Chucked out, awkwardly

[lolwut]

Couldn't think of a better thread title.
Basically, my girlfriends dad walked in on us getting off on her bed. And he wasn't like shouting but he was like, the tone of his voice changed loads. I was like, lying on her bed and she was like sitting on me, it must've looked really bad. He said "Right, you. Out. You're not coming back." to me and "You. Downstairs. Now." to her, and as I was going he went downstairs and started shouting at her. When I went, even with the front door shut, I could hear that he was clearly very angry.

I sent her a text that said, "Im so so sorry, tell your dad i didnt mean any harm to you x". Understandably, she hasn't replied back. As I walked back, I rang ChildLine and they said that I needed to talk to her as soon as I can.
That'll be at school tommorow.

I'm just wondering if any of you have had this happen to you, it's probably not that uncommon (or I'm hoping it isn't). And what happened afterwards?
Oh yeah and please don't post saying anything like "lol pwned". Please.

x

[Nixt]

I've never experienced this, but with my current girlfriend and myself I think if either of our parents walked in on us getting off they would just close the door and walk out again, so I suppose we're lucky. As childline said, speak to her as soon as possible and perhaps see if you can speak to her dad and apologise? Explain that there wasn't anything really happening! Who knows, after calming down he might understand.
If you don't mind me asking how old are you both?

[graffiti]

you could try giving her a present and on the tag saying sorry for all iv'e done? idk really sorry, thats what id do lol

[Naythi.]

A presant what for?

You havnt done anything wrong, Her dad must have some issues and unless your like loads older than her.. Why have a problem.

Obviously dont want his daughter to grow up :)

[lolwut]

I've never experienced this, but with my current girlfriend and myself I think if either of our parents walked in on us getting off they would just close the door and walk out again, so I suppose we're lucky. As childline said, speak to her as soon as possible and perhaps see if you can speak to her dad and apologise? Explain that there wasn't anything really happening! Who knows, after calming down he might understand.
If you don't mind me asking how old are you both?
Yeah, I'll try to talk to him. I doubt it'll be that easy though.
Lol, I'm 13, she's 12.


you could try giving her a present and on the tag saying sorry for all iv'e done? idk really sorry, thats what id do lol
I guess I could write something like that on her xmas present and give it her early.


A presant what for?

You havnt done anything wrong, Her dad must have some issues and unless your like loads older than her.. Why have a problem.

Obviously dont want his daughter to grow up :)
There's only about a 7 month age gap between us, but I guess he cares about her. Which is fair enough.

Btw; I've just got a text from her saying, "I'm so sorry about that... Did you get home ok? Ily xxxx". I might try to ring her back, good or bad idea?

[cocaine]

if you're only 13 and she's 12 then its natural for her dad to be very protective of her. It would be different with 15-16 year olds but if it's 12-13 then I can understand why her dad reacted like that. Just try and talk to her, or maybe if you're feeling brave, go to her house and try to explain to her dad you didn't mean anything bad to happen.

[whoooosh]

thats understandable if shes only 12 !

[Brody]

well i expected you to be older than 13 and 12 so i can understand his point of view if i was a dad and my daughter was 12 and getting off with some1 in her room id kick you out too just try apologizing to the dad and say it wont happen again

[WarezKid]

same as above,


All i can say is be happy, also did you mean getting off as sex?

then rofl i be grabbing the kid out if i had a girl with a boy in her bedroom

[Naythi.]

12 :S

Shes only year 7?

Urm maybe he has a right to go abit mad then.

[Moozo]

oh rite i thought u were like 16
lol cant blame him is shes 12

[DeejayMachoo$]

Just to let you know they was just snogging and hes on the phone her via me

[Swinkid]

Isnt 12 bit young to be in "love" neways?

[DeejayMachoo$]

to be honised i dont think 12 is too young.. if u know what i did then well snogging is like.. nothing?

[Xarea]

The dad probably thinks that 12 is too young - which is probably right.

I'd just steer clear, full stop.

[Minstrels]

She's 12? No wonder her dad was kind of p'ed off with you and her. :eusa_whis

[Jazza]

Isnt 12 bit young to be in "love" neways?

Nobody said anything about them being in love.

Her father has a right to be angry, that is way too young to be doing anything remotely sexual.

[Roboevil]

If I was her dad, I would've broken your spine. I'd currently be typing this message in prison also.

[.L!nK.]

If I was her dad, I would've broken your spine. I'd currently be typing this message in prison also.

Damn you stole my mind.

But I thought you was old enough, but shes 12 :S
I would react the same way as him

[Stoosh937]

I wud LAUGH.

[Tristan]

If I was her dad, I would've broken your spine. I'd currently be typing this message in prison also.

LOL MITOROLAZ.

also, i fink 12 nd 13 iz a bit disgustin 2 b "gettin off" if u meen sx.

[Nixt]

By "getting off" I do hope you mean just kissing / snogging? If anything else was going on I can understand why he flipped :P.

[Browney]

Even if you were just kissing, I would've given you a right earful. Your 13 mate. Forget the fact that 12 is too young, your not much better at the ripe old age of 13.

[Nixt]

It's one years difference and they are both beginning to mature and explore 'things' ;). I can understand why her dad was angry but it's to be expected at their age.