Crap.

[EverSteve]

I left my phone on the Coach when I went to Everton, cuz everytime I do something Right, I muck it up somehow.

So i had the best day of my life, and then i leave my phone :|.

Anyway on my phone, ive got loads of messages and stuff from what i was sending on the coach. My dads picking it up on Monday Morning, but if he noseys on my texts hes gonna see how gay I am, he knows im bi, but dosen't realise how bad its gotten...he just thinks im kinda 'intrested in other people', whats bull.

So help, Im at college on Monday and hes going, if he dont go then I wont get it till Thursday, what means i can't text or ring this person, but if he goes he might find out.

So basically what im asking is should I come out to him....or risk waiting till Thursday, or risk him knowing my sexuality.

Plus hes been checking my msn, i go on 'idle' came back upstairs and it wasn't because he had just gone out of my room :@.

[mousey]

ah, it sounds like you have a problem. Im sure he will understand?
and i dont know why it reminds me of the egg card advert Clever Dumb balence! (excuse my spelling)

[RandomManJay]

:S not sure what you can do, but if he does look at your messages etc. whats the worst that could happen, if he gets home and starts having a go at you, just tell him you shouldn'n't have been looking at your messages and such (if your dad isn't strict or anything (mines is, but I still have a go at him :)) or just pick that time to come out to him. Thats all I've got :S wish I could help more :(

[FishyCrackers]

I'm sure he will respect your privacy.

[Jamesy]

Thats why you put a pin on your phone...

[,Jess,]

Thats why you put a pin on your phone...

When I do that, I always forget it lol.

I guess he should respect your privacy, like this is different but my mum just always walks in my room and reads my msn convos too lol so I lock my pc when I'm away.

If your Dad does check through your phone and asks questions then just be truthful but if he doesn't say anything then you don't have to really. Only come out to him when you feel ready,

[Hitman]

Your dad should respect your privacy.

Maybe the phone battery has gone flat. ;)

[alex 1889]

you should barge infront of him, apolagize then break your phone and apolagize again, then when he thinks your hiding something announce that your a vegetarian. Im sure he wont car about that

[5,5]

Better he find out from you then a text message, don't ya think.

[Turnip]

depends what the text says ^.
good luck on sortin it though mate.

[Frisky]

I think you should act asif everything is fine. Because in reality it is? You dad should accept
you for who you are. Any decent Dad wouldn't read their sons texts/msn. Put a lock on your chatlogs, that's what i used to do.
When he gives your phone back just act asif everything fine, then he wont suspect anything.
That's my advise :) x

[Elliott$]

You should be proud of your sexuality, let him find out. If you embarrased, don't be gay.

[flux]

You should be proud of your sexuality, let him find out. If you embarrased, don't be gay.
That doesn't work..

Well, all I can say is, if you're not ready to come out to him, don't. Because that could lead to more problems. Just act as if everything is normal, don't give him a reason to go through your texts, I mean don't go to him "OH DAD PLEASE DON'T LOOK THROUGH MY PHONE BTW." then he is going to be curious, and 99% chance he will.

Just hope for the best, and if he does.. Then well there isn't much you can do. But I'm sure everything will work out fine :D

[Frisky]

You should be proud of your sexuality, let him find out. If you embarrased, don't be gay.

That's a stupid thing to say :/

You can't just 'not be gay'.
Noone can just avoid something like that.

&&

Even if your dad does go through them, he'll probably avoid saying anything.
Men are like that.

[flux]

That's a stupid thing to say :/

You can't just 'not be gay'.
Noone can just avoid something like that.

&&

Even if your dad does go through them, he'll probably avoid saying anything.
Men are like that.
Meh I wish my dad didn't say anything when he found my texts from Rhys.

[lew!]

OMG IVE JUST HAD THE SAME PROBLEM!!

Well yea - My phone hasnt been working and i posted myself on a website (sounds pervy) lol anyway i was out and my mum got a new phone.. so she put in my sim card from my old broke phone into the new one and all these "3 new messages" came up ect, so she looked at them.. which really ****** me off.. i told her i am bi but she knows im gay now LOL.

Whats even worse is that she went on the website that i posted myself on.
LMAO IT SAID:
"Very experienced young twink looking for some fun ;)" LMFAOO I WAS LIKE **** LMAO.

Anyway i just spilled it all out.. and i said to her why look at my phone anyway and she said because im your mother - and im curious.. wouldnt you be if it was my phone?
Which is true.

You would wanna look at the messages if it was your dads phone wouldnt you?
:P

[Niall!]

I left my phone on the Coach when I went to Everton, cuz everytime I do something Right, I muck it up somehow.

So i had the best day of my life, and then i leave my phone :|.

Anyway on my phone, ive got loads of messages and stuff from what i was sending on the coach. My dads picking it up on Monday Morning, but if he noseys on my texts hes gonna see how gay I am, he knows im bi, but dosen't realise how bad its gotten...he just thinks im kinda 'intrested in other people', whats bull.

So help, Im at college on Monday and hes going, if he dont go then I wont get it till Thursday, what means i can't text or ring this person, but if he goes he might find out.

So basically what im asking is should I come out to him....or risk waiting till Thursday, or risk him knowing my sexuality.

Plus hes been checking my msn, i go on 'idle' came back upstairs and it wasn't because he had just gone out of my room :@.

Jameszzyyy ^^

Anyway, Isn't this coming from the guy who said "I'm bi, i can't imagine dating guys when im an adult" or something along those lines? Na im only joking.

If he knows your bi, you've nothing to worry about

[EverSteve]

He got my phone and it was dead, he didn't know how to charge or turn it on wooooot. :) Thanks to everyone whos advice was given, ill prob need it one day in the future :)

[iluv2spam]

Well atleast someone has goodluck. Grats :)

[Earthquake]

Your screwed :)

[flux]

Your screwed :)
Try reading the thread.

[RandomManJay]

He got my phone and it was dead, he didn't know how to charge or turn it on wooooot. :) Thanks to everyone whos advice was given, ill prob need it one day in the future :)

Hopefully by then you will be ready, or already have come out :P

[Eamonn]

Shouldn't your battery have gone by then?