My Mum :@

[Samishlol]

Omg my mum is so un-greatful. She asked me to tidy up the house and then he goes it's not good enough i swear i just want to hit her. But if i could i will get my laptop taken of me.

Shes only tidying up because her friend from Poole is coming down

[L!nK.]

your so lazy

dont expect people to be nice to you on this thread.

fool

[Samishlol]

No i don't expect that.

[Breakfloor]

hello *nice to you* :D

[Samishlol]

Haha lets not turn this thread into spam

[Breakfloor]

:( ok

dont hit her. i have the exact same problem with my mum. she never says anything about the good stuff i do but always says stuff bout the bad things.

then when shes wrong she never apologises but when im wrong i have to.

[Samishlol]

My mum is like that shes like i do everything for you and she never..

[dirrty]

and the problem is what?
your mum isnt doing anything wrong. OBVIOUSLY she wants the house presentable, and you cant even tidy it?

o wow, must be really hard doing what she asked you to do >.<

[Samishlol]

I did tidy it but shes such a *****. She bloody had ago at me for breaking the ash-tray so i told her she shouldn't be smoking anyway

[Breakfloor]

i think i know whay hes saying because my mums the same

i think he means he cleaned the house the best he could but she didnt appreciate it and said its crap

[Slash]

I did tidy it but shes such a *****. She bloody had ago at me for breaking the ash-tray so i told her she shouldn't be smoking anyway
You break something and you're mad at her for shouting at you?
wow..

[dirrty]

I did tidy it but shes such a *****. She bloody had ago at me for breaking the ash-tray so i told her she shouldn't be smoking anyway
just because you tidying up, doesnt mean that its actually tidy. you could move one item and say its tidy, without it being tidy. you should know your mums expectations by now, and i cant see how tidying up is so difficult. she knows that she shouldnt be smoking, and that its decreasing her life expectancy, but using that against her is kinda lame.

[Samishlol]

It's a ash-tray they only cost 75p or something jez.

[Slash]

It's a ash-tray they only cost 75p or something jez.
Still, you broke something and you're annoyed at your mum for being mad.

[Samishlol]

I got annoyed at her cos she started swearing with my little brother in the room.

[Zuar]

I got annoyed at her cos she started swearing with my little brother in the room.
he's gonna learn it one time or another..

[Samishlol]

So learning to swear at 7 years old is good?

[Slash]

So learning to swear at 7 years old is good?
I knew about swearing when I was 3/4. I've turned out pretty well..

[L!nK.]

I heard this is because of bed wetting, dno if its true.

[Stephen]

When you tidy, do you take out the wet sheets from your bedroom?

[lAdmire]

your so lazy

dont expect people to be nice to you on this thread.

fool


and the problem is what?
your mum isnt doing anything wrong. OBVIOUSLY she wants the house presentable, and you cant even tidy it?

o wow, must be really hard doing what she asked you to do >.<

I agree. She provides all these things for you, the least you could do is tidy the house. & of course if someone is coming over, she's gonna clean the house. I know I wouldn't want to go over to someone's house or have someone come over to my house & it's an absolute mess.


You break something and you're mad at her for shouting at you?
wow..

I know. I break things, it's an accident, my mom gets mad, that's fine, I broke something. She should be mad.


just because you tidying up, doesnt mean that its actually tidy. you could move one item and say its tidy, without it being tidy. you should know your mums expectations by now, and i cant see how tidying up is so difficult. she knows that she shouldnt be smoking, and that its decreasing her life expectancy, but using that against her is kinda lame.

EXACTLY! There's a difference between tidying & just fixing things. You can move stuff & call it tidying, but it's only fixing. There's a difference. Maybe she wasn't impressed with what you did & felt you could've done better.


It's a ash-tray they only cost 75p or something jez.

Still, she has to go back out & spend it when she could use that on something else. Even IF it's not that much money.


Still, you broke something and you're annoyed at your mum for being mad.

Ano.


he's gonna learn it one time or another..

First disagreement in this conversation. Even if his brother is going to learn it someday, at 7 years old isn't the right time. I wouldn't want my 7 year old son going around swearing.

[Antony]

Omg my mum is so un-greatful. She asked me to tidy up the house and then he goes it's not good enough i swear i just want to hit her. But if i could i will get my laptop taken of me.

Shes only tidying up because her friend from Poole is coming down

If you hit her your laptop would be taken off you? Jesus, is that seriously what this world is coming to. What would make you want to hit your own mum - You are obviously the ungrateful one, your mum has brought you up and you should be bloody helping round the house you ungrateful git.

If you hit her, I hope she gets the police on you. Hypocrit.

[Stephen]

If you hit her your laptop would be taken off you? Jesus, is that seriously what this world is coming to. What would make you want to hit your own mum - You are obviously the ungrateful one, your mum has brought you up and you should be bloody helping round the house you ungrateful git.

If you hit her, I hope she gets the police on you. Hypocrit.

:eusa_clap That explains most of my thoughts about it.

My sister when she was 14 used to beat my mum for no reason. We think she has something wrong with her but my mum just can't take her to the doctors about it or mention it to anyone. 2 years later she still strikes out at my mum and sometimes hits her.

If my mate said that he just hit his mum I'd have a go at him most probably.

[5,5]

Kill her and dispose of the evidence. Its a win-win. You get to hit her, and keep your laptop :D

[Minstrels]

Dam dude, she puts a roof over your head and you can't be bothered to tidy up the flipping house so that it does look tidy? Then you want to hit your mum because she said it wasn't tidy enough? I wonder what kind of person you are then... :eusa_whis

[Samishlol]

No you got the wrong end. I tided up the house the best i could and shes still un-greatful.

[Stephen]

Dam dude, she puts a roof over your head and you can't be bothered to tidy up the flipping house so that it does look tidy? Then you want to hit your mum because she said it wasn't tidy enough? I wonder what kind of person you are then... :eusa_whis

His one that wets the bed

[Zak]

If shes so ungrateful, i say don't do anything for her.

Let her do it, then she can appreciate what you do.

LOL and I remember when my mum could take stuff off me, they don't stand a chance now :)

[Calisse]

parents are just people, and ALL people have good and bad sides.. your still a kid so itll take you a while to get used to people whinging in your ear and being able to do nothing about it...

as for swearing, swearing is just words, words that portray anger...

bottling anger up is much worse than learning swear words.

Try and be more helpful, put dish in sink, then wash it, then go on laptop, 2 extra minutes of your time might get rid of ten minutes of a parent ranting at you and 3 hours of being angry about it.


Dont shout back, ignore people who shout, they are boring, just say 'i understand your point of view, now please try to understand mine while i go... walk the dog / pick my nose / whatever action you want'




Some parents are never happy, and it really wears their children down and makes them depressed and angry all the time. The only thing you can do to avoid this is avoid them as much as possible, and try to avoid situations that would make them angry...

[buttons]

Lol, you guys are "hilarious"
Someone comes asking for advice and you just give them more troubles.
if you actually bothered to read his post instead of just looking at other comments and jumping down his throat, you would have seen what his main probably was,
his mum is UNGRATEFUL.
ok?
Sam, i don't know really, maybe next time your mums out, tidy up the place a bit so she can see you can do things without her asking you to do them, it'd be a nice suprise. xx

[Calisse]

agreed with buttons about taking your mum out, or if you cant afford it just do something nice, like cook her a meal, parents have been parents for years, they get worn down with cleaning (before you could help at all there was about 5 years of them doing everything you know, it all adds up to one tired crabby parent)

when I was a kid if my mum was shouty i would write her little letters 'dear mum, im sorry i am useless, i hope you know i still love you even though i am very messy'

lmao, things like that.

not suggesting you do that, that was when i was like 7, but the point is, remind her you love her, and maybe she will calm down.