Hmm

[d17c]

My gay friend was at a party, and one of his best female friends got him totally wasted just so she could...errr.. *thinks of way to say it without being offensive* tickle his pickle.
The next day, he remembered what happened and got really angry at her and hasn't spoken to her since.
I think he's kinda over reacting because there must have been a part of him that wanted her to do it (and don't say that part is his penis :))
But I sorta why he feels angry at her.

So... how would you feel if it happened to you?

PS, I think the gay/lesbian/bi chat part of the forum should be more active

[5,5]

Maybe he wants people to think that he's 100% gay. Or amybe he really did hate it.

[MrGazet]

At 1st place I think it's rude for her to do that.She shouldn't do dat as she's aware hes gay.I'd be so ****** off if sum1 do dat to me.i mean relli ****** :P

[BobX]

He's obviously angry because she got him drunk to do it. Not the fact that it happened, And you can't make people gay/bi/Lesbian just so the forum can be active ;)

[d17c]

He's obviously angry because she got him drunk to do it. Not the fact that it happened, And you can't make people gay/bi/Lesbian just so the forum can be active ;)

I can try ;)

[alex 1889]

i wouldnt be to angry :D

think hes overreacting though

[nicocee]

I have quite a few suggestions on why he is angry at her...

1. If someone got you drunk then sexually touched / assaulted you, you would feel asif you have been raped or molested. Its like someone drugging you up.

2. Maybe he is just not impressed that she wants to "tickle his pickle", and wants her to know that he is not interested and is only interested in guys.

3. He could be just in shock, he doesn't know what to do, so its a case of 'Rejecting' her until he thinks of some way to deal with this.

[Antony]

she obviously didnt respect his sexuality and abused the fact they were both drunk.

[d17c]

Thanks for your replies, but you've all said why you think he is angry, I asked how you would feel if it were you.

[BobX]

I can try ;)


haha ;)

And in my opinion i would be angry at the fact that she got me drunk just to do what she did to/with me, but if she was drunk too and we both didn't know what was happening, i wouldn't care. :)

[lew!]

Id be angry.. because its like molestation isnt it? - Got them drunk and then just messed about with him when hes not intrested in that sex.
Its like going up to your female freind and fingering them, Im sure they wouldnt like it. especially if theyre lesbian.. and your male.

[flux]

If he generally didn't want it to happen it's classed as rape..
Well I guess if he didn't refuse at the time it isn't really, but meh.

I dunno how I'd feel really, I'd be pretty ****** off at first, but then I'd just let it go and forget about it after a day or two.

[d17c]

Id be angry.. because its like molestation isnt it? - Got them drunk and then just messed about with him when hes not intrested in that sex.
Its like going up to your female freind and fingering them, Im sure they wouldnt like it. especially if theyre lesbian.. and your male.

Some of them would actually ;)

[FlyingJesus]

Its like going up to your female freind and fingering them

popped a boner.

Anyway, yeah the guy has a right to be annoyed as he's been taken advantage of. Also this area is fairly active, and it's just really for people who are having problems with sexuality or something rather than a "gay chat" area - gays and straight people alike are free to post anywhere, you don't need a special section just to talk.

[Cwmbran]

And in my opinion i would be angry at the fact that she got me drunk just to do what she did to/with me, but if she was drunk too and we both didn't know what was happening, i wouldn't care. :)

If you were drunk, then you may not be able to remember if the other person was or was not, you could ask her if she was and in this situation she will most probably say yes as he is gay, but infact she could not have been drunk.

Anyway if it happened to me which it sort of has but it didn't get this far, I would be extremely annoyed especially if the girl had known that this guy is gay.