Gah, problems.

[Charlie]

My girlfriend lives in Wales, which is about a 2/3 hour train ride away from where I live. I've been there twice with both our parents permission and everything was completely fine besides the fact her mom hates my guts.

We planned for her to come here and stay a couple of nights for new years, we talked about it, practically planned it, and my parents are 100% okay with it. Just when she asked her mom, she said no straight away, won't listen to what we've planned or anything and we are both really upset because we built our hopes up for this. We've decided to try and come up with something to try and help her agree, but we are running out of ideas, has anyone else got some sort of idea or advice on how we could make it work? :(

[Jamesy]

Talk to her mum and find out why she doesn't like you.

or your Girlfriend could tell your mum she is going round another friends and sneak off to see you :)

[Charlie]

I basicly lied to my girlfrien for the first 8 months of the relationship, and when I came out about it, my girlfriend was okay with it, obviously but her mom just hates my guts for it, and this was 2 years ago.

And, as for her going to her friends, her mom would want to drop my girlfriend at their house and stuff, and there is always the chance it could go wrong. I'm really running out of ideas that my girlfriend will actually do, and it's pretty upsetting.

[Jamesy]

I think you just need to get her mum on your side, get your parents to talk to her or talk to her yourself. It might be akward but you might just be able to persuade her.

[Fifteen]

Aww babe, I actully feel really sorry for you, i've been in a simular situation my boyfriends mum hated me, and said I was making him depressed and wasn't allowed to see him and thought I turnt him into a stoner, where it was the other way around :s its actully does get to you and was one of the many reasons me and my boyfriend broke up.

Well the only thing I can suggest is for her to run away and stay with you but that would just make things worst in the long run between her and her family. or she could just try and sort things out between her mum, her mum is obv going to be over protected and not really wanting her to go.

Good luck.

[Nixt]

Getting her to run away would be a really bad idea, you would never see her again. I say you need to talk to her mum, directly - on the phone preferably. Explain the situation and show you understand why she feels the way she does about you but tell her you care for her daughter and just want to see her etc etc.

[drama]

elope.

or, just try and talk her mum into liking you.

[lolwut]

I went into this situation, except it was my (now ex-)girlfriend who kept trying to invent reasons why I couldn't come up to see her, I asked her why and she goes, "'cos i dont love you." - lol, I'm not going there again.

Back on topic: Talk to her mum, ask her what's the matter with you, try to fix it?

Also, how old are you both?

[Bibliophobia]

Just talk to her mum properly, have an honest chat.

[FlyingJesus]

We gonna eeeeeelope
To Meeeeexico

[BlueEyedSarah]

I agree with the other posts, try and talk to her mum. If her mum still doesnt like you after that and/or will not let her daughter visit you over new years then you have to respect your girlfriends mum.