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betty345!
02-11-2007, 11:59 PM
So i'm male right, and for a while now i've believe i was bi. But sometimes i think it may just be because i'm gay but i don't want to fully accept this.
I'm 15, and well i've had my fair share of girlfriends, but the same routine happens all the time, i love them for like a few weeks, then get extremly bored and can't feel like the relationship is going anywhere.

But a couple of days ago, i asked one of my best friends out, it seemed like the right thing to do - and we're now a couple, but already quicker than normal i know this isn't right. So i'm 95% sure that i am actually gay.

What should i do?! Bare in mind my new girlfriend is one of my best friends.

[oh btw, i've had foreplay from both sexes, and i prefered the boys - alot more, but could this just be because at an earlier age a boy knows what feels good etc.] xo!

Jinc
03-11-2007, 03:56 AM
If your girlfriend really is your best friend, she should be able to accept the fact that you know you're gay now. Did she know you were bi before? I doubt that it will come as too much of a shock, especially since the relationship hasn't been going on for very long.

kreechin
10-12-2007, 08:25 AM
I felt the same way when I was your age, Had the girlfriends but grew bored of them after a few weeks, same old, same old..
I'm 18 now and decided about 6 months ago that as I feel a lot more comfortable with being with boys.
I suppose if you haing in there a little lonher, just to be absolutely sure as you don't want to make a decision so early on and then in a few months time think 'I like her' but told yourself you think your gay as this could totally confuse you, I learned from experience :P
But yeah, just take your time when making the decision, make 100% sure that you are possitive before making any decisions.
Good Luck with that (: xo

Zak
10-12-2007, 11:48 AM
Off-Topic: Why is everyone on this forum, bi or gay lol..

On-Topic: Follow your heart

EverSteve
10-12-2007, 05:10 PM
Off-Topic: Why is everyone on this forum, bi or gay lol..

On-Topic: Follow your heart
Your seeing things?

Also if you don't feel right let them know, as it's not fare on the other person if you keep tagging them along. But because your best friends, i dont know what you could do.

Flyhack
10-12-2007, 09:45 PM
Urm, just try it all, do it with a boy, do what you want, It doesnt matter your friends should accept you for w.e you are

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