Confuzzled.

[EverSteve]

Hi,

Yeh well ill try make this as short as possible

Basically I got dumped about 1 month ago, and I thought I 'Loved' that person, and I'm not sure if im even over him yet. Im still really confused why and what etc. But anyway

I then got into a online relationship, and we was gonna meet every 3 months, but i couldn't really do that because when i was in a relationship meeting every 2 weeks it toar me appart...so I had to stop going out with them although I was so wanting it to work :|.

I'm now dating someone else, and hes from where I am, but I'm not sure if I will ever put the trust into love, I mean ive trusted 2 people with Love, and they've both ended with me being hurt, I don't know if i can deal with it again? Plus I dont think we will work

And then today, some boy stared at me infront, then as we passed we both looked at each other from behind. Did he fancy me? My best mate was there and i couldn't do anything, plus i proberbly wouldn't as im really shy.

Argh everythings such a mess, I dont think i can do a long distance, I dont think i can love this person because I can't put trust into someone who ive only known a couple of weeks.

Anyone else been heartbroken and been able to give someone else their love and how long did it take....

[Zak]

Try and stay closer to home, find some girls when you go out, at school or work.

I think you thought you were in "love", you can love someone no matter what they do, maybe you loved them. Of course they didn't love you.

Just be yourself, thats all you can be. Online relationships, most of the time fail. Just be outgoing and don't worry about these things, your still young. :)

[lew!]

Hah, Im the same.. Apart from if my mate was there id still stare :P
I wouldnt go and talk though.. Because im .. Shy.. Well not shy. .Just im not very good talker.. i cant just go and go hi can i have ur number im gay.. LOL ;p

[BobX]

bit of a pickle there :S

i would suggest you just tell the person online that you don't think it will work and that you need to see him more often.

Also don't be too shy, slip a smile in and eye-contact when someone looks at you like that. He may stop and talk to you ;)

good luck =]

[JackHb]

Hi,

Yeh well ill try make this as short as possible

Basically I got dumped about 1 month ago, and I thought I 'Loved' that person, and I'm not sure if im even over him yet. Im still really confused why and what etc. But anyway

I then got into a online relationship, and we was gonna meet every 3 months, but i couldn't really do that because when i was in a relationship meeting every 2 weeks it toar me appart...so I had to stop going out with them although I was so wanting it to work :|.

I'm now dating someone else, and hes from where I am, but I'm not sure if I will ever put the trust into love, I mean ive trusted 2 people with Love, and they've both ended with me being hurt, I don't know if i can deal with it again? Plus I dont think we will work

And then today, some boy stared at me infront, then as we passed we both looked at each other from behind. Did he fancy me? My best mate was there and i couldn't do anything, plus i proberbly wouldn't as im really shy.

Argh everythings such a mess, I dont think i can do a long distance, I dont think i can love this person because I can't put trust into someone who ive only known a couple of weeks.

Anyone else been heartbroken and been able to give someone else their love and how long did it take....

You shouldn't let your self fall into "love" so easy, it is probably just you being infactuated by them.

You will probably have lads upset you/break your heart/ or whatever loads more times. Just gota get over it.

You just need to learn not to fall for someone so quickly.

[BobX]

oh my gosh like u said about some boy staring at u in the street:

i was in the hairdressers and i had this like well good lookin lad cutting my hair. and he kept rubbing his uhm area on my elbow, idk if it was intended but oh my god :O

[Moh]

I haven't been in love for about 2 years and yep she broke my heart. She knew how much I loved her and so did my best friend. So what did my best friend do? Make arangements with her, then say he callled and I said I didn't want to go out (Which he never). In this time he was with her, he ended up asking her out and then theres me heart broken. I laught about it now with me turning out gay =]

But where I live, theres no "nice" gay/bi guys so im a bit screwed :(
But I did meet some one online (Lives 20 min train ride away from me) who Im beggining to like :)

So I hope you find that special person, not someone who will mess you around etc.. You need to get to know people more and get to know there personality before getting into relationships with them.

[EverSteve]

Same Jack and I live in the South Not east, everyone seems to live in London rofl! Soz about not replying for like years i lost my p/w. I'm meeting someone for 2 weeks, but i dont wanna get to attached just incase it dosn't work out, so im keeping my clingyness of for the time being...