to go that low, thats sick hope he stabbed.

Some people on here really exaggerate, read it , she is as bad as him

[FlyingJesus]

I find the idea of a 22-year-old dating someone of the age of 16 pathetic, I don't care if it's legal. In my eyes its still wrong.

I love your sig pic, saw it last night on /gif/ lol

[shok]

you thick *removed*

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[English]

Well im currently loving Joe im 16 hes 13. Not sure what were gonna get up to in the future, but 22 - 16 is 8 years, for me thats to much. 5 is the max.
22 - 16 is 6 years *text removed*

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[EverSteve]

22 - 16 is 6 years y*text removed*
Same sorta thing ROFL

[Davii]

Put it this way, if they stay together til hes say 50, shell be 44 - does it sound wrong then ?

[Dan2nd]

I think you have the right to be concerned..

[shok]

Well im currently loving Joe im 16 hes 13. Not sure what were gonna get up to in the future, but 22 - 16 is 8 years, for me thats to much. 5 is the max.
go back to nursery dumbo

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[BlueEyedSarah]

I just read he's blog entry on it and it seems like he is just doing it for the ego boost...this I find wrong. Doesnt care about the 16 year old and if she has feelings its all just a bit of 'fun' to him to get into her pants. Its immature and sick in my opinion. He seems like he has never done a 16 year old so it will be first time experience and an EGO BOOST :@

[Agnostic Bear]

Hi. Long time reader, first time poster.

I found this in a fitness forum.

A guy, 22, wants to have sex with a girl who's 16. I'm the dad of a 1 year old daughter. I am worried about her enough as it is, but I cant think of how much I'd worry about this if this was my daughter. I'm angry about this guy doing this, am I right to be angry? What would you do if your daughter was in this situation?

(to make things equal, you can read the 22 year old guys side on his blog, http://www.becomingapua.com/2007/09/06/having-sex-with-a-16-year-old/)

If it's legal, who cares

[doobedoo]

its wrong

[lAdmire]

well, you have no reason to be angry.
you can be disappointed because this is something that creates problems in our society.
like diseases, etc.
but umm, i would just hope that this doesn't happen to my daughter.

[Bear-Max]

Totally depends. If it was my sister I'd be saying "JEEZUS NO!" but that's natural... It'd be worrying if you weren't protective of your flesh and blood. However, the girl is 16, and if she's mentally and emotionally (and of course physically) mature enough there's no reason to object.

[CrazyColaist]

think about a 13 year old having sex with a 27 year old.

[FlyingJesus]

think about a 13 year old having sex with a 27 year old.

I'm sure you often do, but that's irrelevant.

[Jõnathan]

I'm sure you often do, but that's irrelevant.
LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLL
My parents are 5 years apart in age, but does it really matter?
It's not like the 22 year old is 64

[Janet Snakehole]

I think its rather disgusting tbh.
:|

[YoManGo!]

so what?
my sister lost hers to a 28 year old at 16, and she turned out fine.

[VPSwow]

I actually know a 16 year old who has had sex with a 34 year old.

[-Wolverine]

I've seen this posted somewhere before.

Found it: http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=54024567

This is on another forum I post on too.. the thread starter is the same guy 'DeWayne2'.

http://hfboards.com/showthread.php?t=419319