View Full Version : Worried about my GF..
FatJoe
06-11-2007, 10:38 PM
Well we had intercourse about 3 times before her period was due.. Her period was due Friday , today is Tuesday and she still hasnt had it.. We didn't use a condom but I did not ejaculate in her all those times.. So Im just wondering since she was a virgin and she had sex for her period to come later? We are very scared.
Lycan
06-11-2007, 10:44 PM
Well the first thing to do would be to invest in Condoms just to prevent any future worries
Elkaa
06-11-2007, 10:47 PM
Could potentially be one of the worst things that you regret.
Being a virgin, first time, doing it upside down or even doing it whilst writing your homework for the next day doesn't make it any less likely for her to be pregnant, unless she's had the injection, or is on the pill for ~3 months.
Condoms were invented for a reason. Whether it feels better with, or without in a case like this is irelivent. If you want safe sex, you either go on the pill (if you're female), or use a condom (if you're male) - Alternatively, use both.
Ostinato
06-11-2007, 10:55 PM
Could potentially be one of the worst things that you regret.
Being a virgin, first time, doing it upside down or even doing it whilst writing your homework for the next day doesn't make it any less likely for her to be pregnant, unless she's had the injection, or is on the pill for ~3 months.
Condoms were invented for a reason. Whether it feels better with, or without in a case like this is irelivent. If you want safe sex, you either go on the pill (if you're female), or use a condom (if you're male) - Alternatively, use both.
He isn't asking for your opinion on contraceptive methods - he is simply asking whether or not you think she could be pregnant. :rolleyes:
Obviously she could be pregnant as you have highly increased the risks without using contraception. However, as I know from experience, sometimes after sex your girlfriends period may just be a bit more irregular than normal. I know my girlfriends was a bit later after our first time, and it is normal for periods to be irregular anyway so I wouldn't worry too much just yet.
I would say that if it isn't here by friday (a week since it's due date) then perhaps take a pregnancy test.
If you really are just sick with worry you may as well take a test just now. At least that way it will put you out of your misery and you will know either way so will be able to make a decision about it from there.
The reason I am not preaching to you about being more careful in future etc. is because I am sure although this experience is so worrying for you right now - you will learn a lot from it. Surely you don't want to have to go through such great worry again, so maybe it will make you think twice about having unprotected sex in the future again! ;)
manga21
07-11-2007, 05:07 PM
No one has said about pre ejaculation , If you didnt *** it still dosnt mean you didnt *** , You can what they call pre ejaculate and its when you are bit excited or something and a little bit comes out but you dont know so yeah.. ermm she might be sorry , and you cant wait a week for a test? I thought it was longer to get proper results?
iluv2spam
07-11-2007, 10:51 PM
No one has said about pre ejaculation , If you didnt *** it still dosnt mean you didnt *** , You can what they call pre ejaculate and its when you are bit excited or something and a little bit comes out but you dont know so yeah.. ermm she might be sorry , and you cant wait a week for a test? I thought it was longer to get proper results?
QFT. Pre-come = still cance of preggie
Ostinato
07-11-2007, 11:52 PM
No one has said about pre ejaculation , If you didnt *** it still dosnt mean you didnt *** , You can what they call pre ejaculate and its when you are bit excited or something and a little bit comes out but you dont know so yeah.. ermm she might be sorry , and you cant wait a week for a test? I thought it was longer to get proper results?
Yeh it is likewise to how a girl gets 'wet'. You too, when excited, have natural lubrication and ejaculate small amounts of sperm whilst you are sexually active... Therefore just because you don't fully ejaculate inside her doesn't mean you haven't produce sperm able to fertilise an egg.
However, the chances of this happening are pretty slim in comparison to full ejaculation within the vagina.
spot.
08-11-2007, 12:38 AM
ya g/f is probs preggos i would ask her to get an abortion or leave her and never see her again because u would nvr wanna deal with a kid
manga21
09-11-2007, 07:00 PM
Yeh it is likewise to how a girl gets 'wet'. You too, when excited, have natural lubrication and ejaculate small amounts of sperm whilst you are sexually active... Therefore just because you don't fully ejaculate inside her doesn't mean you haven't produce sperm able to fertilise an egg.
However, the chances of this happening are pretty slim in comparison to full ejaculation within the vagina.
Yeah I was just saying there is still a chance
Albion
10-11-2007, 10:34 AM
When your Mastarbating you get tiny dribbles of semen come out of the penis before you acturally have an intence edjaculation, she is probly pregnant.
:job2
10-11-2007, 11:23 AM
Having sex can change when a girl comes on her period. Also as its her first time she may have been scared or stressed and this can make periods late.
Try not to worry about it, give it 2 weeks and if she still hasnt come on go down the doctors.
Make sure you comfort her and are there for her, its times like this that show how strong your relationship is
drama
10-11-2007, 11:25 AM
hope your infertile then.
Fifteen
10-11-2007, 11:25 AM
Well we had intercourse about 3 times before her period was due.. Her period was due Friday , today is Tuesday and she still hasnt had it.. We didn't use a condom but I did not ejaculate in her all those times.. So Im just wondering since she was a virgin and she had sex for her period to come later? We are very scared.
Don't be silly wrap your willy, she could still get preggers even if you didn't ejaculate in her and begin a virgin or not doesn't make a difference.
mike475
10-11-2007, 09:34 PM
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KrimeScene
10-11-2007, 09:42 PM
To be honest, Id worry about catching an STD.
It is proven you dont need to be a non-Virgin to carry STD.
You can get it through Foreplay, And in some cases 'Pleasuring youself'
Also the disease Syphillis is back.
And more dangerous than ever, Giving you more than 1 reason to use protection.
For more information on Syphillis..
http://www.cdc.gov/std/syphilis/
Thank You.
Favourtism
10-11-2007, 09:45 PM
As I wrote this post an advert on the Television flashed up about using condoms , Spooky eh?
Basically just try to use condoms to be on the safe side.
Well we had intercourse about 3 times before her period was due.. Her period was due Friday , today is Tuesday and she still hasnt had it.. We didn't use a condom but I did not ejaculate in her all those times.. So Im just wondering since she was a virgin and she had sex for her period to come later? We are very scared.
What was the point in having sex?
Sorry to tell you, but she's up the duff.
iluv2spam
13-11-2007, 09:08 PM
What was the point in having sex?
Ask your mumma / dadd
Ugawa
13-11-2007, 09:15 PM
TuTTuTTuT get her checked, not only cld she b pregant she cld have an STI dnt do it without a johnny its not smart
Like i always say
don't be silly wrap up your willy
XD
You two shld of got an aftermorning pill.
If you got abit (excited) sperm is still released before fully realising it, so yes.. without even ejaculating inside of her, you could have made a baby.
Use condoms you can get them free like i do, I use clinics and connextions.. you get 20 free a month.
Be careful
-Interact
WarezKid
13-11-2007, 11:04 PM
Wouldnt it be a good idea if you just had sex just after the girl had perdios (Sp?)
becasue you know it not gonna come in a month lol
DjZoc
14-11-2007, 12:07 AM
Well, when me and my girlfriend had intercourse of course i forgot to use my condom, so she was late on her period maybe a week. So its very possible that she isnt preg, but next time USE A CONDOM. EVERYTIME USE A CONDOM.
The Professor
15-11-2007, 07:26 PM
Wouldnt it be a good idea if you just had sex just after the girl had perdios (Sp?)
becasue you know it not gonna come in a month lol
Aparently catholics use that because they dont believe in contreception. Completely backwards imo, but there you go.
@ the thread starter: Dont worry, I remember my girlfriend's period was later after we first had sex, she got really worried about it but was really happy when it came, which is ironic since usually the opposite is the case :P
Relax :)
Same actually Alex, mine was a few days later than expected to.
Ailerons
15-11-2007, 08:49 PM
Well we had intercourse about 3 times before her period was due.. Her period was due Friday , today is Tuesday and she still hasnt had it.. We didn't use a condom but I did not ejaculate in her all those times.. So Im just wondering since she was a virgin and she had sex for her period to come later? We are very scared.
What are you gonna call the baby? :D
What are you gonna call the baby? :D
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