Really confused.

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Right,
There's this girl i fancy like mega loads at school.
Whenever we get put into groups she moans and is like "OMG! I don't wanna work with him" but then when we actually get into it and start working we have a great time, joke about and laugh and stuff.

If i see her walking home from school, she'll smile at me and talk to me and stuff.

And i'm totally confused.
Is she hinting, or being nice because she has to?
Is she toying with me, or wanting me to make the first move?
OMG! I DUNNO!!!
HALP!

[adidas™]

playing hard to get, maybe.
and about the first move bit, yh just about all girls expect/really like the guy to make first move.

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playing hard to get, maybe.
and about the first move bit, yh just about all girls expect/really like the guy to make first move.

I'm really not good at making the first move tho.
I once tried to make the first move one a girl for our first kiss and it was, totally the wrong time to do it and she just walked off...
Kinda been crushed since that.
And i don't wanna go for it because what if she's just doing it for a joke?
My self esteem is already rock bottom. Don't wanna be shot down again tbh.

Anyway, thanks for the reply.

[Moh]

Get to know her more, go out after school etc...
But if you get a nice friendship you may not want that 2 end.

[Cwmbran]

playing hard to get, maybe.
and about the first move bit, yh just about all girls expect/really like the guy to make first move.

Hit the nail on the head there.


Get to know her more, go out after school etc...
But if you get a nice friendship you may not want that 2 end.

Just adding to this, invite her out when you go out with your friends, to a party, ask her if she wants to go to the cinema to see a film with you... Something along them lines.

Thats a risk nearly every guy has to take, but to avoid this you must make your intension's clear. By this I mean you must show her what you want out of this relationship, to do this compliment her on the way she looks make sure complimenting her on the way she looks is one of the first things you do, do not get too friendy otherwise that is all you are going to be, a friend.

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Just adding to this, invite her out when you go out with your friends, to a party, ask her if she wants to go to the cinema to see a film with you... Something along them lines.


That's some good advice, but i don't really have any "friends" and i'm not the party going type, so that pretty much rules that out.



Get to know her more, go out after school etc...


Thanks, but i can't really get to know her more or go out after school together because i don't really see her that often, and also the fact that she already has a b/f confuses me even more.

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Bump.

Somone please help =]

I wanna just ask her straight and simple in a note "Do you like me?" but i dunno what to write...

[iluv2spam]

say that then.

[Cwmbran]

Ok, so she has a boyfriend.

If I was you i'd sit back for now, as theres probably not much chance of her breaking up with him to go out with someone else.

If you really do think she likes you then ask for her msn/mobile number (If you dont already have it) say something like "It'd be nice to get to know you outside of school."

If she does give you one, get to know her more and act as if you don't know she has a boyfriend, then invite her to the cinema or something like that.

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Ok, so she has a boyfriend.

If I was you i'd sit back for now, as theres probably not much chance of her breaking up with him to go out with someone else.

If you really do think she likes you then ask for her msn/mobile number (If you dont already have it) say something like "It'd be nice to get to know you outside of school."

If she does give you one, get to know her more and act as if you don't know she has a boyfriend, then invite her to the cinema or something like that.

It's kind of a bit hard to act like i don't know she has one cos she goes on about him constantly -.-"

Anyway, i'll try tomorrow, i'll try and catch her right at the end of school, so i don't have to see her again for a few days.

Thanks loads guys.

[Xarea]

If she starts flirting with you on MSN or whatever, say "Are you flirting with me? :P" - if she says maybe (common answer), then your near enough in.

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Bump.

Right, well, i've given her the note and the weekend to contemplate it.

I'm really scared about going back to school on monday tho...
HELP =]

[Bladder]

Ino it's a bit late to post this now, but I always feel just asking her if she likes you is more.. man like. I guess if you give a note, some girls tend to think you're a bit childish. Ino it sounds weird, but girls like it more when you ask face to face tbh.