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edible
04-10-2007, 04:58 PM
Yeah, simple question really.
I know some people that have.
Sometimes it work, sometimes it dont.
opinions on that?

anyway, to answer my question. yes! i have fallen for a best friend, and im currently with him and have been since before the summer started and i've known him since i was i going into year 4!

so, yeah.

Jamesy
04-10-2007, 05:13 PM
I went out with my best mate, got dumped by my best mate (one of) and we are still friends :D

:Delirium
04-10-2007, 09:01 PM
its hardest to propose to your best friend, but if it does work out, danng you just got a long relationship lol. go ahead with it, ask him, youll be happy that you took that weight off your chest and even if he does reject, youll atleast stay friends ;)

&
04-10-2007, 09:32 PM
no but i fell for one of my teachers :l
he lefttt

Cwmbran
04-10-2007, 09:41 PM
Yes - Biggest mistake I made.

edible
05-10-2007, 04:19 PM
its hardest to propose to your best friend, but if it does work out, danng you just got a long relationship lol. go ahead with it, ask him, youll be happy that you took that weight off your chest and even if he does reject, youll atleast stay friends ;)

if that was to me, it was pretty pointless, i dont need to ask him out..he knows i like him & im with him. if you read my first post properly you'd know that.
& yes it is, and i hope it will be.
but thank you for the advice, altho' i didnt need it;)

laffin
05-10-2007, 04:20 PM
Yes, the relationship lasted a week since her brother pushed me into a SHARP GLASS lamp and it stabbed my back side and we argued and ended badly.

Nemo
05-10-2007, 04:20 PM
Twice -_- Once in year 6 and once now. Great.

I let the year 6 one go but i really like this girl, this time. I'm not sure if she does though :(

edible
05-10-2007, 04:26 PM
Twice -_- Once in year 6 and once now. Great.

I let the year 6 one go but i really like this girl, this time. I'm not sure if she does though :(
aw, well - ask her! you never know she may like you;)

Yes, the relationship lasted a week since her brother pushed me into a SHARP GLASS lamp and it stabbed my back side and we argued and ended badly.
Ouch! unlucky.

Nemo
05-10-2007, 04:29 PM
aw, well - ask her! you never know she may like you;) Thing is, for ages now shes just made up excuses for not coming out n chillin with each other and some other friends on my road and around it, but she has gone out but not said anything to me :s Its really weird. Maybe she is avoiding me coz she likes me? but i just doubt that... i dno :[

mangle
05-10-2007, 04:31 PM
yep
she "fell" for me to and i was willing to go out with her , about to ask her and suddenly i got the cold shoulder and had to find out she was back with her ex who cheated on her with 9 girls and took a naked picture of himself :)

Nemo
05-10-2007, 04:32 PM
yep
she "fell" for me to and i was willing to go out with her , about to ask her and suddenly i got the cold shoulder and had to find out she was back with her ex who cheated on her with 9 girls and took a naked picture of himself :)
Awww that really musta sucked. That guy is a jerk aswell >.>

mangle
05-10-2007, 04:35 PM
Awww that really musta sucked. That guy is a jerk aswell >.>
LOL Well i dont talk to her anymore , he's one of the most hated guys in the school and everyones on my side :)

That and im gonna make her jealous in a few weeks by getting with one of her best mates at our all night disco :)

Nemo
05-10-2007, 04:36 PM
LOL Well i dont talk to her anymore , he's one of the most hated guys in the school and everyones on my side :)

That and im gonna make her jealous in a few weeks by getting with one of her best mates at our all night disco :)Well, i dont think you should do that.. its just using someone basically... and i can understand him being hated.

Toughened
07-10-2007, 02:29 PM
Hmm I guess I have a few times. Nothing has ever happened as she's always wanted to stay friends and I respect that. It's weird though because I walk her home like everyday after school, now and again she comes to mine and I go to hers and things and like we can tell each other anything. We have the same sense of humour and the same interests and all that and if a opportunity came it's way of course I would give it a shot but I'm more than happy being really close friends :). Anyway shes interested in this lad who she never shuts up about so yeah and I wouldn't wanna fall for second best either.

hobo
07-10-2007, 03:40 PM
nope.

when i've been close friends with someone long enough, i can only see them as a friend and nothing more like.
i've had friends ask me out & shiz, but i hate it, it makes things awkward after saying no.

cocaine
07-10-2007, 03:45 PM
nah, cant say i have.

camera
07-10-2007, 03:51 PM
uhm my best mates are all female. so like yh

mousey
07-10-2007, 04:10 PM
My best mates are female, i like one of them currently

but ive had a relatinnship with my other best mate whos also a girl, were still best mates

Bun
09-10-2007, 09:11 PM
uhm my best mates are all female. so like yh
lol zahzah's lezbeearn!11.

and yeh, happens quite alot :S.

benjamin
09-10-2007, 09:13 PM
yeah, i did.

i don't reccomend it lol

Davii
09-10-2007, 09:25 PM
Yes, i fancy the **** out of one of my best mates, aswell as someone at my work which could be a problem if they find out :p

jesus
09-10-2007, 09:25 PM
i alwayz do it never makes anythin awkward or anythin

Camy
10-10-2007, 05:04 PM
Yh I reli reli, like my best friend so much, i asked her out, she said no :/
It was awkward nd we hardly talked for about a week, but its gettin beter now...

Jamie!
11-10-2007, 06:43 PM
Thing is, for ages now shes just made up excuses for not coming out n chillin with each other and some other friends on my road and around it, but she has gone out but not said anything to me :s Its really weird. Maybe she is avoiding me coz she likes me? but i just doubt that... i dno :[

Well, maybe she just doesn't want to be seen with you? Or, it might just be because you sit on here all night and she doesn't want to disrupt you ;).

On topic, nah I ain't. Well, not one of my 'best' mates nah.

Nemo
11-10-2007, 06:58 PM
Well, maybe she just doesn't want to be seen with you? Or, it might just be because you sit on here all night and she doesn't want to disrupt you ;).

On topic, nah I ain't. Well, not one of my 'best' mates nah.Ermmm, we've been friends for years its just recently... and who said i sit on here all night? i leave it on generally and sometimes come on and post..

VPSwow
11-10-2007, 07:00 PM
Yes i really like my best gal mate, its bad because she set me up with her mate and yes i love her mate to bits but still. And its hard because she tells me everything about her and other lads so i get kinda jelous lol.

Toughened
12-10-2007, 08:16 PM
Yes i really like my best gal mate, its bad because she set me up with her mate and yes i love her mate to bits but still. And its hard because she tells me everything about her and other lads so i get kinda jelous lol.
Wow I soo know that feeling haha :)

Recursion
12-10-2007, 08:30 PM
Yup, i do love one of my best mates :]

@xP
12-10-2007, 11:10 PM
no i haven't. :)
am not lyk dat.

le harry
13-10-2007, 06:49 AM
nope, thank god.

Herman
13-10-2007, 04:46 PM
yeah, i have. it wasn't pretty.
our friendship isn't the same anymore.

Janet Snakehole
13-10-2007, 07:40 PM
Tbh, I can honestly say I haven't.
:)

Sunny.
13-10-2007, 07:44 PM
Yep I have. I told her and she confessed she loved me too. So were together now :)
and have been for a while now.

Bun
14-10-2007, 09:39 AM
lols me and like one of my best friends like each other, so i'm going to ask her to go with me tonight ;).

edible
15-10-2007, 06:22 PM
lols me and like one of my best friends like each other, so i'm going to ask her to go with me tonight ;).
aw, good luck :)

Bun
18-10-2007, 02:57 PM
aw, good luck :)
lols thanks, went great :D.

Mikkaoz
21-10-2007, 06:01 PM
I'm currently with one of my best friends, we plan to get married next year, we have permission from mine and her parents. :D

Long story short, follow your heart. Your wildest dreams may become reality.

edible
21-10-2007, 06:42 PM
I'm currently with one of my best friends, we plan to get married next year, we have permission from mine and her parents. :D

Long story short, follow your heart. Your wildest dreams may become reality.
may i ask how old you are?! x

Nemo
21-10-2007, 06:44 PM
may i ask how old you are?! xNo i forbid you asking him. =]

Mikkaoz
22-10-2007, 09:41 AM
may i ask how old you are?! x

Well you have to be 16 to get married with parents consent. 18 without. So I think you can guess how old I am, well close to anyway. :P


No i forbid you asking him. =]

I'm hungry so I'll eat you.

Susie Dent
23-10-2007, 06:25 PM
probz xS

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