A little worried? And Happy :]

[Buzle]

Uhmm, well - I just recently started going out with a girl named Ashley. She is having a party at her house on Saturday, and then shes coming to my Hockey game.
At the party - which is in her basement - she told me how many people shes having over, just a small get together with a bunch of friends 'n all. So we were talking one day, and she said she had a nice big warm basement with a "Guest Room". And so I was thinking ";)", and then she explained shes buying a bunch of food and some other stuff for the party and that we'd all have to bring our bathing suits and towels for a dip in the pool and the hot-tub.
So yesterday ( Sept 18th 07 ) she was like "OMG, I CANT WAIT FOR SATURADAY! <3" and I replied with "Same :D" and so after a few minutes - I was on FaceBook at the time. She replied with "you, me .. bedroom ;)" - I replied with ";)" and then we started to talk normally again - but Im only 13 and shes 14 ( 1 Grade higher ) and Im not sure wether she mean't sex? Or did she mean just rolling around making out ? (Im fine with making out, I've done it before) I'm a bit worried and what if I get there and she wanted to have sex? (Im a virgin, and if I were there, I would probably not know what to do)

I dont want to bring it up again, that'd make me seem like I wouldn't want to do it. Don't get me wrong, Ashleys a sweet, caring and loving girl - but I don't think I really understood her and now Im a bit worried.

Whoever can help, I'd be really appreciative.

Thanks,
- Connor.

[Moh]

Well usualy when you tell some 1 to go to bedroom, it means sex.
But in this case, she maybe joking, just winding you up.

[PenguinFluid]

Maybe she wants to go on world of warcrft with u

JK

Hi connor rmember me :PPPP
Is people sill calling u emo then?

Anyway take a condom

[Moh]

Maybe she wants to go on world of warcrft with u
If she does wana play WOW with u Invite me pls :)
Humm, she could want to have toast in her bedroom with u?

[PenguinFluid]

If she does wana play WOW with u Invite me pls :)
Humm, she could want to have toast in her bedroom with u?
PENGUINFLUID says:
probs means she wants toast with him

copy from our msn convo much :rolleyes:

[Scouse]

take a condom just incase & if she did mean that and she was serious, dont worry, when you get down to it you will know what to do. hope all goes well :)

[bo$$]

She was probably just messing around.. If she did mean anything then it's most likely just making out.. If you haven't talked seriously about sex before then it's probably just the second option. If you're really uncomfortable about it just go, and if she tries to take things up a level just say you aren't comfortable, plain and simple. If she cares as much as you say she does, then she'll understand :)

[Buzle]

Thanks everyone, and Ill see what she means. But I have no clue where to buy and if Im of age to get condoms? Ahah :P

If there even is an age for condoms? :S

[Scouse]

Thanks everyone, and Ill see what she means. But I have no clue where to buy and if Im of age to get condoms? Ahah :P

If there even is an age for condoms? :S

no there isnt a age and you can buy them from a chemist. :)

[Moh]

no there isnt a age and you can buy them from a chemist. :)
we have a place where u get them for free xD

[Scouse]

we have a place where u get them for free xD

yeah or you could go there.

but i think you need to give all your details in dont you?

[Buzle]

Ahah, I dont think I live anywhere near any of those ?
And plus, I dont go to High School - so I couldnt prolly get one :|

[bo$$]

You could get one from pretty much any grocery store or corner store.. Or go to a doctors near you and just ask them.. They can't just deny you getting them because of your age otherwise they'd be promoting un-safe sex :P

[Buzle]

You could get one from pretty much any grocery store or corner store.. Or go to a doctors near you and just ask them.. They can't just deny you getting them because of your age otherwise they'd be promoting un-safe sex :P


Lol, I don't think my mum would take me to the doctors for a condom? LOL

Ill just talk to her about it, if she wants to and Im for a go Ill ask her to pick one up at her High School.

[Moh]

yeah or you could go there.

but i think you need to give all your details in dont you?
no, there like when u go to a restaurant and u get free mints on the counter xD
I mean, how would I know?

[bo$$]

Lol, I don't think my mum would take me to the doctors for a condom? LOL

Ill just talk to her about it, if she wants to and Im for a go Ill ask her to pick one up at her High School.

You could go alone couldn't you? Unless its too far I guess.. lol

[Buzle]

You could go alone couldn't you? Unless its too far I guess.. lol

Ahah, yeah - my doctors is a 30 Minute drive :|

Ill just get ashley to pick me up some if thats what we want. :P

Thanks :)

[Moh]

The only prob with taking a condom is if she finds it and she was only joking :l

[DJ-Vimto]

The only prob with taking a condom is if she finds it and she was only joking :l

its easy to get out of that situation. obviously she's hinting about getting upto something in the bedroom, and he can say that he wasn't sure if it meant sex or just 'making out' so he took it to be on the safe side

[whoooosh]

Always better safe than sorry =]
If when it comes to it you are confortable go for it
but if you're not
you're only 13, theres no rush
just tell her how you feel and if she likes you
she will be willing to wait

[Eamonn]

She may have been joking around, like on myspace/bebo I always comment my friends saying how much I will do sexual stuff to them =] all for a joke obv.

[velocity]

go with the flow, you can always stop it from getting serious.

Originally Posted by .:Jack120:. http://www.habboxforum.com/images/buttons/blue//viewpost.gif (http://www.habboxforum.com/showthread.php?p=3917605#post3917605)
The only prob with taking a condom is if she finds it and she was only joking :l


lol your such a ****, taking a condom is probably the most mature thing you can do, it shows your ready & responsible. just don't tell her you have it; then she wont feel so tempted.

[Jamesy]

To be honest it sounds like she is just flirting. I doubt a 13 year old girl would hint at sex for one, And then continue talking normally. Perhaps she notice you thinking ";)" and decided to play with that a little. as opposed to playing with you...

Plus 13. That would probably hurt. I doubt a 13 year old would want to.

[English]

Girls are usually just teasing. Girls love to tease, always do & always will. At the end of the day you've got nothing to be worried about. I'd say she just means cuddling/making out with eachother in her bedroom. However if it was to be sex she was referring to, and I highly highly doubt it was, take a condom just in case. You have nothing to be worried about sex & once you get your first time outta the way you'll feel better in future. But at 13/14 I can't really see she would have meant sex atall, just making out! Just remember she's probably flirting/teasing and it seems to have worked!