hmm stuck..

[God..]

You see,

I am stuck with two factors.

I've know this girl for about 5 years, loved her as a friend, always treating her right, and stuff. Latley we have been getting closer, such as me inviting her to come on holiday with me, talking to her more, beening with her more. But not so sure about anything.

Factor two.
Well, i've know this girl for about 5months shes great to be around, everything - she asked me sometime last week her webcam don't work i said 'you can have mine I don't use it nor need it' she said 'ok do I have to pay' I was like 'nah you don't just have it' she accpted and therformore grow our friendship more.

The girl is fun to be around, shes funny when she is drunk.

Back to factor one.

This girl doesn't get drunk often, shes smart, caring and funny. She knows how to have a great time.

Factor two.

She is now noticing me more becasue I have gaven her a pressent, and she 'maybe' likes me a bit more as in a way.

Facter one.

I have given many pressents to this one, money, cards, birthday pressent, been to cinimar with her ect - fortunaly we are to much great friends I think.

factor three?

what one to choose? who to love? who to be with?

please help me!

[Nemo]

I'd go for factor one, you know she likes you, you like her, you both like each other. Even though you have known each other for ages, do it. Not all friendship relationships end up with people hating each other

[God..]

I'd go for factor one, you know she likes you, you like her, you both like each other. Even though you have known each other for ages, do it. Not all friendship relationships end up with people hating each other
Hmm, she recently got out of a relationship.

about 2 months ago.

We was at a party together, we held hands, danced.

[Nemo]

Hmm, she recently got out of a relationship.

about 2 months ago.

We was at a party together, we held hands, danced.
well 2months in kinda long so go for it :)

[God..]

How can I like 'test' that she likes me in that kind of way? you know.

[Jamesy]

Flirt with her, if she flirts back you are in there...

ohhh yeah ;)

[Nemo]

How can I like 'test' that she likes me in that kind of way? you know.
she held your hand,danced, and went on holiday with you...


Need any more signs?

[Jamesy]

http://img107.imageshack.us/img107/6903/18075546wu2.png

this one :D

[Nemo]

http://img107.imageshack.us/img107/6903/18075546wu2.png

this one :Dim with sucky

[DeejayMachoo$]

Go for number 2 the one thats init for the money!

[lolwut]

Well, it migh be "Love Blindness", but it seems obvious that Factor Two is using you for money. Whereas Factor One loves you for who you are. Choice is obvious.

[alex 1889]

one, coz it should last and you know alot about eachother

[5,5]

Go for one, but if you guys ever break up, don't be a **** becuase that would end your friends relationship then.

[Jaiisun]

Right, I think option one personally.
But it's your choice.

I just posted the following in a similar thread:

If i was you, i'd choose the first girl.
But i'm not you- so don't let me choose.

I say to almost every person who has a problem with a relationship...
weigh up the good and bad points.

If you really feel embarassed or awkward about doing it publicly here, do it on paper, or anywhere.

It should hopefully be easier to choose, then.

But I have a little more to say on this thread...

If you and girl one have such a good relationship- i'm sure you should feel comfortable enough to talk to her about it. Ask her where she feels you and her are going- or not going.

good luck!
let me know how it goes...
Jay x

[[DC]eption]

Number 2 if she likes to get drunk :D;)

[alex 1889]

eption;4079077']Number 2 if she likes to get drunk :D;)
What is shes a fat drunk who throws up on him? :Ocass14

[MrGazet]

factor one yeah but relli up to u m8 :P

[DeejayMachoo$]

eption;4079077']Number 2 if she likes to get drunk :D;)

Getting drunk is good :)

[God..]

hmm.
well we was messen around and stuff on the internet and she said 'thanks nick ly'

i was like =] (this is factor two)

factor one however has been invited to my home town.

[:Delirium]

mate... it clearly shows that the 2nd one is only there for the gifts..

next, just go up to the first girl and say it out right, "Do you like me?", and if she says umm yea sure, then say "do you love me?"

[MrGazet]

i think factor 2 is up for ur money..

[DjZoc]

I think number two seems like she isn't ready for a relationship because she likes to go out and get drunk at parties. Personally i would choose number oneee. :]

[Zak]

http://img107.imageshack.us/img107/6903/18075546wu2.png

this one :D

Im so behind this guy

[Jamesy]

I have to agree with myself. Just go for it! I did and it went fantastic ;)

[benjamin]

number two, if you and number one are really good mates when the relationships end you will loose a friendship too.

[velvet]

Number one sounds like a much nicer person imo.

[camera]

id say neither tbh. but its u do whatever u think is right.

see for factor 1, if u break up with her, itll be all awkward and u might lose her as a friend and stuff and as far as i know, most people dont usually become friends again.

as for factor 2, she seems materialistic to me.