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Charlie
01-10-2007, 04:45 PM
I went out as friends with the girl I was set up with, and we went to the pictures to see a movie. And, during the movie, she started to randomly stroke my hand, and she rested her head on my shoulder, like some couple would probably do. But, I have a girlfriend, and I couldn't do anything about it because I didn't want to upset her, especially since we were in a public place.

After that, we waited outside for her parents to pick her up. And, I told her I'd text her my answer as to if we'd go further today, but she texted me and told me to "think wisely". I told her I liked her, but I was just worried and nervous about being my first gay relationship, she took this the wrong way, and when I said something else a joke, when she found out she went insane because she thought I meant liking her, which made me feel really bad so I've let her believe that we are together.

I told my girlfriend (internet relationship) who knows her that I meet her last night at the pictures but not what happened, and she just dumped me and blocked me and I have no other way of contact other then email. And, I don't know what to do. This girl I was set up made a good job of making me feel bad if I decided I didn't like her, and I'd like to have someone closer, but I love my girlfriend I'm with over the net, as it's been two years together.

What the hell do I do? My friend said just ditch my e-girlfriend and date the closer one, but it's not that easy. :(

FlyingJesus
01-10-2007, 04:59 PM
Don't know about this girl you met recently, but the online girl should go - not because it's long distance/online or whatever, that's not always a problem, but you've had trouble with her before getting all stressed and upsetting you, and in my opinion she's had her second chance and blown it. If she doesn't appreciate you, someone else will I'm sure, and whether that someone is this new girl or not is up to you.

The reason you're thinking "I can't leave her, I love her too much" is because you've let yourself get attached over the years - you're young, and obviously were even younger when you two started out, and things like that get imprinted onto you far easier. Trust me, if you cut her out of your life it'll hurt at first and then you'll come to just forget her.

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