This Lad.

[Naythi.]

Right,

I have been talking to this lad who is nearly 20 on Msn... (Im 15).

He is always asking me to go on cam, 'Play With Myself' on cam etc.. Im up for it some times, but hes always like it.

He is real sweet and good looking plus He only lives like 5 mins up the road, but im confused as what too doo.

Because..


There is this girl who i also like, But everybody tells me to just forget about her because she treats me like ****.


What should i doo?
I dont want to have a relationship with a guy yet, i feel like im too young plus the girl will just get hurt.
But on the other hand i realy like the guy.


Making me pritty sad tbh =[

[Frisky]

You don't have to be in a relationship at all.

But IMO, i'd rather go out with someone who was older and treated me nicely instead of the girl being a *****.

[Naythi.]

She got of with this lad on cam.. I was like :O
OMG I SO CANT BELIVE YOU DID THAT :(


But then she was saying oh it didnt feel right?wtb!..

But yeah again.. I go showing my 'Tool' to other lads.. Doesnt that make me as bad as her?

[Alan_Carr]

LOL!

YOU NEED TO MAKE YA MINDS UP, AND STOP SHOWING OTHER PEOPLE YA DING DONG CHINA MONGS TO DIFF PEOPLE MATE

[lew!]

Have you told your mum about your feelings for the people? Becuase mums are best to talk to ;)
But If she treats you like ****, then cross her off the list. You dont want somone who doesnt care do you?
And about the guy, meet up with him, not for a sexual relationship, you dont want to be called a male **** now do you, So get to know him, and start a relationship with him IF you like him, dont jump into the sex.

[d17c]

Have you told your mum about your feelings for the people? Becuase mums are best to talk to ;)
But If she treats you like ****, then cross her off the list. You dont want somone who doesnt care do you?
And about the guy, meet up with him, not for a sexual relationship, you dont want to be called a male **** now do you, So get to know him, and start a relationship with him IF you like him, dont jump into the sex.

I disagree, my mum is impossible to talk to, she hates me.

Ontopic: The relationship with the guy would just be a sexual thing tbh, as it seems that's all he's interested in, but the girl doesn't seem to be any better.
I would advise you to ignore them both, apart from when you feel like ******* on cam, then you can use the guy ;)
But none of them seem to be good relationship material.
Although I don't really know much.

[Hitman]

Yeah, my mum wouldn't ever talk to me about anything sexual. :S Thinks I'm still a child haha.

I wouldn't go showing your penis to some guy... and he's 5 years older than you (regarding you're a minor!)

I'd just meet some other guys/girls you know with a similar age.

[d17c]

Yeah, my mum wouldn't ever talk to me about anything sexual. :S Thinks I'm still a child haha.

I wouldn't go showing your penis to some guy... and he's 5 years older than you (regarding you're a minor!)

I'd just meet some other guys/girls you know with a similar age.

My mum just doesn't talk to me at all, I win :)

But yeah, older guys are always hotter when you're young. Then as soon as you get older, it flips round. If you get bored, you could always report him to the police though ;)

It's kinda difficult to meet gay guys your own age though, apparently, my friend's been looking for other gays his age and can only find those desperate teens that want to fap on cam.

[ToMmO258]

Sounds like a case for Jerry Springer tbh.

[d17c]

Sounds like a case for Jerry Springer tbh.

..? Not at all.

[Naythi.]

Jerry Springer Show. Ha

My mum, is like the worlds most hardest person to talk to about that.
Hence i always ask mates for advice.


Well its been a while now, Me and the girl are not even that close any more, shes been speaking to her Ex boyfriend, now shes totaly changed.
Relationships aye.


Been texting the lad alot recently, realy like him.
But i dont want a Gay relationship at age of 15, and if me and him were closer i know he would want that.

Lol.

[Jordy]

You genuinely sure he's not a paedophile or something? I don't want to jump in as the internet police, but the way you tell it, you seem the victim of online paedophilia. Are you genuinely sure he lives 5 minutes away from you?

You should find out more about him and see if he's real, and I'd never go on webcam for someone if they asked me too, not only does it seem dodgy, it's cheeky.

[Mitch4?]

Better idea, go on cam for me [h]

K joke, but yeah,
I think tbh, a 20 year old who is asking you to go on cam is basically going to use you, no offence but mostly there at the horniest stage, and they'll be right *****.
And if the girl is that monged out to kiss someone on cam, then kick her off too, you'd be better off alone at this moment in time.

[Catzsy]

Jerry Springer Show. Ha

My mum, is like the worlds most hardest person to talk to about that.
Hence i always ask mates for advice.


Well its been a while now, Me and the girl are not even that close any more, shes been speaking to her Ex boyfriend, now shes totaly changed.
Relationships aye.


Been texting the lad alot recently, realy like him.
But i dont want a Gay relationship at age of 15, and if me and him were closer i know he would want that.

Lol.


Seriously its no different to not fancying a girl but really liking them as a friend. What would you do in those circumstances? I think you should just get this out of the way and say exactly what you have said here i.e. that you don't want a gay relationship at the age of 15. I am sure he will respect that and if not well you know that perhaps it's best not to be friends.

[today]

It really depends on you, do you like going on cam to show your tool off? If so do it, who are we to comment? Theres loads of lads who have the phrase "To do whoever before i die" or what ever so you know its down to you!

[Naythi.]

Nah im sure he lives 5 mins away from me.

And im sure he isnt a paedo.


Think ive fallen in love with him though Lol :S
I tend to do that so much these days.

Haha and no i didnt realy enjoy it.. I did it because i was asked to :P


Also, how can i just leave them both.
When i realy like the both for diffrent reasons.

Haha I Would Any Day Mitch :P Ha Joke

[d17c]

Technically, he is a paedo actually :)
And that's not love, it's more like obsession.
Hmm.. have a threesome?
That'll solve everything.

[Frisky]

Technically, he is a paedo actually :)

Yup, Your underage.

Have you seen this guy on cam to know if he's a real person etcetc?

If I were you i'd find someone your own age. It's much easier and they have more in common with you and are also at the same stage in life. :)

[Naythi.]

I know the lad in real life. Just he always wants to get closer and stuff.

Do you think id do that for a stranger :O :D

[$$]

ah, right.
your 15 and your falling in love with a 20 year old?
I don't see how anyone can fall in love at such a young age.
Also meet up with him if you really want to, if he trys something you don't like don't do it.
if you want to do something do it.
also i doubt he's after a relationship probably just a bit of fun which may lead into something different later alone the time line.

don't worry just go with the flow!