Friend Died... Me + Girl Closer than ever..

[Jackie Jack™]

First off i wanna say RIP ALEX you will be loved and missed forever...
my friend died this weekend in a car crash....
The whole school is devistated and everyone is out of it, not being able to do homework ect.

But iv not really been affected by it until monday at school.. i guess thats when it hit me.. I almost busted into tears.. But iv been holding them back for ages..
Anyway last night at work i was outside + texting emily ( iv liked for a LONG TIME ) and i told her how i felt ect.. and she asked if i was outside and she came to me at work and we talked for like 20 mins about what is bothering us ect.. and she wanted to give me a hug but since she was in her car and i was outside doing work i didnt wanna risk someone comming out ect. and she didnt wanna get out of car (H) anyway idk i just feel really close to her now... and like she has told me she liked me but now when i ask she says freind only ( before the crash ) havent asked her now... but she texts me alot and iv told her im here if she ever wants to talk and i guess she was there for me today.. She keeps begging me to go to the funeral tommaorw but i dont think i can take it... im going to visitation tonight and its probably gonna make me break down...

But idk i just feel this strong connection between us now... Idk wot to do :[

[Ramones]

tell her you have 99 cooking

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[poll]

tell her you have 99 cooking

verry sorry i did lol and dont -Rep me for my adivce like normal -.-
umm just be yourself if you get upset then so be it just continue to talk and chat and see ho things go from there

[bo$$]

tell her you have 99 cooking

That almost made me laugh because of how stupid and random it was.


Anyways.. Sorry to hear about your friend and about the girl just keep doing what you're doing and eventually she'll come around

[Breakfloor]

tell her you have 99 cooking


i did lol. +rep

[Jackie Jack™]

tell her you have 99 cooking
Just shut up

verry sorry i did lol and dont -Rep me for my adivce like normal -.-
umm just be yourself if you get upset then so be it just continue to talk and chat and see ho things go from there
........ I am.. and i try to be very nice + sweet to her......

and idk i cant go to his visitation or funeral ill just bust out in tears... :[

[Breakfloor]

if you cry, you cry. go and show respect. your friend would want you to be there to celebrate his life.

[Elkaa]

and idk i cant go to his visitation or funeral ill just bust out in tears... :[

That's normal, and take that from someone whos been to more than his fair share of funerals in the past 3 years.

As for the girl, go as you please. Nothing said on here will affect your IRL decision with what you do.

[bo$$]

if you cry, you cry. go and show respect. your friend would want you to be there to celebrate his life.


Exactly. No ones gunna like single you out if you cry.. chances are everyone will be crying.

[Camy]

Yeah, i went to my first funeral on thursday :(

Its tough, but evry1 will be crying, your friend would want u there, i know i would if anything happened to me

[Tristan]

Why...? Why have we been cursed with your threads?!

But hey, 99 cooking could impress.

[MattyBoy]

Didnt you say the other day that your dog died so that girl kissed you?

[e5]

go to the funeral. :8

[MattyBoy]

say tomher "ill give you 1 mil on runescape"

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[Prick]

tell her you have 99 cooking

LMAO!!!
I seriously can't stop laughing when I read that post...

First it goes all serious..

"My friends died in a car crash and I'm gonna break down if I go to the funeral :("

"tell her you have 99 cooking".. just LOL

[Breakfloor]

10k cooked lobbies if you sex me up

no seriously, im sorry your friend died and good luck with the girl.

[Jackie Jack™]

Your people are really sad... My friend died + all you can do is joke about runescape.. pretty sad
and yea.. girl i was gonna go to visitation with went already so i think im just going to go to the funeral tommarow..

[Naruto!]

say tomher "ill give you 1 mil on runescape"
You just killed the joke. (no pun intended, i promise)

Anyway, glad to see that you have decided to go. R.I.P to your mate.
Hopefully you will bond with that girl :)

[Prick]

Your people are really sad... My friend died + all you can do is joke about runescape.. pretty sad
and yea.. girl i was gonna go to visitation with went already so i think im just going to go to the funeral tommarow..

Our laughs have nothing to do with your mate and neither does the runescape post.. That post was about the girl not about your friend.. Unless he was a girl

[bo$$]

say tomher "ill give you 1 mil on runescape"

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You fail. Sorry.

[french]

Heck 99 cooking can pull some fitties.

But anyway, just tell her how you feel? And about the funeral check your other thread.

[Pyroka]

I've loll'd at all the stuff said, including the "99 Cooking comment", but really your mate may have found that funny too. =P I don't mean to be disrespectful, but funerals are for remembering people for their good sides, not the fact they're dead and gone. That's where people get upset. The last funeral I went to, I almost cried in laughter because it was so funny and it was for my nan, who was quite literally the funniest person ever. I miss her, but you have the good memories.

Go to the funeral, really, it's what he'd want and if its what she wants to, go do it. I'm sure if he was your good mate he would only have the best interests for the people he would leave behind. ;]

[Prick]

Your talking about this girl or whatever but what the hell you've already posted a thread saying your in love with two other girls..

[Azul]

There was a young lad stabbed here in Leicester on New Years day, (i'm certain you've heard). He was the kinda lad EVERYONE knew. I didn't know him personally but my brother and his gf knew him really well, it has left the whole community devastated.

I live near a rough area and it is surprising how people can pull together in a time of sadness.