cheating

[hobo]

have you ever/would you ever forgive someone for cheating?

if yes you did, why?
if yes you would, why?
if no you wouldn't, why?

:)

poll ^

i dunno what my answer would be cos i'm in the situation right now and have no idea what to do lol.

so yer

? :)

[Nemo]

No i wouldn't forgive
I haven't ever cheated, well haven't even been in a proper relationship lol ;]

So theres my answer.

[FlyingJesus]

Have forgiven simply for being too scared of losing them (with 2 of them) and for not wanting the effort and bother of a breakup (with 1). Have also cheated on one but she didn't know until after.

btw dump your bloke he's called Fluffy and you can prob do better

[:Liam]

I have kinda by accident though. Broke up by text message because I was nervous to do face to face > They didnt get message > asked someone else out > Oops. Lesson learnt Always break up face to face.

[beth]

nar. cheaters are *****.

[hobo]

Have forgiven simply for being too scared of losing them (with 2 of them) and for not wanting the effort and bother of a breakup (with 1). Have also cheated on one but she didn't know until after.

btw dump your bloke he's called Fluffy and you can prob do better

lol it's me who called him fluffy.

& i can't.
he r gorgeous :(

[jesus]

no i wouldnt

ive come close when i was drunk but i just cant do it

[Nixt]

I honestly don't know, I don't think I would ever cheat on anyone and if I did it would be because I was extremely drunk or just being totally stupid. When it comes to someone cheating on me, I should think I'd finish with them straight away BUT again I don't know because if I was in a serious enough relationship it wouldn't be easy enough to just end it...

[Bun]

tough one because if you were extremely drunk and you cheated on your girlfriend then you would want them to forgive you and it's harsh saying you wouldn't forgive them but they would forgive you...

[FlyingJesus]

If I cheated on my girlfriend I wouldn't tell her. What she don't know won't hurt her.

[jesus]

If I cheated on my girlfriend I wouldn't tell her. What she don't know won't hurt her.then she finds out from someone else and is even more hurt - good one!

[FlyingJesus]

Point being that if I cheat on her in the first place I obviously don't care, so it doesn't really matter.

Also I'm more clever than that, I wouldn't do it in front of everyone at a party of her friends or anything.

[hobo]

If I cheated on my girlfriend I wouldn't tell her. What she don't know won't hurt her.

he only told me cos he'd done it at a party and people had told him they were gonna tell me

[FlyingJesus]

then punch him in the face and step on his balls

its down to how you feel really, if you can be with him and not torment yourself worrying or thinking about it then go for it, but otherwise its in your best interests to leave him

[Turnip]

I dunno
because, it depends how bad you have cheated..
if its just a kiss then fair does, forget it.. dont matter..
but if you sleep with someone else, then its different..
if my gf slept with some1 else, i wouldnt forgive..
if it was just a kiss, then forgive aslong as they promise, it aint gonna happen again.

[adidas™]

never been cheated on,
never cheated on anybody either.

[iMegz.]

I haven't and I wouldn't..

Its basically like breaking trust and being disloyal to your partner..

It's difficult to put it behind you afterwards I'm sure and your relationship would never be the same again.

[ItsDave]

Im not too sure. Lol

[MrGazet]

i wudnt want but sumtimes things happen that forced me to cheat..:S

[Mikkaoz]

I haven't and I wouldn't..

Its basically like breaking trust and being disloyal to your partner..

It's difficult to put it behind you afterwards I'm sure and your relationship would never be the same again.

I couldn't agree more, cheating on someone can mean one of of these things:


You don't have a strong relationship
You're bored/just want action
You're immatureIf it is one of the above, and you have then you don't deserve to have a partner like you do, fair enough she or he may have cheated on you too, but does that give you a right to do the same?

If you've ever cheated on someone and they've not been told, I urge you to tell them, I know what it's like to have been cheated on, it nearly drove me to self harm because I hated myself, I thought that I couldn't be a good boyfriend, I thought I was a waste of space if someone didn't like me.

Think twice before you do it, you're not just hurting your relationship.

[FlyingJesus]

i wudnt want but sumtimes things happen that forced me to cheat..:S

what, like suddenly finding out your *** is inside someone who isnt your girlfriend?

[Mikkaoz]

what, like suddenly finding out your *** is inside someone who isnt your girlfriend?

Haw.

To be honest if that happens, the person your with isn't for you, and you're making the biggest mistake ever. :)

[FlyingJesus]

if they're not the person for you it's not much of a mistake

[Mikkaoz]

if they're not the person for you it's not much of a mistake

So you'd take the choice to hurt their feeling even more. I'd class that as very egocentric.

[Jaiisun]

I cheated.
I told my girlfriend on the phone the next night.
We went on a break.
She stayed with me.

I haven't been forgiven, and by no means has it been forgotten.
She thinks about it every day.

It's been the worst mistake i've ever made.
I have no bigger regrets.

Guys, girls - don't do it.
It's hard to overcome.

[alex 1889]

no because even though im nobody special i deserve more then someone who will cheat on me

[EverSteve]

I would never cheat, never ever.

[JoeyK.]

No, someone cheating is the single most disgusting thing I can think of anyone doing.

[CJW93]

Ive only every had one real relationship but I would never cheat, it's just not right

[FlyingJesus]

So you'd take the choice to hurt their feeling even more. I'd class that as very egocentric.

I'm extremely egocentric, and I have actually got an article in the making which explains that egocentricity is integral and innate to human beings :8

[Ryan498]

I wouldn't ever cheat on anyone and i hope that they won't, i mean whats the point of dong that on someone, just break up with someone first.

[Chadwick]

Well my ex-gf was really boring she never wanted to do anything fun and i was at my mates 17th birthday party and everyone was really bladdered and this girl was coming onto me well bad so i took her up to the bedroom and we had sex and she wasn't really much to brag about because she kept falling over i think she might of been a bit high lol.
But anyway she kept me satisfied for a few more weeks before i finally ended it with my girlfriend because she thought just getting off with me was showing her affection and basically couldn't see me ever getting into the boring cows pants.
So what am trying to say is cheating can be a good thing because it can keep you satisfied if your girlfriend is a total bore and doesn't want to ****.

[benjamin]

I honestly don't know, I don't think I would ever cheat on anyone and if I did it would be because I was extremely drunk or just being totally stupid. When it comes to someone cheating on me, I should think I'd finish with them straight away BUT again I don't know because if I was in a serious enough relationship it wouldn't be easy enough to just end it...
lol.

I cheated.
I told my girlfriend on the phone the next night.
We went on a break.
She stayed with me.

I haven't been forgiven, and by no means has it been forgotten.
She thinks about it every day.

It's been the worst mistake i've ever made.
I have no bigger regrets.

Guys, girls - don't do it.
It's hard to overcome.

ohmagod u cheated on kali?
if i got the right person

and no i wouldn't cheat, been cheated on, 3 times in one relationship, i found out about 1, split up, then found out about the other 2.

[today]

I've been cheated on, well the girl cheated with two others, we found out, became best friends (with the other two lads) and got our ownback.

Was pure fun doing that.

But i wouldnt (:

[GoldenMerc]

Ive cheated quite alot because well i find it hard to stay with a girl for longer than like 2 weeks :P
But if someone cheated on me i'd feel like crap :l

[!!Max!!]

I did once or twice, once when i was going out with a boy i got with a girl and the second time i was like in luv but the boy i used 2 like get wid alot who was my old best mate told me luved me when i was drunk so yee.
regerts!