My mum.

[Breakfloor]

got a letter this morning. it said that she had a meningiona or something. i know its a cancerous brain tumor.

i cant speak to her, she keeps saying she dont want to talk. but i've had a cancerous brain tumor that im still getting over. she said shes not getting treatment because you cant have 2 people in a house. ***!?! if your ill your ill. nothing you can do but have treatment.

treatment is radiotherapy/surgery/chemotherapy

she dont understand that if she doesnt have treatment and she dies, ill be on my own.

i dunno *** to do.

[Jaiisun]

You need to speak to her about it.
Otherwise, all this will be done behind her back- and it doesn't really gain anything.

If she is going to die- you shouldn't really spend your time on here looking for what do to...
you should spend it with your mum, imo.

good luck!
Jay x

[x@xaddiex@x]

Make her see that she needs help, pour your heart out to her, tell her that you couldn't bare her leaving you .

[lAdmire]

Maybe you need to talk to her because she'd rather die then get treatment which can save her life? Even if there is two people in the house what is more important? That or her health? Her health, obv. So, I think you need to like get some family to sit her down & have a discussion about this whole situation. It would be good for her to know that she has the support of her family behind her.

[Chadwick]

Don't get what you meen about 2 people in the house :S

[BobX]

Sorry to hear it. Talk to your mum, get your whole family round and sit her down at a table and talk to her. Plead with her to get treatment. I don't understand what you mean by not having 2 people in a house?

Tell her to hard facts that if she doesn't get treatment, she dies and your alone. Do anything you can. It's your mother.

[Breakfloor]

oh, im recovering from a brain tumor and mum just found out shes got one. thats what i ment by 2 people in a house. i ment 2 people in a house ill

[Loqo]

Man am sorry to hear that. As most people have said, have a deep and long conversation with her over it and why you need her. Think of things to say before do it. And hopefully you'll talk her into getting treatment. I hope things work out well for you mate, good luck. Loqo.

[8008135]

Get her in a comfortable situation and try talking maybe? Ease it in to conversation?