She's never gonna come bak.

[Andeeh]

some of you may have known that my mum was very ill and that my dad werent to good either,

i have got some bad news

this mourning my mum passed away and thats why i been on this cause i dont wanna open presents they got me.

she was a great women my mum and if any of you have experienced anything like this i dont know what to do any help??

Im thinkin of doing charity work for the organisation (MacMillan Cancer Team) because they helped my mum so much when she was ill.

I know you will think "What is he doin on the pc if his mum has passed away, well if you have never experienced a parent dying you just dont have a clue what to do"

anyway thanks

RIP Christine Smith <3

[Callum.]

I don't know much about this, but sorry for your loss.

[WarezKid]

.......


Mate,



I cannot really say anything,

All i can say through is,

You will get past it, and RIP mum ;(

[cocaine2]

damn, on christmas day too :(

sorry for your loss

[Brody]

sorry for your loss i dont really know what else to say but i hope u and your family are ok

r.i.p

[Nixt]

That's very sad :(. It must be hard for you and I am very sorry to hear it, RIP. If you do need someone to chat to drop me a PM; I don't think we've really talked but I've had a few good friends who have lost people close to them such as parents and although I cannot comprehend what you are feeling I have an idea of how you feel. Sorry again.

[Krusty]

ooh.
as above, PM me if necesary.. sometimes its easier to talk to people you dont know as well as they dont judge :)

sorry for the loss

r.i.p christine

[Mikkaoz]

It's very sad when a loved one passes on, but my thoughts are with you and your family.

I too have lost someone special, but remember things will get better, the best thing you can do is not forget, if you cry it shows you cared, and if you don't its ok too. :D

Keep strong.

[The Hoosiers]

Christmas Day as well :(.

R.I.P.

[PaulMacC]

Sorry to hear about, my she rest in peace.

RIP

[Ailerons]

Sorry to hear.

At least she is in peace now, R.I.P.

[Ugawa]

I'm so sorry, I know it probably doesn't mean much what I say but I really am sorry for what has happened

XX
Nia

[j]

She's in heaven looking down at you, make her proud :).


So sorry on Christmas :(.


R.I.P.

[Slash]

Awfully sorry about your loss, I hope you can pull through.
RIP.

[utox]

sorry to hear that, especially on christmas.. rip x

[Earthquake]

R.I.P, Atleast you know shes no longer suffering :(

[@K]

Sorry, my best mate's mum recently died, just over a month ago in fact, and she was like a mum to me, my advice is just try to keep busy and see the people you love.
.x

[GoldenMerc]

Aw ****, Christmas day RIP :'(

[blah blah blah]

Its a sad thing to lose someone you love. Sorry to hear that mate. i hope you and your dad pull through this hard time together ok. She is in a better place and you will see her again one day. I hope your dad is doing ok aswell, if hes still unwell???

[Pat McGroin]

R.I.P. mate, yesterday of all days. Sorry to hear about that.

[Cixso]

I'm sorry for your loss.

May she rest in peace, you'll find your comfort within your family & friends.

[Andeeh]

Thank you all for support and messages,

i know it seems weird but at night yesterday i just talk to her well not to her but i pretend shes watching over me and i just try and talk to her about people who send there love and that shes ok.

[Shawnstra]

Sorry for your loss, at least she is not in pain now, RIP :)

[ToiletPolice]

Aww, Im so sorry about your loss doll. I recently lost my next door neighbour, who was like a dad to me, i know it hurts, and sometimes you feel as if you dont see reason why you were born, but just remember the good times with her, smile when you think of her, its okay to cry, trust me, things like this are so hard, no-one ever feels the same ever again when they loose someone that close, just stay strong,and keep your head up high, i'm sure she doesnt want to see you mourn her, when she's not hurting anymore, she's safe, just keep busy, clean up things, at night, if you have any possesions of hers, just keep hold of them. if you need to talk, im here, ive felt it too, not as bad as you. R.I.P

[Wig44.]

Drop me a pm if you want, I've lost a brother.
PS: Sorry for your loss, do the charity work, it makes you feel better, believe me, I've been there after my brother died.

[EverSteve]

Your mum will always look over you im sure, she would rather let you enjoy your life than be sad. Im sorry :(

[Teyauna.]

:o Aww... I'm so sorry for your loss. Right now, it may seem like you'll never get through it, but you will. Just stay positive. I hope your family and everyone is okay.

[Andeeh]

Aww, Im so sorry about your loss doll. I recently lost my next door neighbour, who was like a dad to me, i know it hurts, and sometimes you feel as if you dont see reason why you were born, but just remember the good times with her, smile when you think of her, its okay to cry, trust me, things like this are so hard, no-one ever feels the same ever again when they loose someone that close, just stay strong,and keep your head up high, i'm sure she doesnt want to see you mourn her, when she's not hurting anymore, she's safe, just keep busy, clean up things, at night, if you have any possesions of hers, just keep hold of them. if you need to talk, im here, ive felt it too, not as bad as you. R.I.P


Thank you for that i agree with everthing you say, lol i been crying loads yesterday but not much today. I stuck up a picture of her on my wall so i cannot forget her face before she became ill. Also my dad and sister said that for her funeral she doesnt want much black so i getting some colourful clothes to were for it.

Im a bit better also cause my dad said i can put a song on for her and read out some stuff i wrote to say goodbye and celebrate her life.
Btw The song is by Phil Collins - You'll Be In My Heart

Also thanks again to everyone who has commented with messages! my mum would be thankfull

[ToiletPolice]

Aww bless ;] id write a poem for it aswell, or write your own song, its hard, but you'll pull through ;]

[Antony]

wow really sorry to hear about your loss, stay strong and always remember she's watching over you.

Really sorry mate.

[ItsDave]

some of you may have known that my mum was very ill and that my dad werent to good either,

i have got some bad news

this mourning my mum passed away and thats why i been on this cause i dont wanna open presents they got me.

she was a great women my mum and if any of you have experienced anything like this i dont know what to do any help??

Im thinkin of doing charity work for the organisation (MacMillan Cancer Team) because they helped my mum so much when she was ill.

I know you will think "What is he doin on the pc if his mum has passed away, well if you have never experienced a parent dying you just dont have a clue what to do"

anyway thanks

RIP Christine Smith <3

I dont know how you feel, but Ive been in the same area where my mum almost died. Her throat started to close up and stuff. And its rare to get and happens once. For my mum Its happened 3 times. May I just say you are so brave, and I am sorry for your loss. Hope you cope with this.
-
Xzoid

[Galactica]

So sorry to hear about this!

May She Rest In Peace

God Bless,
Josh

[Hitman]

Crap, so sorry to hear this. :( I feel sad. :( I hope you pull through this.

[Jamesy]

aww mate :(

charity work sounds a good idea, to be in memory of your mum while moving on and dong good for others too.

in the words of orange payasyougo:

Good things should never end :(

[yido]

aww man i feel for you R.I.P

[Robby]

Aww Im sorry to hear :(

R.I.P

[DiscoPat]

RIP, sorry to hear that, I hope everything gets better soon :S:(

[GhostFace-]

im so so sorry for your loss :(

may She Rest In Peace.

[sky s]

aww, dude.
that's awful.

i hope you rest in pce.
rip Christine :(
ps; my last names smith.

[Eight.]

..........

oh my god, On christmas day aswell that's so sad if my parents died will just go in a fit of rage I am deeply sorry for your parents R.I.P Mrs. Smith :( ;( That's making me emotional:eusa_wall

[Azul]

Oh jesus. I've only just seen this thread. This even makes me upset, wow you're being really brave and positive about things which is excellent.

I know my words don't mean anything but, i'm really sorry to hear this. May she rest in peace.

[GommeInc]

My dad passed away December 1st, and from experience I really do not know what to say other than keep those with you, now, close and talk to them :) The good memories will over-rule the bad (if any) and just remember that she went peacefully and isn't suffering anymore.

[sarey]

I'm very sorry for your loss. Especially on such a day...

Although the pain remains, the pain of losing someone so close to you, just remember your mum with good memories and don't look at her death as a bad thing, look at it as a good thing - no longer is she in pain, and she's still apart of you, she's still with you, she loves you and is very proud of you - I'm very sure of that. She's looking down on you right now and she is very proud. She'll always be in your heart.

R.I.P.

[WarezKid]

Man, how has it been :(?

[Hitman]

My dad passed away December 1st, and from experience I really do not know what to say other than keep those with you, now, close and talk to them :) The good memories will over-rule the bad (if any) and just remember that she went peacefully and isn't suffering anymore.
This year? :( RIP.

[Earthquake]

My dad passed away December 1st, and from experience I really do not know what to say other than keep those with you, now, close and talk to them :) The good memories will over-rule the bad (if any) and just remember that she went peacefully and isn't suffering anymore.
Thats actually sorry to hear, RIP :(

[GommeInc]

I lost my grandad in March aswell but anyway, ignore me. It's Andeeh's thread :)

[Tranquilox]

sorry.

rest in peace.

[Yidiyot]

I am very sorry to hear about your mum. May she Rest In Peace.

RIP

[Earthquake]

I lost my grandad in March aswell but anyway, ignore me. It's Andeeh's thread :)
You must be devasted tbh... Has it already hit you there gone because when that happens, we are all here for you :(

[Andeeh]

My dad passed away December 1st, and from experience I really do not know what to say other than keep those with you, now, close and talk to them :) The good memories will over-rule the bad (if any) and just remember that she went peacefully and isn't suffering anymore.

im sorry to here about your dad, it must be a tough time for you likewise.

Well an update about today:

Played on 360
Went to dinner round friend of families

I feel that i am starting to realise that my mum will never come bak but she will always be in my heart, i carry round a picture of her and me at legoland wereever i go.

Thanks
Andeeh
P.s I am writing a speech at her funeral does anyone have any tips of what to say,

all the best x

[Elliott$]

Sorry to hear about your loss. :'( - Truly I mean it.

RIP Christine. - I hope she had a good life and it all turns out for the better.

[GoldenMerc]

im sorry to here about your dad, it must be a tough time for you likewise.

Well an update about today:

Played on 360
Went to dinner round friend of families

I feel that i am starting to realise that my mum will never come bak but she will always be in my heart, i carry round a picture of her and me at legoland wereever i go.

Thanks
Andeeh
P.s I am writing a speech at her funeral does anyone have any tips of what to say,

all the best x
Say how much of a good person she was, Maybe say something that was memrable to you and her which was like special in a way :)
Hope you get better i dont think i could live without my mum.

[GommeInc]

im sorry to here about your dad, it must be a tough time for you likewise.

Well an update about today:

Played on 360
Went to dinner round friend of families

I feel that i am starting to realise that my mum will never come bak but she will always be in my heart, i carry round a picture of her and me at legoland wereever i go.

Thanks
Andeeh
P.s I am writing a speech at her funeral does anyone have any tips of what to say,

all the best x
Find a theme and work around that. A theme could be why she was a good mother and expanding that like how caring she was etc. Or find something people remember her by. At my dads funeral my brother worked around my dad's smile which everyone knew him for. Maybe you could find something like that?

[Andeeh]

Say how much of a good person she was, Maybe say something that was memrable to you and her which was like special in a way :)
Hope you get better i dont think i could live without my mum.

Thanks for the tips

Find a theme and work around that. A theme could be why she was a good mother and expanding that like how caring she was etc. Or find something people remember her by. At my dads funeral my brother worked around my dad's smile which everyone knew him for. Maybe you could find something like that?
Thank you for the tips aswell

I think i might talk about when we used to go to france and the times we had over there

when i think ive done ill try and post it on here thanks

[tdi]

sorry for your loss :(

[Kulas]

Yeh got your messege on xbox.

So sorry dude just think of all the happy times you had and like the other person said they will over rule. I hope you can get through this and dont commit sucuide because we have alot for gaming to be done on COD4.

So sorry about that dude.

Rip Christine Smith Remembered <3

P.s always keep that photo with you :)

[<?PHP>]

Sorry for your loss. . . Shame on christmas day too

RIP :`(

[Robby-Bobby]

Im Really Sorry For Your Loss

xx

:(

[StripedTiger]

Thats really upsetting :( I know you may not want pity at times like this, but im sure there are many people here for you, friends and family members.

I think your idea for charity work i an excellent idea. The main thing is to get your school/work/college involved and do some things to help raise money. Simple things as non-uniform days, making cakes, even doing raffles and small competitions can raise a lot of money.
When i was at school, we done many different things. One of which was a brilliant night when we done teachers vs pupils. This involved instrument playing, singing, even things like chess games were a popular hit.
If you need any more ideas im sure your boss/ lecturer / tutor / teacher will help :)

[Nuka-Cola]

I cinda know how you feel i know its not even in the same league but a techer of myne died while i was in primary school hed been my teacher for three years and we dont actually know how he died. Its gets better. Think about all the good things she did for you in her life and all the other people around you. Im not going to say that everything will be fine in a few years because it wont be perfect but youll pull through and do the best you can. Sorry for your loss

[Ed.]

Sorry to hear about this.

R.I.P

[Catzsy]

Sorry, I am a bit late replying. I remember you posting before. I am sorry to hear the news and am thinking of you. We are only a pm away as Garion says :)

[Echo54321]

Maybe go and speak to a spiritualist When my dad passed away, ( The anniverisary is coming up soon ), I was lost, i didnt know what to do, then i saw a spiritualist, and they said, hes ok in the afterlife, and he is with a little girl ( which i'd rather not discuss ), and it made me feel like hes still here

[Echo54321]

Also, make a photoalbum, i have, and its good to look through, yh u cry and get sad, but your thinknig about them, and thinknig of all the wonderful things they have done

R.I.P

[Andeeh]

Thanks alot to Acqua who has helped me with poems and stuff!

i have decided to read these 2

God looked around his garden
And saw an empty space.
He then looked down upon this earth
And saw your smiling face.

God's garden must be beautiful,
He always takes the best.
For an unknown reason he took you
up to heaven,and shielded you with grace.

It broke our hearts to see you go,
But you did not go alone.
For part of us went with you,
The day God called you home.

and

Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there, I did not die.

Thank you all for the comments,

[Andeeh]

Sorry if you call it bumping or w.e but i just wanted to say about funeral today.

It was such a emotional experience.
But the service at the church was done in a dignified manner to mum.
Then at the chapel was were i said my poems

Everyone thought they were fantastic so thanks.

It has been a manic day with tears, smiles and laughter

Love you Mum always

Andeeh x x x

[utox]

i posted a while back in this topic, i remember reading the original topic aswell.. glad the funeral went well, and all funerals are emotional.. don't worry about it.

just think about the happy times. :)

[Jackboy]

some of you may have known that my mum was very ill and that my dad werent to good either,

i have got some bad news

this mourning my mum passed away and thats why i been on this cause i dont wanna open presents they got me.

she was a great women my mum and if any of you have experienced anything like this i dont know what to do any help??

Im thinkin of doing charity work for the organisation (MacMillan Cancer Team) because they helped my mum so much when she was ill.

I know you will think "What is he doin on the pc if his mum has passed away, well if you have never experienced a parent dying you just dont have a clue what to do"

anyway thanks

RIP Christine Smith <3

Sorry to hear about it :( My dad died 2 weeks before christmas. But you just have to look at it in certain ways. I got very upset, but within a few days i got on with my life, its what he would've wanted :P
So im very sorry for your loss :(


My dad passed away December 1st, and from experience I really do not know what to say other than keep those with you, now, close and talk to them :) The good memories will over-rule the bad (if any) and just remember that she went peacefully and isn't suffering anymore.
I can relate to that ^ :P

[Andeeh]

Sorry to hear about it :( My dad died 2 weeks before christmas. But you just have to look at it in certain ways. I got very upset, but within a few days i got on with my life, its what he would've wanted :P
So im very sorry for your loss :(


I can relate to that ^ :P

Im sorry to hear about your dad.

If you need any1 to talk to drop a pm.

Its good for me and maybe you to know that your not alone

[edible]

i'm sorry for your loss.
glad the funeral went well.
also, i think what you're doing is really good.
xxx

also; all funeral's are emotional, i suppose they're suppose to be.
but they can be happy too :)
i'd know, i've sung at alot of funerals.

[AnonymousUser]

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[wummer]

i am really sorry for that, RIP, if she was in pain like real bad, well it wud be for the best sorry i hope ur family and you are alrite