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.Wise
20-10-2007, 12:04 AM
I really need to get this off my chest.

Ever since before i had puberty, i have had feelings for boys more than girls, and then from about 11-12 i was Bi and now i prefer girls rather than boys.

Although now, i still can get aroused by a few boys, but mainly by girls and to be honest im not that worried about it, just wondered what your opinions on it were though. Just a bit confused here.

Cheers.

today
20-10-2007, 12:22 PM
Easy,
Puberty will mess you around.

.Wise
20-10-2007, 11:15 PM
Hm, I've gotten my head straight.

Oddly enough, I only have a feeling of Attraction for this one guy, Apart from that im straight.

the wombats
20-10-2007, 11:18 PM
Hm, I've gotten my head straight.

Oddly enough, I only have a feeling of Attraction for this one guy, Apart from that im straight.

no, you're bi but fancy girls more by the sounds of it...

Antony
21-10-2007, 11:00 AM
I'd say your bi by the sounds of it. But it could just be puberty doing what it does best at! A lot of people go through a 'phase' through puberty fancing the opposite sex.

lew!
25-10-2007, 01:28 PM
Some people are into different things.
Like some people like red more than green, you like girls more than boys.. it can change - Puberty just plays with your sexual hormones and changes what you like - in a few months you will know which you like more.

FlyingJesus
25-10-2007, 01:35 PM
I'm guessing you're like 13, and it's a phase which will pass. Just ride it out, then you'll know.

BobX
25-10-2007, 01:51 PM
Don't be ashamed to hide it, whatever the outcome. Everyone is different. When it comes to sexuality, there is no right or wrong, if you like boys more, then thats fine. Stop pressuring yourself into becoming one or the other. You can like both, and remember its fine to like boys if your a boy.

Jaiisun
25-10-2007, 04:08 PM
assuming your age;
i guess you're just still a little confused.

everybody gets these feelings at some point-
even if they won't admit to it.

some people are ashamed of their feelings;
some are scared;
and then some, know what they are straight off.

It's not easy to classify your sexual orientation until you're older, really.
And right now, I guess it's not that important.

You're young.
Be foolish- and be happy ;D!

(ps. i make myself sound like im 53. im not. ;])

good luck!
Jay x

alex 1889
26-10-2007, 10:02 PM
just a phrase, most ppl go through it, though most people on the forum seem to like having it with themselves more then anything :l

Yamini
26-10-2007, 10:07 PM
You're gay.

Elliott$
26-10-2007, 10:09 PM
assuming your age;
i guess you're just still a little confused.

everybody gets these feelings at some point-
even if they won't admit to it.

some people are ashamed of their feelings;
some are scared;
and then some, know what they are straight off.

It's not easy to classify your sexual orientation until you're older, really.
And right now, I guess it's not that important.

You're young.
Be foolish- and be happy ;D!

(ps. i make myself sound like im 53. im not. ;])

good luck!
Jay x

No, you're 52 ;)

Anywayyy agreed to the first 9 posts (that I read)

Jaiisun
26-10-2007, 11:19 PM
even if i was 52, i haven't lied that i'm not 53 ;P

RandomManJay
26-10-2007, 11:45 PM
Its hard to tell during puberty with are your hormones and such on a rampage through your body, but from the sounds of it, your a bit like me, I'm bi, but I like women more, and its only a couple times I'm attracted to the same sex, its just a normal part of life as I see it :P

ed2000
28-10-2007, 12:23 AM
I can honestly say that if not most of us, then half of us have either been through something like this or had a similar experience. By the sounds of it your bi or mainly just confused but you'll notice everything will become clear in due time.

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