HOWWW!!!!

[Hopeless]

Recently all my friends and mates have been getting with people whether is being of the opposite gender or not.. and i am basically the only one that hasn't... and its really starting to get to me because im starting to feel like a freak.. stupid yea but everyone reacts differently..

And i just need a few points or hints on how to get a GF or get clos to a girl.


+repping :)

[Shrlurp]

Talk to her.

[Installz]

Flirt with them, ask them to go to a movie, tell her you like her...
You get my drift :)

[,Jess,]

Just like socialise and stuff, you're bound to meet someone

[Jamesy]

Don't feel pressured into having a relationship just because all your friends are. Being single is not strange. It feels awful when all your friends do and you don' but if you really feel you need to :)

Try talking to he, as said above.
Just find common interests and meet up out of school to get away from the school environment.
make your intentions clear ASAP, well as soon as you think you should because leaving it until you become friends can make it harder :)

Good luck :D

[Hopeless]

thanks for the advice but how.. seriuosly i have no commense sense and have no idea how...


:( im such a nerd

[Camy]

Just try talking to girls first, make them see your a gd guy, nd dnt say anything which makes u lk stupid. When they start to get closer you start to flirt, nd make innocent jokes about her. They should do it bk, jst act like u dnt wnt anything more than a friendship, and by hw much they talk to u/want to be with u, u can tell if they want u or nt
Hope this helps (Y)

[Jamesy]

thanks for the advice but how.. seriuosly i have no commense sense and have no idea how...


:( im such a nerd

I'm a sarcastic geek with a habit of being crtical over everything. You can't be worse than me :)

[GhostFace-]

i dont even look good in my opinoin, im ugly, also im always on my comp. But i get girls because i can make em laugh. u need to talk to girls, learn what they like. but a Main key is MAKE THEM LAUGH

Hope i helped

[Camy]

i dont even look good in my opinoin, im ugly, also im always on my comp. But i get girls because i can make em laugh. u need to talk to girls, learn what they like. but a Main key is MAKE THEM LAUGH

Hope i helped

Same here tbh, I'm not on the comp that much, but msn is good for girls aswell.

[benjamin]

I thought you was gay?

If you got no confidence, get drunk and do it. Seriously.

[:Delirium]

dude tbh, msn is the BAD way to get someone, and what camy said on first post is right, also making them laugh is one of the easiest ways, the bad thing is, u take a huge risk, if she doesnt laugh and looks at you weird, your chance is cut. im in a situation like this, a girl sits beside me and we've been getting kinda close, she laughs most of the time at impressions and jokes, it might actually work :o well good luck with yours!

[The Professor]

I'm a sarcastic geek with a habit of being crtical over everything. You can't be worse than me :)

I have finally found my clone! We must talk more ;)


i dont even look good in my opinoin, im ugly, also im always on my comp. But i get girls because i can make em laugh. u need to talk to girls, learn what they like. but a Main key is MAKE THEM LAUGH

Hope i helped


Exactly. People who look good usually have no personality because it means people's attention is diverted to their looks rather than what they're saying. If you don't look like Brad Pitt, make your personality your strongest trait and no matter what it is someone will like you for it.


dude tbh, msn is the BAD way to get someone, and what camy said on first post is right, also making them laugh is one of the easiest ways, the bad thing is, u take a huge risk, if she doesnt laugh and looks at you weird, your chance is cut. im in a situation like this, a girl sits beside me and we've been getting kinda close, she laughs most of the time at impressions and jokes, it might actually work :o well good luck with yours!

I disagree. I met a girl on a camp in May, we were with each other for only a week, we spoke on msn for 5 months before we met up on the same camp this week and it helped the relationship no end. Msn makes it far easier to say things and is generally better for general conversation than talking face-to-face. But making them laugh is definitely the way forward ;)

[Camy]

Yeah msn is better to talk to girls, but its terrible for asking people out, I know from experience :(

[Hopeless]

Same here tbh, I'm not on the comp that much, but msn is good for girls aswell.


Yer i dont mean to by up myself but i am master at tht.. i can make any girl laugh they say im the funniest person they have every met

i just have no idea how to take the next step



Yer ben u said:
I thought you was gay?

If you got no confidence, get drunk and do it. Seriously.

__________

I am bisexual and i do... i get drunk and still try but i have no idea how to get past the laughing stage

[Chadwick]

Just go on msn and ask every single girl on your contacts out.
One of them will take you seriously and say yes.
That's what i do :)

[BowTies1]

dont be shy just talk to her and if she doesnt ignore you then your in :)

[Loqo]

thanks for the advice but how.. seriuosly i have no commense sense and have no idea how...


:( im such a nerd
How old are you? Dont feel pressured, if your mates are doing doesent mean you have to. just socialise and give it time and your bound to meet someone. Acting classes can boost your confidence. :)

[Hopeless]

i got confidence well alot more than i have had before but yer i still dunno wat to do

and im 16

[Grig]

Just act cool and smart. Show your real personality, talk to her and be nice- you're bound to score a girl.

[Smits]

MSN, Myspace for a while, talk to them over that.

Look, you;ve gotta like a girl first, you can't just go out looking for a gf or looking for secks.

[Hopeless]

but i am good talking to girls.. i can easily make friends with most girls but the thing is i dont know how to take it a step further

[alex 1889]

thanks for the advice but how.. seriuosly i have no commense sense and have no idea how...


:( im such a nerd
Well in a group of girls theyll be the ones who always get the guys and the ones who tag along.

In a group of boys its the same. The ones who tag along tend to go out with the girls who tag along in the girl group.

So whenever i go out with mates i wil tag along and make the occational joke and the girls who tag along will do the same. Dont try an go out with the popular girl, the ones that are just tagging along a nicer anyway :D

hope i explained that well enough

[Jdm1]

Buy a big big house

[:job2]

If you like someone, ask her if her mates and your mates wanna meet up after school (like as a big group). If that goes well start making it a regular thing so you can get to know them better. Once you think she knows you quiet well ask if she wants to do something out of school (just you and her), cinema or something would probualy be the best idea, and dont think you HAVE to pay for her :P if a girl pays for herself it shows shes ok with the situation and is comfortable, if you pay for her she might think 'omg he wants secks' and be scared (but that may be different depending on the girl) anyways... during the movie put your arm on the same arm rest as hers is on and slyly make your hands touch, back to back.

If she seems like she wants to hold your hand then go for it, if she doesnt, talk to her on msn, talk about what you thought of the movie and then get into talking about how you like her and see what she says back... you can take it from there, hope i helped

EDIT: some of the girls on your bebo are quite nice ;)

[le harry]

dont get with a girl who try's to be funny. you'll get sick of laughing at lame *** jokes.

[!!Max!!]

ur time will come baby boi x

[DeejayMachoo$]

just be your self :)