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[benjamin]

Two things I came to post about in here really..

This lad asked me on a date a while ago, and I decided to go and we went Tuesday night, and it went amazzzzzzzzzing. :D I always thought dates were really old fashioned but meh, I had a reaaally good time and I was propper happy, until yesterday.. It got out round school the fact I'm bi, one of my best mates told someone at footy training, then they told everyone else, and when some of my mates found out who didn't know to begin with they started ******** me off and crap "/ and know everyone knows, and most of them arn't taking it too well really.. Hence why I'm off today, call me a chicken or whatever I just don't want to deal with all this crap right now with all my personal problems going on aswell >_>

But ah I guess as soon as you get build up, someone knocks you down..

For anyone who is gay or bi, anyone been in my situation? How'd it go?

[Naythi.]

Two things I came to post about in here really..

This lad asked me on a date a while ago, and I decided to go and we went Tuesday night, and it went amazzzzzzzzzing. :D I always thought dates were really old fashioned but meh, I had a reaaally good time and I was propper happy, until yesterday.. It got out round school the fact I'm bi, one of my best mates told someone at footy training, then they told everyone else, and when some of my mates found out who didn't know to begin with they started ******** me off and crap "/ and know everyone knows, and most of them arn't taking it too well really.. Hence why I'm off today, call me a chicken or whatever I just don't want to deal with all this crap right now with all my personal problems going on aswell >_>

But ah I guess as soon as you get build up, someone knocks you down..

For anyone who is gay or bi, anyone been in my situation? How'd it go?


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Well i dont think they should be your best mate if they told somebody your gay / bi . . .

If you told them to keep it zipped ... THen they shouldnt of told anybody

But many people dont want to go to school because of being gay , Im off today but got dentist . . . But at my school theres like 1 gay lad who has come out . . .

People did give him abuse at first , But then it gets old , And people will accept you for who you realy are .

[benjamin]

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Well i dont think they should be your best mate if they told somebody your gay / bi . . .

If you told them to keep it zipped ... THen they shouldnt of told anybody

But many people dont want to go to school because of being gay , Im off today but got dentist . . . But at my school theres like 1 gay lad who has come out . . .

People did give him abuse at first , But then it gets old , And people will accept you for who you realy are .
No, he shouldn't of, but he said to me his reasoning behind it was two of his close mates asked him and he don't wanna lie to them.. >_> but no it's fine to **** all over one of your best mates.

I'm too much of a pushover so I forgave him lol.

I know everyones saying it will blow over but I gotta face it sooner or later, and I just really can't be assed.

[Naythi.]

No, he shouldn't of, but he said to me his reasoning behind it was two of his close mates asked him and he don't wanna lie to them.. >_> but no it's fine to **** all over one of your best mates.

I'm too much of a pushover so I forgave him lol.

I know everyones saying it will blow over but I gotta face it sooner or later, and I just really can't be assed.

Well ... Not many people know about me being gay but ...

I wana tell my best mate , But i dont no how shes gona take it =S

Shes ok with gay people , Her cousins gay aswell . . .

But its just like ... ;S Lmao !


But the people ive told havnt said anything , And if they did i wouldnt forgive them and im a pushover lol :P

[Spy,]

tbh it will blow over just let it go in one ear and out the other or have a laugh about it your self as soon as thay see it dont affect u thay will try thinking of new things and then it will soon die.

tbh im still decideing on if im gay or bi ill never know till i try both but till then ive keept my feelings secert from everyone and i respsect u for coming out to ya mates must of taken some guts :P

[laffin]

If people bully you about being bi just don't lose your cool if they start shouting "you bi!" or something similar to that just say "I do know that you know" or say "so.... whats you point?" or just simply say "so......" then simply walk normally out of the room.

[Moh]

But its just like ... ;S Lmao !
I think its just the thought of her knowing u like willy xD

But if you asked some 1 to keep it a secret, no matter what happens they should keep sumin like this, cos tbh its life changing :p
when i first told some 1, we fell out loads of times, but he still kept it a secret.

Gosh, I sound like a year 7 "Secret"
humm, are these friends chavs by any chance?

Anyways, I still get called Gay even though no 1 rly knows :p

[benjamin]

I think its just the thought of her knowing u like willy xD

But if you asked some 1 to keep it a secret, no matter what happens they should keep sumin like this, cos tbh its life changing :p
when i first told some 1, we fell out loads of times, but he still kept it a secret.

Gosh, I sound like a year 7 "Secret"
humm, are these friends chavs by any chance?

Anyways, I still get called Gay even though no 1 rly knows :p
I know maan, nah he aint a chav, and he's still one of myb est mates, Christ why am I so forgiving? :|

AND THE GUY I WENT ON A DATE WITH IS IGNORING ME NOW :D wow this just gets better and better.

[English]

That's a part of being a gay/bi really! Deal with it!

[Examplify]

*****.
S'if you know Jade.

[lew!]

Yup, This kid has came out as gay, everyone takes the **** out of him but now - a few weeks later.. mabye a month nobody really cares.. he gets the odd bit of abuse now and again, but all the girls protect him tbh, cus a lot of girls want a gay freind LOL.
But i hope your life goes well and that..

[benjamin]

*****.
S'if you know Jade.
Um kk

Yup, This kid has came out as gay, everyone takes the **** out of him but now - a few weeks later.. mabye a month nobody really cares.. he gets the odd bit of abuse now and again, but all the girls protect him tbh, cus a lot of girls want a gay freind LOL.
But i hope your life goes well and that..
This is longggggggg gone lol. People like spoke about it for er, a day and then it was over. *shrug*

And the lad is a complete different matter. lmao.

[lew!]

Glad it went well for u! :P