Log in

View Full Version : Slight situation (:



lolwut
19-11-2007, 08:19 PM
Well yeah,
There's this girl who I know who I know for a fact likes me.
And there's this boy I really like, not sure if he likes me 'cause you know how it is with same sex stuff. Gonna tell him I'm bi in a bit.
And if I went out with the boy then I know the girls gonna go mad and she's my mate.
Oh yeah, got no idea how he's gonna take it when I:
1) Tell him I'm bi.
2) Tell him I like him.

Leave it and find someone else?
Just ask the boy anyway?
I really do not know.

+Reps to help.

Smits
19-11-2007, 08:21 PM
Go for it, i know i'm here saying this, yet i can't go for it myself.

You should talk to the boy, see how he reacts when you tell him. Then take it from there.

If the girl is really your friend, she will accept you decisions and respect you for them.

Ailerons
19-11-2007, 08:25 PM
Whichever one has the most money!

Nah, I kid.

Tell the boy you're bi, at first. If he's ok with it, slowly move onto you developing a relationship. Btw, is this boy bi/gay? It would help, I guess.

Talk to the girl and see what she thinks.

RandomManJay
19-11-2007, 11:07 PM
Best is to tell him, if hes fine with it, grow more attracted to him, and see if he shows an interest in you, dont want to go in quick and scare him away

5,5
19-11-2007, 11:30 PM
Go with your heart

Zak
20-11-2007, 12:52 AM
Go with your heart

best advice yet.

Frisky
20-11-2007, 01:04 AM
Id say:

*Tell him
*Wait abit untill you tell him you like him incase he's freaked out, let him get used to you..
***** the girl, do what YOU want to do.

FlyingJesus
21-11-2007, 12:42 AM
Errr actually I'd first try to find out if the guy swings that way, if not then there's no point jeopardising any friendship with him by telling you want his joystick.

Stephen
21-11-2007, 11:14 AM
Errr actually I'd first try to find out if the guy swings that way, if not then there's no point jeopardising any friendship with him by telling you want his joystick.

In other harry potter language words..

tell him you want his wand of destiny (love that name... wand of destinyyy :D)

Also yes no point saying you love him etc if his not bi/gay. If he is then great but theres a high possibility he might not be bi/gay.

flux
21-11-2007, 11:18 AM
First tell him you're bisexual, and wel if he has a problem with it then don't go any further and say that you like him.

&If the girl was a good mate, she would understand if you liked the guy deep down and didn't like her. Don't go out with someone just because if you don't they won't be your friend, it shouldn't work like that.

Jeffers
21-11-2007, 11:20 AM
I think the thread starter is lying.

Edited by Garion (Forum Moderator): Please do not post pointlessly, thanks :).

lolwut
21-11-2007, 04:42 PM
I think the thread starter is lying.

Edited by Garion (Forum Moderator): Please do not post pointlessly, thanks :).
How am I lying?

Oh btw; I just decided to go with my heart and do what I want to do.
Thanks all.

Want to hide these adverts? Register an account for free!