scared

[abnormal]

yeah.
well.
im bi and stuff, and i want to tell my parents to get it off my chest, but im so scared. i thought it'd be easier and stuff. all my friends know and shiz, but.

i dont want my parents to disown me. =[ i think my mom is a homophobe. i think.

anyone have advice on how to tell her? i'm thinking of waiting until im like 16... im 13.

[benjamin]

you're 13, there's your answer.

don't do it, not yet. could easily be a phase.

read my stickied thread at top of this forum :]

[lew!]

I knew since i was little, I told her in.. september 07 i think, I just turned 14 at the time.
I couldnt reallllly do it on my own, so my best mate told her for me, at the time i wasnt sure if i wanted to, but now im glad she did. Me and my mum can talk about anything really :P

But, One thing to remember: Every coming out is different.

When you DO tell her, make sure shes relaxed, you can bring somone for support,
Tissues (To cry lol)
She will go through the stages of denial, then they will blame theirself, then they will probberly go through some other bad stages, and it could be a while before they accept it.

My best freind told her mum, and she didnt accept it because her son is gay and she doesnt want a lesbian daughter too.

EDIT: just realised your female, Its kind of easier for girls to come out, Becuase it turns some guys on when they see lesbians / bisexual girls, But not the other way round.

[Ugawa]

as you're still quite young you might end up going straight when you get older. You might choose to wait, then tell them when you're older or 100% certain. I've known people that have been Bi for a while, then turned back to straight. Or if you choose to tell them now, you'll just have to confront what is going to happen, but remember once you tell them there is no going back. So make sure it's what you want.

All the best

XXNia

[Antony]

some people go through phases through puberty of thinking they are gay / bi and starting to be attracted to the same sex. I'd wait until you are 16 or something before you make any decisions on coming out, atleast then you will be 100% sure.

[d17c]

Yeah, same as the others have said, it's just a phase caused by hormones. Most teens go through the same thing, so it's not really worth coming out just yet. But, a little hint, just because it's only a phase, doesn't mean you can't act on it, go make out with girls ;)

[french]

Good luck coming out.

(Apparently you're fit so it should be no problem ;).)

[Ras]

Hi Jess apparently you're fit

btw tina is 13?!?! surprise init

[d17c]

Good luck coming out.

(Apparently you're fit so it should be no problem ;).)

Pics to prove? ;)

[paramoree]

thanks for all your support. i love you all. <3

AND MY NAME IS NOT FREAKING TINA. XD

[uh huh her]

snog a lass infront of her it's how my parents found out

[d17c]

snog a lass infront of her it's how my parents found out

Ahhh I'm slightly uncertain, feel like proving it to me? ;)

[Ras]

Can I call you Tina? please. Can josh too?

[Hxf Santa]

NOOO.

xD

[Ras]

I only believe youre bi if we can call u tina..

[buttons]

Good luck coming out.

(Apparently you're fit so it should be no problem ;).)
how does "being fit" make it easier to come out to your parents?

Hi Jess apparently you're fit

btw tina is 13?!?! surprise init
TINAAAAAAAAA <3

thanks for all your support. i love you all. <3

AND MY NAME IS NOT FREAKING TINA. XD
"you guys, are in my heart, i love you all" THAT'S WHAT TINA SAID.

NOOO.

xD
why u got loadsa accounts

I only believe youre bi if we can call u tina..
>.<'

[Ras]

wot? :l