Friend Died... Totally Devistated

[Jackie Jack™]

Well a kid at my school passed away... I had him in a class one year and we just kinda saw eachother outside school and in the hallways...
I heard about his death and of course couldnt get it out of my mind
but now that i think about it im like depressed......

His funeral is tommarow and i think im going to lose it tonight + when i go tommarow :(
Idk i just want advice i guess :]

[jesus]

funerals are never a nice thing, but you do feel a lot better if you go rather than not doing as you feel like you have said goodbye properly.

dont forget its normal to be upset (however obvious this may sound lol) and everyone around you will feel the same.

sorry to hear anyway :(

[Jackie Jack™]

....... thanks :{ i got to find out when some of my freinds are going
i seriosuly dont wanna go.. i might just go to his grave after its all done and over with and say goodbye

[french]

May I ask how he died?

And funerals are hard, it's best to stay away if you feel that passionet.
I'd go on your own and pay your respect to him. R.I.P. :(.

[Catzsy]

One of my good friends died a few months ago. I was devastated even though I knew it was happening for a long time. Its the shock of it that gets you in the beginning and the anger that one so young could be taken. You have to do what's right for you but it would be nice for you to show your respects to his family as well as remember what a great person he was in life.


I think you may regret it otherwise but it depends if you can cope - I am sure his family would really appreciate it. I lit a candle for him and bought a helium balloon and took it somewhere we went, wrote a note on it and let it go. That helped me as well as a couple of friends that I met on Habbox/Habbo. Thats why this is such a good place. Sometimes you can say stuff that maybe you wouldn't say to your offline friends. R.I.P Alex Farkas 07'

[Orangeesh]

Well a kid at my school passed away... I had him in a class one year and we just kinda saw eachother outside school and in the hallways...
I heard about his death and of course couldnt get it out of my mind
but now that i think about it im like depressed......

His funeral is tommarow and i think im going to lose it tonight + when i go tommarow :(
Idk i just want advice i guess :]

Sorry to hear that Jack, funerals are funerals there never the place you want to be, but think of the funeral as a place to remember your friend of how a greater person he is.

[le harry]

rip to your friend. funerals are terrible but you'll feel alot better knowing that you went then if you didn't. :)

[Paulio]

It's always wierd when a school friend dies because their the same age as you and you think "what if it was me? :o"

I'm sure your friends are feeling the same way!

[Transmitting]

Sorry for your loss!

My advise is to keep busy.. otherwise you will be just sitting around thinking about him!

[Krusty]

go to the funeral. you'l probably regret it of you dont :(

r.i.p friend.

xx

[Jackie Jack™]

Yea i went :[ it was ok... i cryed when the casket came in but that was it
except for when they played a sad song

anyway it really sucks atm because all my friends going out for lunch ect.
and i got to go to work in an hour.. :[ Work is going to be really hard for me

and i just feel really bad because Emily ( girl i like ) came to the part where you say final good byes + he is burried and i didnt go say anything to her or give her a hug because i just didnt wanna go break down again.
But she is friends with a football player and she was hugging him + calming him down :(

R.I.P Alex, Great football player, friend and amazing person

[Tristan]

You posted this already in the 'Relationships' forum.
Something that seemed like:
"My friend just died. But now cause the girl I fancy is upset I am getting closer to her. Does she like me?" or whatever.
Stop the thousands of threads.
Sorry if this boy did die, but who cares about your blasted love life (for relationships forum thread)?
I also wouldn't be posting it all over the forum either...

[Alan_Carr]

You posted this already in the 'Relationships' forum.
Something that seemed like:
"My friend just died. But now cause the girl I fancy is upset I am getting closer to her. Does she like me?" or whatever.
Stop the thousands of threads.
Sorry if this boy did die, but who cares about your blasted love life (for relationships forum thread)?
I also wouldn't be posting it all over the forum either...

No need to be harsh.

[mousey]

life sucks sometimes.. go to his funeral... it wil maek you feel better.. how weird it sounds it does.

R.I.P Alex..

Its hard to understand it at first to lose someone so young. Never a nice experiance

[le harry]

and i just feel really bad because Emily ( girl i like ) came to the part where you say final good byes + he is burried and i didnt go say anything to her or give her a hug because i just didnt wanna go break down again.
But she is friends with a football player and she was hugging him + calming him down :(


jesus christ no one gives a **** about your love life, the thread was about your friend dieing and you having troubles going to the funeral or something - so keep it at that yeah?

Edited by ,Jess, (Forum Moderator): Please do not post rude or insensitive remarks towards another user.

[Teyauna.]

Just try and think of ALL the good times you had.