y do you choose to be gay?

[spot.]

ok so its been proven that people are born straight so the question is why do you choose to be gay?

is it because:
1)you want to be different
2)you think its in style
3) or do you do it because the opposite sex has been horrible to you

i dont got notin against gay ppl i just wanna know the reasons y u choose to be gay

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[Virgin Mary]

You aren't born with a sexuality, hence why babies don't crawl around sexing each other.

[spot.]

u think babies would crawl around fondling eachother if they had a sexuality?
wowowowowowo

[Virgin Mary]

Yes, it's also the reason why they don't ********** or download pornography.

[spot.]

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[lew!]

It hasnt been proven that your born straight.
Personally i think its just in your personality or from a gene..

When i told my mum and dad.. because my mum experiemented with girls when she was my age.. my dad was like ITS YOUR FAULT U EXPERIMENTED WITH GIRLS AND NO SO IS HE FROM YOUR GENES!!

lol.

[flux]

i don't choose to be gay/bi whatever, trust me lol

[Virgin Mary]

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Why are you trying to abuse me? Do you hate me or something? Are you purposely trying to push me over the edge? Is this what you want? Is this what you really want?

[dannyisnotamazing]

its cos its in fashion mate ye thats the real reason

[flux]

I kinda see this question simular to one such as "Why do you choose to be male?"

You don't, you just are.

[BlueTango]

Like said above. No-one chooses to be gay. Its just something certain about us in life. Like being a male, having brown hair or liking marmite.

[Virgin Mary]

I think it's more comparable to personality. It can't be changed but you can pretend it is or that it isn't true.

[spot.]

its cos its in fashion mate ye thats the real reason
the hell u on about

[&]

ok so its been proven that people are born straight so the question is why do you choose to be gay?


no it hasnt.
simple

[!!Max!!]

thats like asking someone "why are you black?".

[EverSteve]

is it because:
1)you want to be different
2)you think its in style
3) or do you do it because the opposite sex has been horrible to you
LOL this is the most pathetic post in the world. No you don't just choose one day ILL BE GAY YOU KNOW, its your feelings. I have feelings for lads, and I care for my boyfriend. And how is being gay the Style, if it was the style you wouldn't get beaten up in schools, when you come out.

[spot.]

no it hasnt.
simple
ya it is
ppl arnt born gay

[KrimeScene]

Its not like asking someone WHY ARE YOU BLACK?

That could be taken wrongly, As a racial remark.

Asking someone, Why are you gay, Could also be taken wrongly.

You cant just go up to some black guy and go..

Why where you born black?

But you CAN go up to a black guy and say..

Why Do you CHOOSE to be gay?

There are CHOICES.

[RandomManJay]

No one is born with a true sexuality, no one can be 100% straight or 100% gay, its not possible, its only when you age and are able to experience sexual interation that you are able to choose which you prefer. To add, I would like you see your sources of this hypothesis, I've researched into sexuality and have only found claims of everyone being born gay, and a behaviourist appoach to sexuality

[spot.]

No one is born with a true sexuality, no one can be 100% straight or 100% gay, its not possible, its only when you age and are able to experience sexual interation that you are able to choose which you prefer. To add, I would like you see your sources of this hypothesis, I've researched into sexuality and have only found claims of everyone being born gay, and a behaviourist appoach to sexuality
im a scientist who makes lots of money a year i know about these things

[Technologic]

Why do you choose to be straight?

Same Q, different word

[5,5]

I have a q, do gay people really choose to be gay, or are they born that way. Or will the world never know?

[Virgin Mary]

There isn't a gene that makes you gay or straight or bi or paedo or zoo or w.e.

[Agesilaus]

No one is born with a true sexuality, no one can be 100% straight or 100% gay, its not possible, its only when you age and are able to experience sexual interation that you are able to choose which you prefer.

I agree with Rasputen here. I think it's more of a personality thing than it is genetic.

[RandomManJay]

im a scientist who makes lots of money a year i know about these things

If you would like to show me your research, then I'll be happy to apologise for attempting to disprove you

[Beau]

im a scientist who makes lots of money a year i know about these things


Ah yes, a scientist who was expelled (http://habboxforum.com/showthread.php?t=411270) mere weeks ago? My my, university credentials must be very easy to get in the UK...

[Agesilaus]

Ah yes, a scientist who was expelled (http://habboxforum.com/showthread.php?t=411270) mere weeks ago? My my, university credentials must be very easy to get in the UK...
It takes all types I guess.

[brodeo]

I disagree with 'its a personality choice'. I'm tidy and polite, thats because i have been brought up that way. I'm also homosexual, but that relates in no way to my surroundings. I know plenty of people in the same family unit as me who aren't gay. Are you saying my gay voice is a personality choice? It isn't. You try putting on a false voice every day of your life, it won't work. It's natural for me, as is my attraction to men.

[Roboevil]

There isn't a gene that makes you gay or straight or bi or paedo or zoo or w.e.

I've been lead to believe there is. As is there a gene which makes you prone to believing in god and other religious stuff.

[Virgin Mary]

I've been lead to believe there is. As is there a gene which makes you prone to believing in god and other religious stuff.
I always thought sexuality was an adaptation brought on by upbringing. From what I've seen, there's been loads of failed attempts at finding a gene. Although either way makes it no more a conscious choice.

[RedStratocas]

I kinda see this question simular to one such as "Why do you choose to be male?"

You don't, you just are.

why do you choose to be black?!

homosexuality isn't a gene, but there has been some science that leads belief that it is chemical. A lack of hormones etc. However, my belief is that it is a preference like everything else. Are you born with preferences? Do you choose to like the taste of steak, or is that just the way it is? it's open to interpretation, but that's what i think.

[JackHb]

ok so its been proven that people are born straight so the question is why do you choose to be gay?

is it because:
1)you want to be different
2)you think its in style
3) or do you do it because the opposite sex has been horrible to you

i dont got notin against gay ppl i just wanna know the reasons y u choose to be gay

What are you, 10?
I can't even be bothered giving you a descent reply.


However, my belief is that it is a preference like everything else.

If so then why are there lots of people out there who would do anything to be straight, to not have to deal with the hassle and problems of being gay?

[spot.]

Why do you choose to be straight?

Same Q, different word
because i was born straight just like the rest of the world population :)



If so then why are there lots of people out there who would do anything to be straight, to not have to deal with the hassle and problems of being gay?
you answered your own question

[JackHb]

you answered your own question

Don't try and be cocky

[spot.]

Don't try and be cocky
it was true though :S

[flux]

because i was born straight just like the rest of the world population :)
the 'rest of the world population' isn't straight.
the majority, sure.
not the rest though.

[Susie Dent]

doesn't it happen when their father shuns themb (not necessarily intentionally) and they have a primarily female influence??

[RandomManJay]

doesn't it happen when their father shuns themb (not necessarily intentionally) and they have a primarily female influence??

No, thats attachment in psychology, which parent you choose to have a stronger bond with doesn't directly affect your sexuality. There is a love/hate relationship with your father where you love him because he's your father, but you hate him because he is the dominant male role in the family (this part is mostly for boys, but can be for girls and their mothers), also most children, boys or girls tend to grow more attached with the one who spends more time and attention with them during their critcal period of life, this is usually the mother, but it can be the father depending on who is the dominant role in the family (the mother was work during the day, leaving the father to spend time with the child)

[Frisky]

IMO it's a random. Your born gay or straight.

[Lepore]

Love is Love
Not body parts.

Simple enough?

[Blinger1]

straight ftw!! Being gay would be weird in my house, dad picks on them :D

[:Liam]

The way I see it is:

Some people like Bacon
Some people like egg
Some people like both.

Its no different to food lol. Thats how I see sexuality, as a breakfast.

[Blinger1]

how can you compare being gay to food? Food is eaten, the only thing that MIGHT be eaten on a guy is their.. well you get the picture, or should i say tool?

[:Liam]

how can you compare being gay to food? Food is eaten, the only thing that MIGHT be eaten on a guy is their.. well you get the picture, or should i say tool?
I'm just saying its like a preference like colours some people like the colour red some like the colour blue and some like both. its just something that happens.

[Blinger1]

aha so its not about eating things..
and if you did then eew much?

[:Liam]

aha so its not about eating things..
and if you did then eew much?
sorry bad example on my part :P.

[Blinger1]

lol :P

I dont mind gays aslong as they are not too feminem, I also don't like it if they are kissing infront of me (or doing gay stuff, like touching each others tools and "butt cleavages" [wikipedia word]).. eew!

But i find chicks kissing hot :S

[:Liam]

lol :P

I dont mind gays aslong as they are not too feminem, I also don't like it if they are kissing infront of me (or doing gay stuff, like touching each others tools and "butt cleavages" [wikipedia word]).. eew!

But i find chicks kissing hot :S

I dont particularly like anyone kissing infront of me (straight or gay) or any sexual groping :P I dont care how feminine they are personally sometimes its just the way they are.

[Blinger1]

what would i be called?? (it isn't homophobic) because i love chicks kissing?/

[:Liam]

what would i be called?? (it isn't homophobic) because i love chicks kissing?/
straight lol.

[lew!]

Heterosexual? = Straight.

And good examples liam :P

[janetmoore-x]

gay sounds fun

[Throne Sofa]

1 in 9 Gay people in London have aids. :|

[Anarchy]

ok so its been proven that people are born straight so the question is why do you choose to be gay?

is it because:
1)you want to be different
2)you think its in style
3) or do you do it because the opposite sex has been horrible to you

i dont got notin against gay ppl i just wanna know the reasons y u choose to be gay

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[Samishlol]

People don't choose.

[brodeo]

1 in 9 Gay people in London have aids. :|

One in nine gay people in London were obviously stupid enough not to wear a condom while having sex then. But don't judge the rest of us on that? AIDS isn't just a gay persons virus..

[Decapitated!]

ok so its been proven that people are born straight so the question is why do you choose to be gay?

is it because:
1)you want to be different
2)you think its in style
3) or do you do it because the opposite sex has been horrible to you

i dont got notin against gay ppl i just wanna know the reasons y u choose to be gay

because i love somone?
and i dident choose really it just sort of took over.

[Samishlol]

I'm not gay but i love a boy.

[L!nK.]

I'm not gay but i love a boy.

your gay.

[Samishlol]

No i'm bisexual

[benjamin]

I'm not gay but i love a boy.
LOL

i wish i was gay

[L!nK.]

LOL

i wish i was gay


aint u already?????
:S

or are u bi?

[Samishlol]

Hes bisexual same as me

[benjamin]

aint u already?????
:S

or are u bi?
i was joking lol
i am

Hes bisexual same as me
er.

[Samishlol]

Your gay ? I just learnt something new..

[L!nK.]

don't take this offensively but

don't you both fancy girls?


at allll?

[Samishlol]

I've had 2 girlfriends, thats why i said i'm bisexual

[benjamin]

don't take this offensively but

don't you both fancy girls?


at allll?
i can tell if a girl is fit
that aint hard
i would get with a girl and prob do stuff
it just doesn't interest me like boys do
some would say that's bisexual but i know that i aint ever gunna settle down with a female or have a propper relationship with one
so in my eyes i'm gay.
gay but open minded? idk.

[L!nK.]

so you aint gonna have a family???

[benjamin]

so you aint gonna have a family???
i'd love one but i don't agree with gay marriages and gay people having children.

[L!nK.]

i'd love one but i don't agree with gay marriages and gay people having children.

So your not going to have a wife get married and have kids?

[Samishlol]

Apperently according to people at my school i'm gay.

[benjamin]

So your not going to have a wife get married and have kids?
no because women dont interest me unfortunately

[L!nK.]

Apperently according to people at my school i'm gay.
do you get cussed at school because of being gay?




also were abouts in hertfordshire you live?
my college is there


no because women dont interest me unfortunately

Ohh right kk

[Samishlol]

I live in Hemel Hempstead.

Yes i get asscused of being agy

[L!nK.]

oh k

u know where *REMOVED* is??

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[=Jen=]

Uhm.
You don't CHOOSE to be gay.

Honestly, if I had a choice.
I'd be straight.
People are jerks about me being bi-sexual.


And it's irritating.

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[EverSteve]

I live in Hemel Hempstead.

Yes i get asscused of being agy
He said Cussed, not accused? And well done.

[Alan_Carr]

Its up to them
It ent genes, its how they react with others and i reckon social skills.
Respect people even if they are gay etc

[drama]

ok so its been proven that people are born straight
lmao!
prove it.

[tart]

I live in Hemel Hempstead.

Yes i get asscused of being agy


omg i live in hemel !!!!

highfield tbh

[Homesrfan]

You aren't born with a sexuality, hence why babies don't crawl around sexing each other.
That has nothing to do with it. That has to do with hormones and all that junk...

[beth]

cause i love da vag.

[Mentor]

ok so its been proven that people are born straight so the question is why do you choose to be gay?

is it because:
1)you want to be different
2)you think its in style
3) or do you do it because the opposite sex has been horrible to you

i dont got notin against gay ppl i just wanna know the reasons y u choose to be gay

That hasn't been proven, in fact quite the opposite actually has. There's a great deal of evidence showing that sexuality is determined before birth, both in humans and pretty much every other animal species on the planet.
Gay people no more choose to be gay, than straight people do to be straight.

[Virgin Mary]

That has nothing to do with it. That has to do with hormones and all that junk...
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It can therefore be assumed that until puberty, or whatever age such hormones come into action, your sexuality is most likely neutral.

[Cryptoo]

y do u choose to b straight?

[Virgin Mary]

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[WarezKid]

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[Lepore]

You just perfer the same sex or the other.
Thats just my opinion.

[Lubricant]

i dont want to be gay becasue i dont want a penis up my bum :'(

It hurts :(

Quite alot of gay couples or gay people having sex don't like that either. if you're gay doesn't mean you have to have **** sex.

[xiao]

i am cos its so cool

[Naruto!]

This thread was created by a WUM.

[Jinc]

I'm emo so the world has abandoned me. I thought it wouldn't hurt to lose my dignity too and label myself gay. Now if anyone says nasty things I can say they're homophobic. So it's all good, but I'm sure the phase will pass.

[Nether$]

Peer pressure- its cool to be gay so why not?

[WarezKid]

Quite alot of gay couples or gay people having sex don't like that either. if you're gay doesn't mean you have to have **** sex.

what does gay then mean LOL

[brodeo]

what does gay then mean LOL

Being attracted to the same sex :rolleyes:
Someones educated...

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